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Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 5:30:16 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		After sex, asking, "What are you thinking?" 

Worse still: "How do you see our relationship developing?"

Why do they do this?  Is it about exacting payment from men - in psychological stress - for the sex they've just had?



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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 5:32:35 PM   
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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 5:35:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		the only thing i want after sex is snuggling, sleeping, or a cheeseburger.  guess i'm not much help in the answer you seek.  maybe it's just the women you choose.

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 5:38:18 PM   
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is that annoying too?  

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 6:00:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am big on rolling over and falling asleep or getting up and eating something, after hitting the bathroom and having a glass of water.

At worst, I like to talk about the sex and when we can have it again....


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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 6:03:21 PM   
MzMinx


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Status: offline 		hello peon
*laughs softly*  i am a chatterer,   I love words and vocal responses ... they do not need  to be  actual words during the experience ....   but words and sounds are definitly a kink of mine

I have noticed the more in top space or dominant I feel  at the time... the more questions I will ask about how someone felt, what they experienced  etc.  I think this flows from not only a natural curiosity, which is more  actively expressed when I  dominant over someone, but  its one of my pleasures to get feed back .. to explore someones mental and emotional responces not just perceive and indulge in their reactions.

I also enjoy the extra layers of vunerability and exposure that can come from haveing someone  express what they felt  

I do not ask relationship questions and I do not generaly make it open ended .. its more a very intensive exploration of what happened purely because I enjoy exploreing and  matching the thoughts to the physical reactions that I noticed... but its a continuation of the sexual play.. I do not think there is a hard edge that ends an experience ... its more it ebbs and flows into other facits

I may change when and how I do this according to how well a boy reacts to it,  but its definatly linked to my dominance rather than a  purely sexual thing  *smiles* ....  I do get frustrated if a  boy cannot express in words what they have experienced or how they have reacted  at  any time and consider myself not well matched to the always strong and silent type.

Its not  every experience... sometimes all I do is purrrrr
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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 6:11:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Amen, Peon.

What annoys me is when they ask, "what are you thinking ?", and then won't accept ,"not a thing, I'm flat-lining", for an honest answer. I guess it's a Mars /Venus thang.


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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 6:18:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm with Christine..sleep..cheeseburger, not necessarily in that order.

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 6:21:20 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		LOL.. I want to know how the relationship is going before we are exhusted from sex!  Talk after.. not unless it is between times!  After that.. I want to pass out!

Not all of us do that Peon!  Maybe they need to be more tired... or you need to make sure she knows what's up between you before you sack her! hehe

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 7:02:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: feydeplume

At worst, I like to talk about the sex and when we can have it again....



This is me- I love talking about it; what I liked, when I was scared, what was really hot, and how cool it was when He did.....oh, just about everything He does to control and manipulate me during sex. I just love it so much- I'm like a puppy. He is usually amused.

But if He has to go to sleep, I have learned to hold it in. Or sometimes, He has me to use the hitachi to wind down a bit- or maybe because it just entertains Him to make me cum again. Either way, He chooses the conversation or lack there of.

I guess, for a man, this is one of the advantages to owning a submissive- no awkward questions after sex if you dont want them.


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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 7:04:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I honestly cannot imagine asking a man "what are you thinking?"  I would sooner ask my parrot.

I haven't had sex in a long time, and I think ice cream is what I would normally want!  That, and the remote.  I don't have the sound on loudly.

Glad you're getting some action, Peon!

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 7:07:04 PM   
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 Why do they do this? 


Because they want to know what you are thinking? 

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 7:11:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		well i do ask what he liked best and i tell him what i like best or least or whatever. i think its about feedback. trying to learn him so the next time will be better. is that really so bad? or is it the timing?

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 7:13:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I must be a secret guy.  Other than, "well that was great" or some similar positive comment (IF it's deserved), I got nothing.   The time for deconstruction of a sex act is NOT before the refractory period has set in.

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 7:13:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Men ask this stupid shit too.  I don't think during sex, why in the hell does anyone think I would be capable of thinking AFTER sex??? 

Water, blanket, sleep.  Talk to me when I'm coherent again.


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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 7:16:09 PM   
MissIsis


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Status: offline 		Maybe you just attract chatty women.  I can understand it.  She is all relaxed & most women like to think they are more than just a fuck.  In her relaxed state, she probably isn't thinking about much more except wondering if it was as good for you, as it was for her.  Unfortunately, very often, what is good for a man, is not the same thing as what is good for a women. 

Personally, I just want to:

1.  be snuggled & drift to sleep
2. be snuggled & drift to sleep while he makes breakfast, lunch, or dinner
3.  get up, & go make something to eat because if it was good, chances are, I will be starving. 

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 8:14:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		She wants to know if there is any future like say living together, engagement or marriage.  Talk to her about this stuff away from the bedroom or it will ruin your libido.

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 8:42:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		After sex most men usually become more close to the woman and the woman knows this so it makes it the best time to ask him about his feelings towards her and the relationship. If he hates this aftersex conversation she'll realize he is either tired or not into her but only into the sex.

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 8:58:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

After sex, asking, "What are you thinking?" 

Worse still: "How do you see our relationship developing?"

Why do they do this?  Is it about exacting payment from men - in psychological stress - for the sex they've just had?


Gawwwwd......."Do you love me?" (YES!!!)....."Do you still love me?" (YES!!!!)...."Will you always love me?" (YESSSSSSSSSSS)....."Do these jeans make my butt look too big?"....

Uhhhmmmmmm....

(Except for the butt thing....your butt is too big....sorry).

(Hey!!! You asked!!!!)

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RE: Women's Most Annoying Habit - 3/7/2009 9:55:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

After sex, asking, "What are you thinking?" 

Worse still: "How do you see our relationship developing?"

Why do they do this?  Is it about exacting payment from men - in psychological stress - for the sex they've just had?




It could be worse!!  My sister likes to ask if she got hit by a car and lost her arms and legs if you'd still be with her!!!!!

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