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RE: Respecting authority - 3/17/2009 7:01:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

if other doms have had this same problem with you, then i would think it is safe to say that it is a problem with you. your aggressive assertive needs at work, do they have to carry over into your relationship? maybe you are not as submissive as you would like to think? after a certain point that the potential slave and i have been talking/chatting/texting. i would be the same way. the dynamic of dom/sub is already established in profiles.if a relationship is trying to be established, as time goes by, the sub should show more signs of submission, and the dom should be showing more signs of dominance. when a sub keeps saying ''I" all the time, and making demands. in my opinion.

choose your words with care, after all you are seeking a master, right? does this master not have to prove himself to you as well? why should he expect any less from you?

Really old chap, I don’t always agree with everything you say, but often you are in the right cricket team, and as such I enjoy reading your posts. It seems to be not so much what you are saying, but the manner in which you address the forum. Condescending is one term which comes to mind with pompous being another. Pomposity is fine if you can do it right and sadly you do fall a tad short.. Probably because you appear to be lacking either the sense of humour or the British mind set which would allow you co carry it off with aplomb. You are in all probability a terribly nice bloke and convivial person in a social setting which is admittedly difficult to replicate on line. In all honesty old boy, you are doing yourself no favours with your photo (Unless you deliberately wanted to stir the pot) which sadly looks a photograph of the late Her Adolph Hitler on a bad day or someone with a dog turd glued under his nose and is reaping the odors on a hot humid day.. Still each to their own and at least I salute the courage to post that photo..

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/18/2009 9:50:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

if other doms have had this same problem with you, then i would think it is safe to say that it is a problem with you. your aggressive assertive needs at work, do they have to carry over into your relationship? maybe you are not as submissive as you would like to think? after a certain point that the potential slave and i have been talking/chatting/texting. i would be the same way. the dynamic of dom/sub is already established in profiles.if a relationship is trying to be established, as time goes by, the sub should show more signs of submission, and the dom should be showing more signs of dominance. when a sub keeps saying ''I" all the time, and making demands. in my opinion.

choose your words with care, after all you are seeking a master, right? does this master not have to prove himself to you as well? why should he expect any less from you?

The pompous and pretentiousness of your posts will earn you a block on my side.

A D/s dynamic is not established in profiles. A profile is someone like you telling about themselves. The dynamic slowly starts when 2 people are getting to know each other.

I do know you call yourself "it" as she also references herself, in third person. Whatever. Using "it" shows us a little about you personally.

But when you write on the boards, if you are an educated man, please use proper grammar. Your short sentences are not sentences, they are words with a dot at the end and without proper structure.

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/18/2009 5:34:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: MASTERLIX

I have seen this many times. The problem I see is that you are struggling with your submission. It isn't that you are not being submissive/slave-like. But you are struggling with your submission.

Before I give you advice, I have a few questions. Have you studied in the lifestyle to determined your submissiveness? Meaning, there are articles you would read that would let you know if you really have the submissive traits. If you have, what have you read and how much have you studied and learned in the lifestyle?

Your response will let me know what to tell you...I have trained many subs in the lifestyle, so, I am very familiar with this.

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/18/2009 11:07:39 PM

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/24/2009 11:09:57 AM

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You know I laughed when I read the Swingers nights...I laughed because we as humans can usually allow our perceptions cloud our judgment.

But moving along, I am there on different nights. You may not notice me because I am rather very quiet and move around quietly, sometimes unnoticed by many. Sometimes, I am at the front desk discussing. Sometimes I am in the store with MsWhip, discussing. Sometimes, just walking around.

About the caps? That is how I write about that club, all the time. It is a habit. Sorry if it annoyed you...You may read that again.

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/24/2009 11:15:44 AM

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Maybe the difference is that I don't attend the swinger's nights.

Another possibility is that one of you is overstating their status as Atlanta-area BDSM leadership.

In this case, that wouldn't be me...

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/25/2009 2:49:42 PM

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i agree with you greedytop...would not invest your precious time in allowing to be Dominated by someone you have not even met...and given this site..may never...lol
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RE: Respecting authority - 3/25/2009 4:18:34 PM

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Hey sweetheart... cut the research... you are only trying to make something perfect before you get into the water... cant be done... cut the text bullshit... it is way too much reading and typing... invest in a good webcam and a headset with microphone... ask him to do the same... discuss in the beginning the ground rules for having meaningfull talks... no ahhhhh mmmmm or ughhhhh bullshit with your hands between your legs and his on his dick... then TALK to each other... if he cant control the direction of the conversations after a few tries... judge him and decide if he can handle you or not... you get your own questions in and answered, without being a pain in the ass... the key - really look at each other, talk TO each other, it is the best, least expensive way of knowing who the fuck you are dealing with, on both sides, and if he shows up in lingerie and pictures of dicks plastered on the wall, with bottles of KY Jelly on the floor... send him a wave emoticon, say goodnight Gracie, and then block his ass, and go off in search of a real adventure, better armed this time. Got that? Ok, cool... all of the best of life, love and laughter is wished for you ... Michael

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/26/2009 2:15:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: MASTERLIX

You know I laughed when I read the Swingers nights...I laughed because we as humans can usually allow our perceptions cloud our judgment.

But moving along, I am there on different nights. You may not notice me because I am rather very quiet and move around quietly, sometimes unnoticed by many. Sometimes, I am at the front desk discussing. Sometimes I am in the store with MsWhip, discussing. Sometimes, just walking around.

About the caps? That is how I write about that club, all the time. It is a habit. Sorry if it annoyed you...You may read that again.

Sir Lix

Comment removed. I decided it wasn't worth My time.

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/26/2009 2:24:45 PM

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Well damn!

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/26/2009 3:04:07 PM

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I've decided to stand on My own merits and reputation on this one, LaT. A fairly safe bet, in My opinion.

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/26/2009 3:33:02 PM

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I believe so.

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/26/2009 10:41:04 PM

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now I'm curious what you'd said, LAdy P

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RE: Respecting authority - 3/28/2009 8:05:34 PM

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Quite honestly, until you get used to leaving work at work..........it will be an issue. There are ways you can resolve that......and I suggest you go to this Dominant with the issue. let him know it, and ask him to correct you on it. That will be submissive, and it will put you back into the place that you so rightly wish to be.

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