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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch

I remember my favorite scene with my last Sir like it was yesterday.  He did not restrain me in any way.  He merely leaned over and whispered in my ear, “Hold perfectly still.  Do not move.  This isn’t about you.  This is about me and my pleasure.”
That is the hottest thing anyone has ever said (or done) to me.

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*Melts*

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

~Fast Reply~
I do enjoy it, a great deal and how I enjoy it tends to be... complicated. I would prefer to orgasm but it's also very nice to just... be used. It sort of like being being given flowers randomly except it's more of a random display of dominance.
Hopefully that makes some sense! [:)]

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

Do those of you (subs) in a D/s relationship crave being used by your Dom?   Having the "rode, hard, put up wet" feeling?   Does it leave you feeling like something wasn't finished?  or Are you satisfied and contented simply because you were used?    I know this may not necessarily be just a D/s but it's from the /s angle that I'm looking at it.  

It's hard to explain the "no feelings" when you have feelings for your Dom.   It wouldn't illicit the same feelings if it were a first time partner or a stranger.   But there are times where I do crave the walk in the door, told to bend over the table, yank my panties down, and to quote a very old cliche', wham, bam, thank you maam, slap on the ass and "where's supper" question.    Whether or not I orgasm is immaterial.   It's the He took what He wanted ... He used me to His satisfaction that I needed.   It's the "no feelings", but yet a feeling of  being completely controlled (for me anyway).

Just curious as to others thoughts and opinions.  [:)]  

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Do those of you (subs) in a D/s relationship crave being used by your Dom? Having the "rode, hard, put up wet" feeling? Does it leave you feeling like something wasn't finished? or Are you satisfied and contented simply because you were used? I know this may not necessarily be just a D/s but it's from the /s angle that I'm looking at it.

It's hard to explain the "no feelings" when you have feelings for your Dom. It wouldn't illicit the same feelings if it were a first time partner or a stranger. But there are times where I do crave the walk in the door, told to bend over the table, yank my panties down, and to quote a very old cliche', wham, bam, thank you maam, slap on the ass and "where's supper" question. Whether or not I orgasm is immaterial. It's the He took what He wanted ... He used me to His satisfaction that I needed. It's the "no feelings", but yet a feeling of being completely controlled (for me anyway).

Just curious as to others thoughts and opinions.

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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch

I remember my favorite scene with my last Sir like it was yesterday.  He did not restrain me in any way.  He merely leaned over and whispered in my ear, “Hold perfectly still.  Do not move.  This isn’t about you.  This is about me and my pleasure.”
That is the hottest thing anyone has ever said (or done) to me.

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ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave

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i have to say that i love this kind of use... i don't even want to orgasm when He does that, it just doesn't seem important...only His pleasure is.  In a way however, i get a kind of mental orgasm out of it because it makes me so completely and amazingly happy lol! [:)]

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

Do those of you (subs) in a D/s relationship crave being used by your Dom?   Having the "rode, hard, put up wet" feeling?   Does it leave you feeling like something wasn't finished?  or Are you satisfied and contented simply because you were used?    I know this may not necessarily be just a D/s but it's from the /s angle that I'm looking at it.  

It's hard to explain the "no feelings" when you have feelings for your Dom.   It wouldn't illicit the same feelings if it were a first time partner or a stranger.   But there are times where I do crave the walk in the door, told to bend over the table, yank my panties down, and to quote a very old cliche', wham, bam, thank you maam, slap on the ass and "where's supper" question.    Whether or not I orgasm is immaterial.   It's the He took what He wanted ... He used me to His satisfaction that I needed.   It's the "no feelings", but yet a feeling of  being completely controlled (for me anyway).

Just curious as to others thoughts and opinions.  [:)]  

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

Do those of you (subs) in a D/s relationship crave being used by your Dom?   Having the "rode, hard, put up wet" feeling?   Does it leave you feeling like something wasn't finished?  or Are you satisfied and contented simply because you were used?    I know this may not necessarily be just a D/s but it's from the /s angle that I'm looking at it.  

It's hard to explain the "no feelings" when you have feelings for your Dom.   It wouldn't illicit the same feelings if it were a first time partner or a stranger.   But there are times where I do crave the walk in the door, told to bend over the table, yank my panties down, and to quote a very old cliche', wham, bam, thank you maam, slap on the ass and "where's supper" question.    Whether or not I orgasm is immaterial.   It's the He took what He wanted ... He used me to His satisfaction that I needed.   It's the "no feelings", but yet a feeling of  being completely controlled (for me anyway).

Just curious as to others thoughts and opinions.  [:)]  

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch

I remember my favorite scene with my last Sir like it was yesterday.  He did not restrain me in any way.  He merely leaned over and whispered in my ear, “Hold perfectly still.  Do not move.  This isn’t about you.  This is about me and my pleasure.”
That is the hottest thing anyone has ever said (or done) to me.

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*Melts*

OMG that is EFFIN HOT!!

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ORIGINAL: kuriouswitch

I like it when Master does this, on my visit he did this a few times and I loved it. There have been a few times when I've had a hard day or it's been emotional and then I'll ask Master to use me in such a way if he's inclined, it helps clear my head and refocuses me.

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

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ORIGINAL: kuriouswitch

I like it when Master does this, on my visit he did this a few times and I loved it. There have been a few times when I've had a hard day or it's been emotional and then I'll ask Master to use me in such a way if he's inclined, it helps clear my head and refocuses me.

This was the subject of a conversation a few days ago.   After reading through this again, I found this post and it sums up a question that came up between friends .. some vanilla, some bedroom D/s and a few in a long term D/s relationship.  

I'm like kuriouswitch.  There are times where I need this kind of "interaction".  [:)]   The subject was this:  Even when it's clearly about Him, your Dom, and you are completely used, do you still get a feeling of satisfaction from it?   Or are you left feeling like you missed something? 

Some that have replied already have said they do.  [:)]   Wondering how others feels as well. 

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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I am with littlewonder on this.  Sometimes it feels like being used in a good way; sometimes only like being used.  While it can be a thrill if it happens from time to time I certainly wouldn't want it to be the norm.  

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I am with littlewonder on this. Sometimes it feels like being used in a good way; sometimes only like being used. While it can be a thrill if it happens from time to time I certainly wouldn't want it to be the norm.

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ORIGINAL: lally2

count me in as a 'hell yes' -

though, and this ties in with the self esteem question on another board.  when i was in my twenties and used this way it really fucked me over.  but then my self esteem issues and insecurities were huge then.  now that i dont suffer from those i can be used in this way and actually, if im not, i start wondering why.  its greatly reassuing, makes me feel seriously wanted, enjoyed and if theres a down side atall, its that it makes me seriously horny and in need of a great deal more - which isnt always on the agenda straight away.

now im getting all squirmy and fidgity dammit!