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Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:20:49 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		When contacting potential subs, is getting a hold on their wallet a priority for you?  its just i was contacted by a Domme today who i did not approach who instantly announced that She wanted me as Her slave. its like do i get a say in this? then She asks me how can i serve her? i say by my smile, She gets thick and starts saying do I work? when I can send Her first tribute etc? then when i reveal to Her that i dont have any money to give, She suddenly goes silent. No contact at all. it s like are people that shallow? is money the be all and end all for you?
Would like your views on this folks
kevin
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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:23:09 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Trying to stir shit today are you kevin?

Just another angle on the same old bullshit.

Try coming up with something new why don't you.

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:24:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		No, I want my hands on their ass though.

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:24:24 AM   
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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:26:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		No im only looking for a debate that s all get it out in the open , have a laugh, be assured all views whether i like them or dont i will respect, im just facilitator here, the floor is yours and colleagues here in Collarme. Just want to see what people's views are on this subject that s all. After all ,everyone likes a bit of controversy, now and again
Best regards
kevin

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:27:15 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		that s really funny Lockit, thanks very much, thats the sort of response im looking , irreverent, funny
kevin

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:30:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

No im only looking for a debate that s all get it out in the open , have a laugh, be assured all views whether i like them or dont i will respect, im just facilitator here, the floor is yours and colleagues here in Collarme. Just want to see what people's views are on this subject that s all. After all ,everyone likes a bit of controversy, now and again
Best regards
kevin



Okay kevin, I'll bite. Cuz it's raining and I am putting off a trip to town to buy horse feed.

Yes, money IS THEE PRIORITY! All potential slaves must be independently wealthy and provide proof thereof. They must also come to me, crawling on hands and knees, and have a case of cash, gold, diamonds and other assorted jewels, on their naked back.

Does that make you feel better?

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:32:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am new to this, I have had one Dom who would empty my wallet every time we were together.  I stopped carrying cash and when I refused to pay a tribute he dumped me.  So I think this is great conversation to have.  Thanks Kevin.

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:33:24 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		Whatever floats your boat. Yes that impresses. What i want LaTigressse is not for people to take this seriously, have a laugh about it, because Life is stressful enough to be taking it very seriously. We need to release. But yes youve entered into the spirit. Thanks
kevin

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:34:36 AM   
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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:35:09 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		Yes thank you. im deliberately keeping this light hearted but there is a serious side too and i feel for anyone who has been exploited by their Dom/Domme. the best answer we can give them is just stop serving them , stop tributing. its the only way their greed will not be satisfied. Thanks
kevin

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:37:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Kevin, you don't remember all the other threads and responses and you need repeats?  You know this is a touchy subject and a constant question on these boards, which gets little fun stuff in the mix.  Mostly it just seems a fixation for some and a pain in the ass to other's.  What else can I do but joke about it?  Your many threads or post about the dominant asking you for money... and other's focused only on that negate's you intention of having a bit of fun.

Call it what it is Kevin... we are not blind.

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:43:02 AM   
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Personally, I see it as an insecurity the OP has, with his own financial status. He refuses to acknowledge that most dominants want and expect a certain level of personal responsibility, including personal finances. He seems to not quite have that one nailed, so instead of doing what he needs to do to fix his own issues, he would rather take the extreme (pro-domme, financial domme ) and demonize them to compensate for his own failings.

I could be wrong, but............

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:44:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Someone contacted you and tried to scam some money out of you.  Shocking that such a thing would happen on the internet, isn't it?

What you're describing doesn't have anything to do with what doms want when contacting potential subs, it is about what scammers want when contacting potential targets.  You're fortunate that she (or he or they) got right to the point and didn't waste a lot of your time.

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:44:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		Like i say i want people to be irreverent and funny and dismissive and whatever. its what makes a group. if everyone agreed with everyone Lockit , life would be one long dull depressing bore. Life is hard enough for everyone , if we cant take the piss out of something for an afternoon and have a bit of fun, its just not worth it
kevin

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:46:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Is money my priority?  no.  Is money something that I require a boy to supply?  yes - but only after he is a part of the household and helping to run up the bills. 

If someone has no money at all, I need to explore why they don't.  If they aren't capable of keeping a job 1 - how do I know that they can do what we require of them and 2 - what is the problem that they can't keep a job?  We have issues paying our bills sometimes ... if someone is contributing to the expenses of this family, then they had damned well better be contributing to paying them as well.  We do NOT make enough to support someone with no money and no way of making any.

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:46:21 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		i was fortunate yep. fortunate that i remembered my brain and used it rather than give in
LOL
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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:47:52 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Worth it to who?  We are no fun and you must lighten the load?  I think not.  Kevin, personally I think you want us to kick your ass for free, for stirring things up and it's been a while since you had a fix.

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:52:36 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		its just conversation, it s the weekend. what harm is being done? none that i can see. but then thats only my view, many others will have different views and they are all equally valid
all is fair in love and war
kevin

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RE: Is money your priority? - 3/8/2009 8:54:04 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		by the way , i find this group a lot of fun. without it i would be a nobody even much worse than i am now and that is frightening. all of us need social company. not everyone has lots of friends. i can count the number of friends i have on half a hand. not complaining thats just the way it is
kevin

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