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dreamerdreaming -> RE: respect in a M/s relationship (3/3/2009 6:07:19 AM)

YAY!!!
 
You GO, girl![sm=banana.gif]




RedMagic1 -> RE: respect in a M/s relationship (3/3/2009 6:28:05 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wildchild62
i am just seeking clarification so i dont repeat and get into a bad situation again.

What kind of relationship do you want?  What would it look like?  Clarification starts there.




EclipseAbove -> RE: respect in a M/s relationship (3/3/2009 8:48:12 AM)

Sounds like a case of being involved in a relationship where nothing was defined or discussed.  That creates a situation where nobody really knows their responsibilities and obligations and what they can expect.  Or worse that the discussion was simply a "Master/slave" relationship leaving everything up to the countless different definitions of what is a "Master" and what is a "slave".  Real honest productive communication is the key to a relationship of any kind - be it friends, lovers or Master/slave.




Lockit -> RE: respect in a M/s relationship (3/3/2009 10:01:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wildchild62

i thank Yyou all for responding, i HAVE removed myself from said relationship. i am just seeking clarification so i dont repeat and get into a bad situation again. i am taking any and all advice and filing it away. i am happy that i have made the decision i made and have NO desire to go back to that. blessed be to ONE AND Aall


You said the same thing last week and anyone who does a search can see it. lol You do like patterns.




wildchild62 -> RE: respect in a M/s relationship (3/3/2009 10:08:57 AM)

as i said last week, i was and am out of this relationship. The ONLY reason i asked this question was something was said to me by someone that knew both me and the Dom.. When i said something about this being one of many issues that had started to be raised, i was told as i said "the slave has NO rights"....this was from another slave.....so i decided to ask the forum...i have only recently discovered the forums on here




Mercnbeth -> RE: respect in a M/s relationship (3/3/2009 10:28:30 AM)

M/s...(Master and slave)
 
those two letters, separated by a slash (or those two words, joined together with an and) are the only expected common threads between this slave's relationship with Master and the next M/s couple to come along.
 
to put it another way:
 
what should or shouldn't be done as well as what constitutes respect or diminishment, within the M/s relationship context, is completely up to the individuals involved.




DesFIP -> RE: respect in a M/s relationship (3/3/2009 3:40:07 PM)

Do you really want to spend the rest of your life sitting at a computer hoping he'll come online for a minute? If you don't, then don't agree to a relationship like this.

As far as respect goes, either you both have it or you will have a short and resentful relationship.




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