MMercurial
Posts: 48
Joined: 1/11/2007 Status: offline
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Money is A consideration, not THE priority. I'm interested in more than one facet of a man's personality. His kink is interesting, but not sufficient. I want an integrated life, consequently, I'm interested in the total person. When it comes to money, if he has accumulated it, or earns it, it can tell me some things about him I want to know. Is he intense? Focused? Couch potato? Savvy? Disciplined? Of course, lots of men make a good salary, but their cash flow is basically zeroed out by their spending. This tells me things about their personality and character also. It also doesn't interest me. I admire a man who can create and/or accumulate. Ultimately, admiration is a necessity for me. Accumulation tells me a little of what his priorities are. His earnings also. After that, it is a simple thing: If someone is really attracted to me, and wants to please me, and I enjoy him, then I expect he will WANT to do things for me, including using his hard earned cash to please me, and us. If he doesn't, they his interest in me is too attenuated. If he prefers his cash to me, then I must not be very pleasing or fulfilling to him, and it's a bad match. Both parties contribute according to their unique capabilities. He brings himself and I bring myself. Let's just hope, in totality, they are complementary parts.
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