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Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 10:48:15 AM   
MistressDREAD


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Personna?

We all do * things to
keep Our personnas
and what makes US
stand out from others
especially as a alternate
lifestyle person.

Dont My *things that
I do make My * personna
stand out from others online?
Can any guess what My kinks,
transgressions, oddities n perversions
are based off of how I carry
My self here while online?
(not spelling correctly, using
weird colors, not using proper
sentance structure, writing as
I speak sum times, Presenting
the exceptions to the rules most
times, going against the grain
of the norm. breaking the rules.)
I bet no one forgets My name.
[If You cant gain the positive strokes
go after the negitive ones I say
because the sqweekie wheel always
gets the oil in the end.] Gawd how
I just love fonics! Not knowing Me
in life Id be currious to hear how
others perceive Me based off of
what they see here and if they felt
it was a true show of My real life
personnna as apposed to My online
one. ( Im using My self as a sample
but wish to apply such across the board
towards all here on collarme and in
alternate lifestyles in general. )

I agree You can always know Ben stiller by
His personality..... it never changes from
movie to movie kind of like most comedians
tho whom do movies. ~A thought of Jerry Lewis
and Groucho Marx comes to mind.~
Can you get to know a person based off of
their personnas here held online and expressed?
Do you judge a persons desire qualities based off
of such a personnas perception here online? Can
you tell what kinks they have or perversions?








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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:00:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
Can you get to know a person based off of
their personnas here held online and expressed?
Do you judge a persons desire qualities based off
of such a personnas perception here online? Can
you tell what kinks they have or perversions?

Yes.

And the more time and posting that occurs, the easier it is.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:06:42 AM   
MasterRobert1


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Status: offline 		How about Peter Sellers? His personna changed with the characters he played.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:11:42 AM   
FTopinMichigan


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Status: offline 		Sure, I read someone and make assessments about them, and their personality. Sometimes I look at them and figure if it's someone I would want to know in person, or block on the message board.

Your posts impress me as someone that has to show their individuality, and your choice of font shows you might like being difficult, and desire attention.

I can't read the font myself, and changed it, just to read the post. I enjoyed your posts in the past, otherwise, I would skip the thread...just for the hard read. (Gray script on gray background, tends to run together for these old eyeballs.)

I do hope to meet some folks from this message board some day (know a few now), but it's not the ones that have built up "personas." I hope to enjoy the people that are projecting their themselves just as they are. What you see, is what you get with me.

K

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:13:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FTopinMichigan
Your posts impress me as someone that has to show their individuality, and your choice of font shows you might like being difficult, and desire attention.

Ooo do me do me! I make it so easy.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:30:23 AM   
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quote:

Yes.

And the more time and posting that occurs, the easier it is.


Perfect agreement.

st50

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:47:30 AM   
MistressDREAD


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quote:

FTopinMichigan
Your posts impress me as someone that has to show their individuality, and your choice of font shows you might like being difficult, and desire attention.


well FTopinMichigan that could be said about any even in a vanilla society. But what I was getting at is can a persons alternate kinks be determined by their personnas application here and yes you did hit one thing about Me correct I like being difficult and nonconformist and show My individuality and as different here as I am in real life to the majority and even the minority hence My font and even on occation My use of bad sentance structure and ill phonics and weird colors and even a language other then english that really gets the Monderators runnin around with their heads cut off. LOL. Im a Sadist and take enjoyment in others pains and will create situations to cause such. Yep I rage against the wheel so to speak. I question Authority even My Own at times. Its like that comercial where the * MAN* enjoys ( sticking it to THE MAN ) and the employee asks but arnt You THE MAN? and are you not * sticking it* to Yourself? ) and He replys well maybe............ see thats nonconformity at its very best!

When I want attention I fly Home to My slaves who always wait on My return. {Nothing here or in life can equal their attention towards Me when I am actually in need of such things.}







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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:47:42 AM   
Sensualips


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quote:

Ooo do me do me! I make it so easy.


There are so many smart ass things I could say here.

Instead...Ft...yeah yeah, do me too!

I believe you can definitely begin to know a person, not by a post or two...but by their entire "body of work." You may not know everything about them, but you can get a very good feel for their basic personality and preferences. Like anything, it takes time though.



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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 11:52:20 AM   
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quote:

quote:

Yes.

And the more time and posting that occurs, the easier it is.


quote:

Ya think? ~evil grin~

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 12:32:34 PM   
Nuke718


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Status: offline 		Can one get a feel for anothers personality and kinks based on their OL presence?

I believe so, as long as the person being analyzed is being themselves and not intentionally giving a misleading picture.

For instance I have had a good feel for LuckyA for a good long while. And you yourself give me a definite vibe. Are they accurate? Well as we will probably not be spending a lot of time together I will not likely know. But I do usually read stuff both of you write.

N

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 12:51:55 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		well one can never really be certain if the online personna really reflects the actual person accuratly, but after reading many, many posts, one does form a pretty accurate picture of the person, or at least how the person wishes to be seen online. Personally I would be disappointed if i was very wrong in my guestimations, as some of you are a real treat, and I really do hope you are the same way in RL.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 12:55:41 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:


Can you get to know a person based off of
their personnas here held online and expressed?
Do you judge a persons desire qualities based off
of such a personnas perception here online? Can
you tell what kinks they have or perversions?



You can only know someone as much as they allow you to know. Quite often, 'persona' does not equal 'person.' Personally, I look for consistancy and relate better to those who share my views on issues such as safety and growth. That doesn't mean I won't become friends with someone who doesn't share those views, but it's much harder for me, especially if it concerns something which is very important to me.

I think it's fairly easy to tell someone's kinks online, because it's what is most often talked about! If we're in a discussion on needle play, for example, the respondants to any particular thread are, generally, going to fall into one of three catagory's. They love it, they hate it or they are curious about it and want to learn more. After all, how often is someone going to respond to a specific kink if they have absolutely no interest in it?

I think, for the most part, 'personas' are an exception rather than a rule. At least from my perspective, the majority I see posting ::the posts that I read, of course:: seem to be a what you see is what you get. But I've been fooled before, so, you just never know.

Celeste


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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 1:06:42 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Readig people's posts, I tend to assess the character I see and develop likes and dislikes of that personna. Yet i as well aware that what i'm seeing is only a small glimps of that person who may or may not deliberatly allow me to see a tad more of her or him. A number of course use a deliberately constructed personna which shows nothing of the person behind the screen on the KB. Still even then, if you are observant and read, really read their posts you can see characteristic traits in their writing style, the way they use their words, when arguments get heated they are more likely to give more of themselves away, there likes, dislikes tollerances or lack of them. In effect you can spend the time particularly with a prolific poster and profile them. It is not likely to be a detailes profile because unlike professional profilers at work, there is no physical evidence to add to the mix.

Dread,
Well yes, I have a mental immage of you. Over the years I've known you on line I have come to respect you where others feared you. You have one trait I can usually rely on and that is your directness and no noncense attitude. You are one of the few people I am in some form of contact with whom I'd rather have you as a friend or on the same side than an enemy. But what a worthy opponent you'd make.

Sheesh dyslexia is cutting in and so are the typos

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 1:28:20 PM   
Sirandlittle1


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Status: offline 		There is a system of viewing others called a Jahari window. The 'Jahari Window' is made up of four panes of glass thus:

what you see and others see (public self shown on boards such as this)
what only you see but others cannot (private conscious self, the superego)
what others see but you yourself cannot (unintentionally public self, ego)
What neither you nor others see (your unconcious self, your id)

People portray the image that they wish to be portrayed publicly, the window you and others can see through.
The more the member posts, the more we glimpse through a window, that we can see, yet you perhaps cannot. LIttle titbits of emotion and cognition that you let slip unintentionally. Some self aware people, have learned to view through this window somewhat. Personally, it is this window that i am learning about my need to submit through.

It is a narcissistic desire of humans, to want to be able to see what others can see that your not aware of yourself.

As a dominant sadist with SNPD, hey, your a pussy cat MistressDread. Which for yours, is perfect im sure. You leak how much you miss yours, when absent from them. As a mother, i have shared your angst when our 'babies' have left and are in danger elsewhere, a softer side of you. I have seen you post when in a bad space, and i have seen you post when in a playful space and the miriad of posts inbetween.

We can all hide behind this screen, its easy to do so, more so than when you meet people in real life.
Personally, i find it true, that if you really wish to get to know someone, then you should be sharing your lives together, as a friend, a partner or whatever. Living together, tends to rip away any veneers put in place after a time. But over the internet, its difficult to judge another from what they have written, proof read, edited and posted. Real life does not afford us this subtefuge.

little1's tuppence worth.






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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 3:49:46 PM   
MistressDREAD


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quote:

you yourself give me a definite vibe


Thats good definitive vibe would be what I am always shooting for.

Its been a long 16 years online here Iron and in that time forming
the personna I desire for others to base their beliefs about Me on
Yourself included has progressed beautifully. You hit the nose
there on one item You said but Ill not say which it was Iron,
~smiles evily~
quote:

a worthy opponent you'd make

ThankYou for the compliment Iron, I dont think Ive ever been
given One better here online however I would never be an opponent
of Yours, You gained My respect for You a long time ago and I
would never take the lead in Your presance.

lil1 My personna online has been and will always be directed straight
at those like you who carry the basis for your thoughts based off of
perceptions with in the rhelm of reality apposed to the fantical.
Gotta love theorys imposed.
Online the Jahani window doesent work, why? Because here all the windows
are blackened out with solid veneer online. ~smiles~ really REALLY
big with a feeling of real accomplishment. I think a student just
graduated!! HAHAHAHAHA. Im glad that you remembered that I portray
My self as a Dominant Sadist with SNPD that has pussycat tendancies.
That facts hidden wayyyyy back somewhere, keepin a eye on Me arnt cha.

When you open your office lil1 give Me a call and Ill give you a glimpe
into the scarrier side thats always kept in complete control. Well almost
always............. I travel internationally commonly and with no issue.







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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 4:16:34 PM   
veronicaofML


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Status: offline 		not all can be believed, online. i know of a few instances, wherein someone made claim to be one thing, and in real life were actually the opposite.

i.e.

someone claims to be sincere and honest
and in truth is a 2 faced troublemaking low down scum.

i know of a few i have met myself, online, CLAIMED to be honest and caring, and then when they were told no, i am not interested,...they became vicious, and self righteous...

i have learned to never trust anyone, ESPECIALLY if they claim to be a dominant.......





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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 4:40:12 PM   
MistressDREAD


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yes veronicaofML
But in what ways do you personally reveile your alternate lifestyle kinks?

And ArPig theres something about the way You say real treat that
I think would makes Me blush in real life.


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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 4:50:37 PM   
veronicaofML


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But in what ways do you personally reveile your alternate lifestyle kinks?
=================

"I"..........have........NO kinks.

i am not s/m.
i am 100% service ONLY!
no sex
no s/m
no romantic b.s.
SERVICE!
i am but a hired hand.


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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 5:16:00 PM   
stef


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Status: offline 		A hired hand who wears panties and has chastity piercings. Sure, that sounds like "100% service ONLY" to me

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 5:48:18 PM   
MistressDREAD


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hmmm a male slave called veronica and posting on a
alternate lifestyles board and has no kinks?. but if you
say you have no personna thats into the lifestyle
well ummmm hmm I suppose you dont concider
crossdressing a kink. But it is. AND Id also define
your personnna ( since you wont yourself ) as
A mental peculiarity, a quirk. why else would a
male slave commit to a life of servitude if not
peculiar much less define their selfs as a male
slave called veronica? Inquiring minds~~~~

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