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FelineFae -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 9:45:07 PM)
lol, if single bi-sexual poly girls are called "unicorns", what shall we name single straight fit men ?

Saint -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 9:48:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelineFae lol, if single bi-sexual poly girls are called "unicorns", what shall we name single straight fit men ? Unavailable. They are rare and hence are already generally claimed by non-lifestylers.

kdsub -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 9:48:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: You see many here have problems… they are not your normal funny fit guys…those people are mostly normal and do not participate in the lifestyle. Lets face it most normal adjusted men have no desire to be dominated by a woman. Face this as well most normal well adjusted women do not want to dominate men. Frank: "The man is not normal?" Hawkeye: "What's normal, Frank?" Frank: "Normal is everybody doing the same thing." Trapper: "What about individuality?" Frank "Well, individuality is fine--as long as we all do it together." -- MAS*H lol... I've already agreed normal was a bad word choice and changed it to average... I always wondered why people looked down on Frank... he was getting more P than the rest. Butch

FelineFae -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 9:52:03 PM)
in my world they're called annoying soldiers,barracks rats, and other terms i won't use here. you can't swing a cat without hitting one, but my world isn't Canada, sorrys. e2a- kitty in camo ain't hard to come by either.

doll -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 9:53:23 PM)
quote: If I said jumping from an airplane at 30,000 feet is fatal... would I need to provide you with statistics proving it? Some things are just obvious. But maybe we are missing each others point…I’ll try harder to understand yours. Butch I would like to see these statistics considering I have seen reports of people surviving the fall when their parachute doesn't open. Yes, common sense would tell us that you would probably die, but statistics show that isn't always the case. And yes, you are completely missing MoGa's point entirely. If you are going to come on a thread and spout about the percentage of men and women who like or dislike engaging in BDSM activities, you need to show proof to back up your claim. I personally have played with several vanilla men who swore they aren't into this lifestyle, but lo and behold, they sure loved spanking, pulling hair and bondage. I completely disagree with you on a small percentage of people engaging in wiitwd, I have met people and would never have guessed they were into the lifestyle and was completely surprised by their admission, well adjusted people...lawyers, cops, nurses..etc. If you can't back up what you are trying to say, then you shouldn't say it at all, especially on a forum that has a lot of well adjusted, intelligent, mature, dominant and submissive men and women.

doll -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 9:59:36 PM)
To the OP...I have a dominant friend who lives in Vancouver as well and though his preference isn't fit, straight men as he is straight himself, he has several slaves and is quite happy with the selection in that city. Perhaps, you should just keep searching, I have seen a lot of fit, straight subs on this site, not from your area as I don't do my search criteria in Canada, but I am sure that if you look hard enough, one will catch your eye. Good luck!!

WyldHrt -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 10:02:25 PM)
quote: lol... I've already agreed normal was a bad word choice and changed it to average... Yeah, but I wasn't about to let that quote go to waste quote: I always wondered why people looked down on Frank... he was getting more P than the rest Because he spent far too much time telling all the pervs in camp to be "normal"? [:D]

kdsub -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 10:02:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: doll quote: If I said jumping from an airplane at 30,000 feet is fatal... would I need to provide you with statistics proving it? Some things are just obvious. But maybe we are missing each others point…I’ll try harder to understand yours. Butch I would like to see these statistics considering I have seen reports of people surviving the fall when their parachute doesn't open. Yes, common sense would tell us that you would probably die, but statistics show that isn't always the case. And yes, you are completely missing MoGa's point entirely. If you are going to come on a thread and spout about the percentage of men and women who like or dislike engaging in BDSM activities, you need to show proof to back up your claim. I personally have played with several vanilla men who swore they aren't into this lifestyle, but lo and behold, they sure loved spanking, pulling hair and bondage. I completely disagree with you on a small percentage of people engaging in wiitwd, I have met people and would never have guessed they were into the lifestyle and was completely surprised by their admission, well adjusted people...lawyers, cops, nurses..etc. If you can't back up what you are trying to say, then you shouldn't say it at all, especially on a forum that has a lot of well adjusted, intelligent, mature, dominant and submissive men and women. OK you like statistics...show me where anyone fell 30,000 feet without a parachute and lived...see you did the same thing that you accused me of doing... You did not think you needed to document your comment you just said it. So back it up or quit being hypocritical. Butch

WyldHrt -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 10:07:34 PM)
quote: After all, if they are hitting the gym, in exellent shape both physically and mentally, then they have no need of this lifestyle as they already will have a good selection of people interested in them. Someone has to say it... [8\|]

maatsubJ -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 10:09:55 PM)
It honestly seems as if the OP just wants in a sub what she does herself, and I can understand that. If she kills herself in the gym why would she want a sub who won't get off the couch . People are typically attracted to people who have SOMETHING in common with themselves. I say patience is key. I didn't go looking for Daddy, and he wasn't looking for me. We met at the electronics store I work at, and it was nothing to do with the lifestyle. It just goes to show, you never know who you'll meet or where you'll meet them. Good Luck OP

wakingwater -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 10:10:43 PM)
I can't say that's completely true. Some of the straight single submissive men just aren't mentally healthy. I mean, come on! If they can't see a beautiful Domme lusting after them because they spend so much time at the gym, something ain't right!

TranceTara -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 10:31:37 PM)
OP - As others have said in this thread, patience. When hanging out at places that interest you, who knows who you'll meet. If you work out at a gym, maybe he's right there but too scared to approach you. You just never know. MoGa - Hot picture! I love it. And, I love the happy face ring.

doll -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 10:36:21 PM)
quote: OK you like statistics...show me where anyone fell 30,000 feet without a parachute and lived...see you did the same thing that you accused me of doing... You did not think you needed to document your comment you just said it. So back it up or quit being hypocritical. Butch I didn't cite 30,000 feet, you did. I simply cited that it is possible to survive after falling from an airplane. You want MY proof? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUY9sMg2ygg http://www.reuters.com/article/oddlyEnoughNews/idUSSYD31345320070213 http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22502580/ In World War II there were several reports of military aircrew surviving long falls: Nick Alkemade, Alan Magee, and I.M.Chisov all fell at least 5,500 metres (18,000 ft) and survived. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freefall Ok, you like statistics, so there you go. I backed myself, so I don't see how I was hypocritical. My apologies to the OP for hijacking your thread.

domcypher -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 11:23:54 PM)
I seem to have the same problem. Of course, I seek a female sub/slave. It is incredibly hard finding someone around my age who is a) serious b) attractive to me c) remotely interested in all the things I am. Unfortunately I think its one of those subjects that younger people aren't comfortable admiting. They settle for vanilla because they don't want to take the risk of being chastised or discovered, which is a great shame because anyone in the community knows its the complete opposite and there is nothing to be worried about (except the creepers, which is understandable). But at the same time, its important to look at it in the eyes of a younger sub. Young subs are somewhat of a commodity, and as such, when they sign up on sites like this, they're constantly hounded by doms that are probably the exact opposite of what most young subs are looking for... someone attractive, near their age. If we're honest, this is a community largely made up of people over 30, I try to be proactive in, being almost an ambassador for the young community. I wish more people my age would realize, and understand the community...

aravain -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/12/2009 11:37:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol quote: ORIGINAL: aravain EDIT: awww kittin got here first Speed is one of my weaknesses [8D] . Or your greatest strength :D I know guys who would kill for... never mind XD

chezzy71 -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/13/2009 12:48:44 AM)
i quote the Rolling Stones.."you can't always get what you want".

Antheia -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/13/2009 2:58:39 AM)
Maybe they are out looking for a Mistress who doesn't judge people , who really knows what she is talking about and who can really give a damn. But one never knows A Ok this came off sounding harsh when what I was getting at is that we all judge people, in one way or another. I know myself I have looked for one type of person and found what I really needed (and wanted) was another type altogether. It matters or at least should to a degree matter what is inside a person too. A

Antheia -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/13/2009 3:06:09 AM)
quote: I'm not fit nor am I male, but I just have to say how much I love the new pic MoGa[/quote quote: ORIGINAL: girlygurl I second that one. Great pic MoGa. Truly lovely :)

MadameMarque -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/13/2009 3:28:00 AM)
I will confess an uncharitable pleasure in seeing, for once, males shamelessly held up to a certain standard of physical beauty. Ms. Onyx, I might suggest, get thee to a co-ed gym and to public non-pro sporting events, where those playing the sports, and their friends, are also socializing, after the games/skiing/swimming/whatever. And when you go, wear something with just a little bit of kink appeal. You can co-mingle with other people who are physically active, and telegraph your special interests by your style and demeanor.

MadameMarque -> RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. (3/13/2009 3:39:09 AM)
As for the side discussion, about "normal, adjusted" men and women not being interested in male submission and female dominance: Maybe the OP of those remarks meant to say that people so inclined are in the minority, and if so, that would be undeniably true. Makes for a smaller dating pool. But as most people use the phrase 'normal, well-adjusted' (she only said, "adjust") to mean healthy and, you know, well-adjusted - well adapted socially, emotionally, mentally - it gives the impression that you mean to say no healthy, well-adjusted person would have those impulses and desires, and that's what people are balking at, in this thread. There's a terrible tangle of "normal," "average," "common," and "healthy, well-adjusted" all being used interchangeably, here.

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