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kiwisub12 -> RE: dont want commitment or a live in slave (3/7/2009 8:16:19 PM)
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I lived by myself - caring for my two ums (as silly as that sounds).
The only time i wanted a man in the house was when my cats cornered a confused rat, and killed it in the middle of the night, in the hall. I wanted the man to take the rat out of the house! As it was, i had to do it, and survived the experience.
I liked having all the bed, and reading for all hours of the day or night. I enjoyed sleeping with my cat. I liked not having to cook if i didn't want to.
Now i am living - happily - with a (gasp!) man, and we do well together. We don't need to be in each others pocket all the time - thank goddess. He actively encourages my hobbies which are pretty much solitary activites, and allows me time and space to pursue them. Of course any time he wants something, he thinks nothing of calling me - which is as it should be. We live together well. [:D]
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