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What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/21/2006 7:45:30 PM   
la90066


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Just curious... Thinking back to your last "serious" thing, what do you remember about him or her?!!

For me, while of course I remember the sexual aspects, that's not what TRULY sticks out in my mind. It's the other little things:

- The way her hair smelled when her head was on my chest
- The smile she'd give me from across the room
- The smell of her perfume on my clothes
- Her soft voice, touch and feminine way about her
- Her belief that just laying in my arms would solve her problems
- As weird as this may sound... To watch her sleeping as I'd leave the room knowing that I had this beautiful creature to care for and watch over.

There were a million other little things, but it's these things that I remember far more than anything sexual.

How about YOU???

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/21/2006 7:54:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		For someone who is now a friend..........

Her laughing like a hyena when I whipped her ass with a handfull of stinging nettle.

And her swallowing real hard and trying to be sane with an asshole and clit full of ginger powder............


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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/21/2006 8:00:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

For someone who is now a friend..........

Her laughing like a hyena when I whipped her ass with a handfull of stinging nettle.

And her swallowing real hard and trying to be sane with an asshole and clit full of ginger powder............


Laughing Maniacally,
Ron



That being said, in answer to the OP, i guess the thing i miss most is that special scent, the inner music and the feel that "we" made together. :)

cheers
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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/21/2006 9:20:33 PM   
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of all the things I could hate, one thing a so dearly remember was that she was the ONLY person who would give me just the right gift.

Oh, had nothing to with the price .... nothing to do with what i wanted ....
she just had the ability to giv eme just that right things that I didn't even KNOW I wanted until I got them.

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/21/2006 11:20:33 PM   
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-her voice and the things she said
-her smile...came from way inside...was comfortable and real
-another, different smile...small, satisfied, content
-watching her sleep
-her singing in the shower
-the way she seemed comfortable and natural with me, like I was belonged in her life.

Lots more.

Bob

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/21/2006 11:56:31 PM   
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i remember his depth of feeling for justice and right and wrong. No matter the consequences, he would always stand up. i remember his curly permed looking hair and everyone teasing him about having it done at the beauty parlor. The way he could take a soccar ball and do almost anything he wished with it. The way he looked the very first time i ever laid eyes on him and knew i was going to make him mine. My little adonis. Walking down that street, no shirt on with a body to die for, shirt hanging from his waist ban and kick a soccar ball.. with gorgeous hair. And then he opened his mouth and spoke and i almost swooned. He had a british accent = ) i remember his wit and his charm. i remember how anal he was about wierd things. i remember how he felt about life. So tough.. yet.. so not. i remember the first time i saw hiim get punched in the face and his response in his brit accent was "and wot" (i about died laughing) i remember everything.

and before him. 10 years back. i remember the face, the height and knowing that everything would be alright. i remember out of everything the fried pork chops he'd bring home. God i've never to this day had pork chops that good. i remember him trying to explain to me how naive i was and me furiously thinking he was out of his mind. heh. i remember him explaining what lazyitis is and how his last gf was stricken with it. heh. i remember what he told me when i was finally truthful about my age. He wasnt inlove with my age, but me. i remember him dealing with it. Telling me i was acting like a 16 year old. i remember the conversation that followed, i remember where we were. i remember hearing cats having sex and being worried it was a baby crying and hiim explaining. i remember how he felt about the irish as an ex british marine. i remember he had to cover up his anarchy symbol on his arm to jon the marines.

This is prolly not what you're looking for, but when i go down memory lane, a picture book opens up and i can see everything as if my mind took snapshots along the way.

And i remember walking along hong kong central park, i remember the plants and it being night and us going to the clubs and him telling me that if something ever happened to not search him out. That people change and me thinking he was nuts.

And i remember standing on the corner in broad day light knowing what the future held and telling him i'd name my first son after him and hiim telling me i wouldnt and so on. And then coming up with a better idea. i told him every saturday night at midnight to look up at the moon. And no matter where we were in the world we were we'd always be connected. = )

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 1:09:05 AM   
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quote:

Thinking back to your last "serious" thing, what do you remember about him or her


The way Her voice seems to "sing" when She talks.

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 10:00:10 AM   
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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 12:59:38 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		the way she sounds on the phone, she still has a lovely phone voice, and i am certain she would make a decent living in phone-sex....however, since i am talking about my ex-wife, i doubt i will suggest it to her.

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 3:35:01 PM   
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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 3:43:35 PM   
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quote:

How about YOU???


I remember the strange way he dresses, his very odd taste in music, how much fun I had with my old group of friends at the Clubhouse (our party house) where we lived, him being the first one to ever cheat on me (with a fifteen year old) and me cheating on someone for the first time, and the three year long string of mental and physical abuse that I put up with before I grew up and got out.

I wouldn't take that relationship back, but I definitely wouldn't do it again. I'm just glad it's over and I learned from it, otherwise I'd never have been ready to settle down with the love of my life who I met just after.

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 3:52:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just curious... Thinking back to your last "serious" thing, what do you remember about him or her?!!

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she was married to a drunken wife abuser...and said..SAID she wanted a-good-guy...
but then decided she wanted to stick around until he died and take the mobile home for herself...
even though it was willed-out to HIS kids........

go figure


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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 3:56:48 PM   
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quote:

Thinking back to your last "serious" thing, what do you remember about him or her?!!


The light in his eyes

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 4:24:25 PM   
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quote:

Just curious... Thinking back to your last "serious" thing, what do you remember about him or her?!!


The way they talked. LOL Believe it or not, that is what I remember the most. One had a soft southern drawl that just flowed across your mind, and the other was as crude and rough as a streetfighter. Both had a way of just hypnotizing (sp?) me with their voice.

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 5:34:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		-His scent
-The calm assuredness of his voice.
-The feel of his arms around me and his body against me and how safe it felt.
-How deeply it hurt to watch him go and not know when he would return.

feline =^..^=

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 5:41:29 PM   
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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 5:45:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		The way she made me feel alive. Like I had once again had purpose.

Loki

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 7:00:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: la90066
Just curious... Thinking back to your last "serious" thing, what do you remember about him or her?!!


I remember our first serious kiss...warm, inviting, tethering, a sure sign of things to come. And I remember when he left me many months later with a very cold "It's been fun, thanks."



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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 7:38:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		- Waching tv on the couch while he rubbed my feet and legs
- The way he treated our dog, loving him like a person (and not in the kinky way, you sickos)
- Being somewhere and giving/getting a look across the room that easily communicated something - from "this sucks, let's leave" to "I have to tell you about something later" to "save me".
- Tearing up at movies (some that were not even that sad!)
- Tickling and roughhousing with our gleeful short people
- Mmmm, he was a good cook
- The long pause that preceded any half truth or lie -- because he was so BAD at being dishonest
- The way he cried the few times he had to punish one of our short people
- That pissy, hateful tone that pushed my buttons every time
- His laugh
- Him leaving for his early commute, and bringing me a warm, freshly diapered baby into the bed for wake-up nursing
- Comfy spooning

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RE: What Do You Remember About Him/Her??? - 1/22/2006 7:45:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know why this particular memory sits with me. From years ago. Sitting on his lap, blindfolded, hands bound together. And he, feeding me potato chips. One at a time, gently...."open your mouth now."

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