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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

kallisto,

While I do not qualify in the sub catagory, I can tell you this, that the spontaneous nature of a an unplanned use is very erotic for most "D"s be it physical or mental. Imagine right in the middle of fixing dinner, being told to kneel and mouth fuck his cock, or tongue fuck her pussy, just out of the blue!!! Absolute power!

CP

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ORIGINAL: thornhappy

The only problem I've found with the random "wham, bam" event....is trying to walk with shaky knees afterwards!

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ORIGINAL: lally2

count me in as a 'hell yes' -

though, and this ties in with the self esteem question on another board.  when i was in my twenties and used this way it really fucked me over.  but then my self esteem issues and insecurities were huge then.  now that i dont suffer from those i can be used in this way and actually, if im not, i start wondering why.  its greatly reassuing, makes me feel seriously wanted, enjoyed and if theres a down side atall, its that it makes me seriously horny and in need of a great deal more - which isnt always on the agenda straight away.

now im getting all squirmy and fidgity dammit!

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count me in as a 'hell yes' -

though, and this ties in with the self esteem question on another board. when i was in my twenties and used this way it really fucked me over. but then my self esteem issues and insecurities were huge then. now that i dont suffer from those i can be used in this way and actually, if im not, i start wondering why. its greatly reassuing, makes me feel seriously wanted, enjoyed and if theres a down side atall, its that it makes me seriously horny and in need of a great deal more - which isnt always on the agenda straight away.

now im getting all squirmy and fidgity dammit!

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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch

I remember my favorite scene with my last Sir like it was yesterday.  He did not restrain me in any way.  He merely leaned over and whispered in my ear, “Hold perfectly still.  Do not move.  This isn’t about you.  This is about me and my pleasure.”
That is the hottest thing anyone has ever said (or done) to me.

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ORIGINAL: Delphinus

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

kallisto,

While I do not qualify in the sub catagory, I can tell you this, that the spontaneous nature of a an unplanned use is very erotic for most "D"s be it physical or mental. Imagine right in the middle of fixing dinner, being told to kneel and mouth fuck his cock, or tongue fuck her pussy, just out of the blue!!! Absolute power!

CP

One of my favorites was the first time just that happened...cooking dinner for him, but having to stop and get on my knees in front of him at the snap of his fingers, taking care of him (while still holding a wooden spoon in my hand, mind you)....this is more the norm for us than not.

My own orgasm is secondary, and that's the way I like it to be. 

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One of my favorites was the first time just that happened...cooking dinner for him, but having to stop and get on my knees in front of him at the snap of his fingers, taking care of him (while still holding a wooden spoon in my hand, mind you)....this is more the norm for us than not.

My own orgasm is secondary, and that's the way I like it to be.

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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I am with littlewonder on this.  Sometimes it feels like being used in a good way; sometimes only like being used.  While it can be a thrill if it happens from time to time I certainly wouldn't want it to be the norm.  

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

Do those of you (subs) in a D/s relationship crave being used by your Dom?   Having the "rode, hard, put up wet" feeling?   Does it leave you feeling like something wasn't finished?  or Are you satisfied and contented simply because you were used?    I know this may not necessarily be just a D/s but it's from the /s angle that I'm looking at it.  

It's hard to explain the "no feelings" when you have feelings for your Dom.   It wouldn't illicit the same feelings if it were a first time partner or a stranger.   But there are times where I do crave the walk in the door, told to bend over the table, yank my panties down, and to quote a very old cliche', wham, bam, thank you maam, slap on the ass and "where's supper" question.    Whether or not I orgasm is immaterial.   It's the He took what He wanted ... He used me to His satisfaction that I needed.   It's the "no feelings", but yet a feeling of  being completely controlled (for me anyway).

Just curious as to others thoughts and opinions.  [:)]  

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ORIGINAL: mc1234

To put it simply, yes, please!  :)  And if he hurts me a little in the bargain, all the better.  sigh .... 

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and he said a little raping is good for the soul

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ORIGINAL: FawneTwo

Hey, wait a minute (please) You all mean that if you come home and he's pacing the room, you open the door and he halts, glares at you, rolls his shoulder with an anticipation ferocity, growls a warning, a hunger, he approaches you ... and next thing you know you are knocked off your feet, laying on the floor, flung like a rag doll limp strewn over any piece of furniture ... and used you don't cum? What...? I am serious. It may be inconvienient, uncomfortable, not the most opportune moment, but still -
Is experiencing hot passion and fufillment physically/sexually orgasm during a passion attack contrary to animalistic dominent lust? I am serious and I must be a freak.

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ORIGINAL: FawneTwo

Hey, wait a minute (please) You all mean that if you come home and he's pacing the room, you open the door and he halts, glares at you, rolls his shoulder with an anticipation ferocity, growls a warning, a hunger, he approaches you ... and next thing you know you are knocked off your feet, laying on the floor, flung like a rag doll limp strewn over any piece of furniture ... and used you don't cum? What...? I am serious. It may be inconvienient, uncomfortable, not the most opportune moment, but still -
Is experiencing hot passion and fufillment physically/sexually orgasm during a passion attack contrary to animalistic dominent lust? I am serious and I must be a freak.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I call this different things and it could be seen as used on either side of the kneel.  Coming from this side of the kneel, I have ordered that he come home for lunch and give me what I want just like that and in the mornings I like that too.  I don't feel used... I feel happy. lol

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

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ORIGINAL: FawneTwo

Hey, wait a minute (please) You all mean that if you come home and he's pacing the room, you open the door and he halts, glares at you, rolls his shoulder with an anticipation ferocity, growls a warning, a hunger, he approaches you ... and next thing you know you are knocked off your feet, laying on the floor, flung like a rag doll limp strewn over any piece of furniture ... and used you don't cum? What...? I am serious. It may be inconvienient, uncomfortable, not the most opportune moment, but still -
Is experiencing hot passion and fufillment physically/sexually orgasm during a passion attack contrary to animalistic dominent lust? I am serious and I must be a freak.

I'm not saying that at all  [:)]   The above scenario has erupted in a most a ferocious orgasm ... on his part and mine.   I can't ever remember thinking "inconvenient, uncomfortable, not the most opportune moment".    [:)]

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I'm not saying that at all The above scenario has erupted in a most a ferocious orgasm ... on his part and mine. I can't ever remember thinking "inconvenient, uncomfortable, not the most opportune moment".

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ORIGINAL: TurboJugend

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what is love without romance

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Hold perfectly still.  Do not move.  This isn’t about you.  This is about me and my pleasure.”