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RE: Being a Dom is beginning to worry me! - 3/5/2009 12:14:28 AM   
susie


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On the other spectrum are the Doms who are contacting subs saying their wife died and they are looking for a god fearing woman, or submissive.  They are in petroleum, engineers, and all have business in the UK and Africa.  I have received 5 basically professing the same thing.   They all needed my bank account number because of some emergency.


I've had quite a few of those too recently. They get very upset when I explain that I can hardly be god fearing as I don't believe in god. Suddenly that doesn't matter as I am such a nice lady anyway!! If only they knew.


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RE: Being a Dom is beginning to worry me! - 3/5/2009 1:55:53 AM   
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Get over it. They are ALL fake.

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RE: Being a Dom is beginning to worry me! - 3/5/2009 7:15:25 AM   
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People die.  It sucks for those who love them.  I recently saw another thread about subs dying.  I don't think it's lifestyle-related, I think it's life-related.  Death is one of those sad and harsh realities and, thankfully, it hasn't come for any of us yet *knock-on-wood*. 
  Davan

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RE: Being a Dom is beginning to worry me! - 3/5/2009 9:39:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crb2
Could it be that there is something about subs/slaves that are causing these sudden death?

[sarcasm]
Its called the ultimate safeword.  You go a little too far and you'll hear "Red".  Go farther and you'll hear "When I get down from here I'm going to rip your balls off".  Go farther still and you'll get silence....until you undo the restraints and go to sleep....
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RE: Being a Dom is beginning to worry me! - 3/5/2009 9:47:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crb2

Is it just me, but as I read the profiles there seems to be way to many subs/slaves that are looking for an owner/dom because theirs died suddenly?
Could it be that there is something about subs/slaves that are causing these sudden death? An adult BDSM related version of SIDS perhaps?
On the opposite side of this, what are the reasons for so many sub/slaves to become deaf or move to Afirica?


'dear daddy/doms. I'm a 28 year old slave with a lot of experience. I was trained by a great dom who recently died. I bought a lot of clothes and a car and now I am looking for a new dom. I NEEEEEEEED a new dom. please send me a message I'll do anything (willing to relocate!).'


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RE: Being a Dom is beginning to worry me! - 3/5/2009 9:49:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MG4Apuppygirl

Get over it. They are ALL fake.


like totally. I messaged this one girl in germany and told her to come live with me and let me sodomize her and do my laundry and she said 'what I don't even know you?'

I hate these fakers.


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RE: Being a Dom is beginning to worry me! - 3/5/2009 10:09:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: crb2

Is it just me, but as I read the profiles there seems to be way to many subs/slaves that are looking for an owner/dom because theirs died suddenly?
Could it be that there is something about subs/slaves that are causing these sudden death? An adult BDSM related version of SIDS perhaps?
On the opposite side of this, what are the reasons for so many sub/slaves to become deaf or move to Afirica?


I agree with those who find this post amusing.. Yes it would be a good idea for an interesting story plot, but who is going to write it? Time will tell I immagine.. As far as the OP being offensive to those who have lost a loved one and especially if the loved one was their Dominant, two thoughts cpme to mind; Firstly it would need to be someone so fragile that something like this would cause grief and in that case perhaps CM is the wrong place to be for a while because this place is not particularly sensitive to the feelings of others. Secondly it would be indeed sad if such a notion was discouraged from being posted. Part of the entertainment here comes from the wild and wacky posts which find their way here on the boards even if they are serious and sensible.

Back to the OP.... Just think of how many people die due to stress from kids, a nagging spouse, work situations and a host of other things in which we are involved in. I could perhaps see a malicious bratty sub/slave being the cause of a heart attack or at a stretch a suicide, but no more than girl/boy friends or wives/husbands or even Mother-in-laws. If the Dominant has medical problems then he or she needs to avoid activities which may cause them to step of the planet but again how many men die in the middle of having sex (yeah I know the stories both real and false about a hooker being trapped under an over weight male who dropped dead at the vinegar stroke)..  My suggestion is to upgrade you medical, life and funeral insurance and remember it doesn't matter how long you live but how well you live and in the long run who wants to live for ever anyway? As far as any doom and gloom posts go I offer this:  "Never argue with an idiot. He'll bring you down to his level, then beat you with experience" - Nancy Morris  

Be well, fuck hard and often and be the best Master you can..


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