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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/9/2009 8:12:00 PM

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I've enjoyed reading this.....

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/10/2009 6:30:56 AM

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the control and power she has being a dominant woman and how she gets into my head i find amazing

when she walks in the bedroom door wearing that big strapon and she smiles at me and tells me to assume the position i just love

then when she lubes up my ass and the strapon to make sure im ready really kicks in for me my submissive side as she enters me with her strapon cock until it slowly slides in i just love

whats even better then strapon play for us is when she is ready to fist me

dont know why it is ...hey shes been doing it now for over 3 plus years ...but her fisting me is awesome indeed on how it takes me to my subspace once she has entered me

love how she goes in deeper and yes my prostate she loves to play with

i love being so vulnerable to her and the power exchange when she fists me has to be the most intense thing we do together and its a great way to submit to a woman i must say ...have fun mal

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/10/2009 9:58:34 AM

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I feel most submissive when washing a Dominant with my hair.

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/10/2009 12:12:00 PM

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The things that make me feel submissive towards a dominate male are as follows.

His pure masculinity in all things and ability to instantly contract attention.
His words, be they kind or not kind but my knowing they are in my best intrest.
His love and passion for life and his property.
His touch, firm or gentle would make me submit beneath it.
His ability to teach me my place, at his feet or behind him following at his side.

It is not nessicarily about sexual discourse but about the individual for me. There is plenty in play that makes a submissive or slave feel submissive but it's more about WHY they feel that way and not how the feeling is adminsitered to their body but to their mind.

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/11/2009 5:01:21 AM

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i love when He grabs a handful of my hair.....calls me "lil pet".....or delivers His special brand of humiliation....they all make me feel more submissive. Serious real-life insults, and He NEVER does this, would just piss me off and i'd be very NON-submissive.

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/11/2009 10:37:41 AM

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I do not completely have the same feelings as you do. Yes, warmth, attentiveness is important but humiliation, degradation, some pain are defenitely things I need as well to be more submissive.

What turns me off, when Master whines about small pains, the fact that he cannot seem to quit smoking and is still not working out as promissed. But on the other hand those are the moments that I understand that he is more than Master, he is also my husband and human.

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/11/2009 11:03:01 AM

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i am an older male submissive,and yes for me the desire to serve an other, and the humiliation ,degrading that i need.it may be time to hang um up , an older sub is not much in demand

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/12/2009 6:05:20 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JulieElizabeth

here are my thoughts

traits in Him that make me more submissive:

His unconditional love

His stead-fast calm demeanor....never showing anger towards me

His love and affection towards me

the little ways he shows me that He is dedicated to making our relationship grow

punishment/lectures..not letting me get away with acting 'naughty'!  He is strong enough to know that I won't leave him just because I'm being punished and for needing to give me tough love at times

His pushing to want to know more about me and understand me

gaining His trust...i badly want to know more about Him

traits that make me less submissive:

no rules

being punished unfairly ... or not being punished when i really need it

I definetly agree with all of these. Other things that make me feel more submissive is the handfull of hair, bondage, being told or asked who I belong to or what my purpose is. Orgasm control/denial and humiliation tend to have mixed results. Things that tend to make my unsubmissive/aggressive/bitchy are denial of sex or any pleasure, nagging (which Master does not do fortunately), and being put into a sitution where I am more knowledgeable or need to instruct.

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/12/2009 3:10:25 PM

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quote:

here are my thoughts

traits in Him that make me more submissive: In the last few years and up to present, I have found these are the traits that make me want to submit without fail (keep in mind as you read these, I've only had online Dom's....)

* His unconditional love
* His stead-fast calm demeanor....never showing anger towards me
* He never shows judgment towards me...meaning i can tell Him everything..yes everything
* His maturity
* putting me first (after his family/work)..ok so i guess that means putting me third *sorry bad joke*
* His dedication to his family and work
* His love and affection towards me
* the little ways he shows me that He is dedicated to making our relationship grow
* punishment/lectures..not letting me get away with acting 'naughty'! He is strong enough to know that I won't leave him just because I'm being punished and for needing to give me tough love at times
* His pushing to want to know more about me and understand me
* gaining His trust...i badly want to know more about Him

WOW that's soo me too! LOL But I don't do punishment at all!!! I am very good and he would just discuss!

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RE: what makes you feel more submissive? - 3/15/2009 6:43:05 AM

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Hi, I have Been Bisesual Most Of My Life, and Stil Consider My Self Bisexual, But When It Come To Be Punish and Bondage, Adore A Woman Doing The Work Been Rough With Me It Just Turn Me On a Lot, I Stil Love To Feel a Men Do all Kinds Of Things Sexually, Even Using Force On Me, But By Nature I Love a Rough and Sadist Woman In Charge Of Me, When I Find a Real Rough and Kinky One I Become Like a Little Kid on a Candy Store,And She Get a Whipp O Cane On Hands, I Melt Down and Will Tie At Least One Hand To a Pole, So She Could Do Me Over,and get Her Way With Me, The Rougher The Better, Elsita

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