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Vendaval -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 6:11:58 AM)

You are too sweet, Panda.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 9:30:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

When contacting potential subs, is getting a hold on their wallet a priority for you? 



No. And stop being such a one trick pony, OP.

People are trying to scam others out of their money all over the internet, constantly. Don't give them the time of day.




LadyPact -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 10:09:07 AM)

No, it's two tricks.  Next will be the thread on how all femdoms should be required to accept less than our standards.




Lockit -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 10:30:31 AM)

[sm=Groaner.gif]  LadyPact... you got this one pegged!




thetammyjo -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 11:01:40 AM)

(fast reply)

This entire thread is ironic because I just got a note on Collarme from someone asking if I'd be interested in having a financial slave who just sent me money every month.

My answer was "No".

Folks want to give me money, buy my books and join my new blog, folks want to please me, read my LJ and comment on my new fiction as I post it.

http://thechocolatecult.blogspot.com/
http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/





MMercurial -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 11:09:57 AM)

Money is A consideration, not THE priority.  I'm interested in more than one facet of a man's personality.  His kink is interesting, but not sufficient.  I want an integrated life, consequently, I'm interested in the total person. 

When it comes to money, if he has accumulated it, or earns it, it can tell me some things about him I want to know.  Is he intense?  Focused?  Couch potato?  Savvy?  Disciplined?  Of course, lots of men make a good salary, but their cash flow is basically zeroed out by their spending.  This tells me things about their personality and character also.  It also doesn't interest me.   I admire a man who can create and/or accumulate.  Ultimately, admiration is a necessity for me.  Accumulation tells me a little of what his priorities are.  His earnings also.

After that, it is a simple thing:  If someone is really attracted to me, and wants to please me, and I enjoy him, then I expect he will WANT to do things for me, including using his hard earned cash to please me, and us.  If he doesn't, they his interest in me is too attenuated.  If he prefers his cash to me, then I must not be very pleasing or fulfilling to him, and it's a bad match.  Both parties contribute according to their unique capabilities.  He brings himself and I bring myself.  Let's just hope, in totality, they are complementary parts. 





LadyPact -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 11:11:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

[sm=Groaner.gif]  LadyPact... you got this one pegged!


Only funny because it's true.

As for pegging, a much more interesting topic than the OP.  [sm=evil.gif]




PeonForHer -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 11:12:23 AM)

This entire thread is ironic because I just got a note on Collarme from someone asking if I'd be interested in having a financial slave who just sent me money every month.
 
Gods' sakes.  What would you have to do in return?  No wonder there are rip-off merchants everywhere - the temptation for some women must be huge.  Come to think of it, the temptation for some men - armed with a few pics of some naked women - must be huge, too.  Hmmm.  If I got busy, I could be a millionaire this time next year. 






PeonForHer -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 11:17:06 AM)

As for pegging, a much more interesting topic than the OP.

I'm glad that you said that, LP.  I've just swapped all my old steel tent pegs for expensive, but much lighter, alloy ones.  You'll also be fascinated to learn that tent pegs can be made in high-strength nylon, too - as developed in the NASA space programme.  I also use a mountaineers' forum and these have come highly recommended there. 




LadyPact -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 11:47:18 AM)

Peon, you officially owe Me a diet pepsi for the one I just spit out laughing on the keyboard.

When's that tour of the states again?




PeonForHer -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 12:11:45 PM)

As soon as I've heard that Otters washes properly between his legs and as soon as your cheque clears, LP [;)]




subinchico -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 4:36:40 PM)

I won't be tortured by dommes that can't express a joy at thrashing my flesh.  I can tell eventually, plus I have a money fetish, (i.e. part of the humiliation of having to pay after they've brought me closer to death=turn on).  It's cool that it seems that the same people are attracted to the threads I like.  You all must ave a lot of free time (dam internet is addicting).




Lockit -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 4:49:49 PM)

subinchico, are you serious?  Have you ever been beaten close to death or are you talking a fantasy or a different kind of death other than physical death?  From some of your post you are sounding rather extreme or have quite the imagination.  Have you done some of this stuff you are talking about?

I don't mean to be insulting.  I am just trying to understand how you are speaking and what you really mean.  Because of the thinking it was hot to be beaten by a branch and then you tempered that, but I can't remember what you said... I am just left wondering if you are speaking from experiencing or desire and what your words actually mean to you.




subinchico -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 5:02:32 PM)

What a darling person you must be (see I'd wanna say darling goddess, niave still).  But seriously thank you!  I tempered the hot to be beatin  w/ tree branch by saying "hot to read about, not experience".  As to your other questions, I guess I am extreme, I didn't think I was but now I'm re-thinking. I'd be too cautios to elaborate considering your other questions, in this arena.
Wishing you Happy dreams and thoughts!
quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

subinchico, are you serious?  Have you ever been beaten close to death or are you talking a fantasy or a different kind of death other than physical death?  From some of your post you are sounding rather extreme or have quite the imagination.  Have you done some of this stuff you are talking about?

I don't mean to be insulting.  I am just trying to understand how you are speaking and what you really mean.  Because of the thinking it was hot to be beaten by a branch and then you tempered that, but I can't remember what you said... I am just left wondering if you are speaking from experiencing or desire and what your words actually mean to you.




MoGa -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 6:25:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
When contacting potential subs, is getting a hold on their wallet a priority for you? 


For the last time...

NO
 
No to all of your questions regarding service, money, submitting, pro-doming and all the other topics you continuously bring up.
 
Have a nice day.
 
MoGa




GreedyTop -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/9/2009 6:35:08 PM)

*adores MoGa*




thetammyjo -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/10/2009 7:51:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

This entire thread is ironic because I just got a note on Collarme from someone asking if I'd be interested in having a financial slave who just sent me money every month.
 
Gods' sakes.  What would you have to do in return?  No wonder there are rip-off merchants everywhere - the temptation for some women must be huge.  Come to think of it, the temptation for some men - armed with a few pics of some naked women - must be huge, too.  Hmmm.  If I got busy, I could be a millionaire this time next year. 





For me it's even more funny because if someone wanted to send me money, all he/she would have to do is order some of my books. I wouldn't even mind if they added a few bucks as a "thank you" for the fact that I will sign them if they order direct from me.

Maybe the idea is simply to give out money? I don't grok it, I really don't.

But I also can't fully explain why it offends me and why I feel it is only appropriate to pay me for what I do -- in the case of BDSM either my books, my reviews, or when I do something at a convention or for a group like a talk or workshop. In other words, I'm paid for my talent and effort.

But to just be offered money because I'm 1) female (had nothing to do with me) and 20 dominant (again very little to do with me) just feels insulting for some reason.




asianchloe -> RE: Is money your priority? (3/15/2009 3:59:52 PM)

By that logic Pro-Dommes who force their male slaves to serve others (and get “tributed”) are pimps, too. 





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