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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 6:28:26 PM

veronicaofML

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hmmm a male slave called veronica and posting on a
alternate lifestyles board and has no kinks?. but if you
say you have no personna thats into the lifestyle
well ummmm hmm I suppose you dont concider
crossdressing a kink. But it is. AND Id also define
your personnna ( since you wont yourself ) as
A mental peculiarity, a quirk. why else would a
male slave commit to a life of servitude if not
peculiar much less define their selfs as a male
slave called veronica? Inquiring minds
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no worse than someone claiming to be an identity She herself said was lost in a Gor fight.....

i do what i do..YOU do what YOU do.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/24/2006 7:27:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

hmmm a male slave called veronica and posting on a
alternate lifestyles board and has no kinks?. but if you
say you have no personna thats into the lifestyle
well ummmm hmm I suppose you dont concider
crossdressing a kink. But it is. AND Id also define
your personnna ( since you wont yourself ) as
A mental peculiarity, a quirk. why else would a
male slave commit to a life of servitude if not
peculiar much less define their selfs as a male
slave called veronica? Inquiring minds~~~~

IMHO it takes one mental pecularity to know one-and btw his Mistress renamed him veronica from lonewolf---yes online personas and assumptions

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 5:54:35 AM

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Ooo do me do me! I make it so easy.

There are so many smart ass things I could say here.

Instead...Ft...yeah yeah, do me too!

I believe you can definitely begin to know a person, not by a post or two...but by their entire "body of work." You may not know everything about them, but you can get a very good feel for their basic personality and preferences. Like anything, it takes time though.

I completely agree...and you and Lucky are two women I'd be happy to "do"...even though I don't like women (as anything except friends).

Seriously though, you two women are very upfront with your opinions, and I don't see any other personas projected from your words in post. That tends to show me...you're both great ladies. I'd love to know both you, in real life.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 8:02:01 AM

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The point of a message board is to drop one's persona, and so I think you learn more about a stranger from a message board than from a social encounter. This says something, because a MB is 100% verbal communication whereas face to face communication is probably only 60% verbal, if that.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 9:55:22 AM

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The point of a message board is to drop one's persona, and so I think you learn more about a stranger from a message board than from a social encounter. This says something, because a MB is 100% verbal communication whereas face to face communication is probably only 60% verbal, if that.

I think it is to drop, add, change, modify or cover one's persona--it allows for elusion--it is the written word that can be easily manipulated ( well not for most of us--that are such passionate hot heads--LOL)--but you are right in that it allows for an exchange--albiet rude or otherwise, that may not happen in public--one would hope that the persona shown here is the same as in public, but I tend to doubt it in many cases--

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 10:29:22 AM

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Yeah, it is kind of an E Harmony.com thing. Message boards and online in general give me a pretty good idea of someone. The longer you post or chat, the better. If someone is argumentative or has a sense of humor, it tends to come out over time. Intelligence level, consistency and values all surface in words. One reason is the anonymity of the internet which is kind of like being on the psychiatrist’s sofa and saying whatever you feel. Similar individuals soon find themselves on the safe sofa.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 10:31:00 AM

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It is? Apparently I didn't get this memo. Damnit.

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The point of a message board is to drop one's persona,

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 11:07:40 AM

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Seriously though, you two women are very upfront with your opinions, and I don't see any other personas projected from your words in post. That tends to show me...you're both great ladies. I'd love to know both you, in real life.

I agree... I very much enjoy reading there thoughts.... both strike me as people not trying to be anything in particular.. they are just being themselves!

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 11:23:11 AM

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The point of a message board is to drop one's persona, and so I think you learn more about a stranger from a message board than from a social encounter. This says something, because a MB is 100% verbal communication whereas face to face communication is probably only 60% verbal, if that.

I am not sure if that is the point of the message board... but, I do think that those who are not so worried or focused on presenting a specific persona are able to do so on the MB in much easier manner than in a F2F situation. On the MB, we can take time to present ourself, write a thought out and consider it, step back and then reword and send it out to the word. Now, if one does this each and every time they post on the board, is that really an accurate persona? In F2F we only have the moment to send out our message, we have but a few seconds to consider what we are going to say before we say it. Even as we consider what we say, our body language presents all sorts of language to the observer. Also, in a F2F there are many situations that just can't be duplicated in the MB. I think ExistentialSteel has made a very good point when he expressed,

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Message boards and online in general give me a pretty good idea of someone. The longer you post or chat, the better. If someone is argumentative or has a sense of humor, it tends to come out over time. Intelligence level, consistency and values all surface in words.

I think what makes things difficult is appreciating the motivation of a person. One a MB a malice motivation is much easier to hid and we see such occurances on a regular basis. It is also easier to hid one's weakest points and constantly present the stronger ones. But, even in person, understanding a person's motivation is a tricky business!

The key words as ExS has stated " The Longer you " and I add... "interact with a person in whatever context, you begin to learned about the person."

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 5:44:17 PM

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C'mon, for anyone with gonads, a MB is pure thought and soul. Why hang back? Why worry about what someone else thinks? It won't get back to the boss, the neighbors, your family ---- its raw freedom incorporated. Its a Dostoevskian paradise. Wherelse you gonna meet the likes of LOLA, Veronica, you in such BOLD RELIEF?

Sure, there's gamemanship, but than only makes everything more interesting.

Uninhibited F2F would certainly offer more, and be much deeper, but that's no small caveat.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 6:13:42 PM

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C'mon, for anyone with gonads, a MB is pure thought and soul. Why hang back? Why worry about what someone else thinks? It won't get back to the boss, the neighbors, your family ---- its raw freedom incorporated. Its a Dostoevskian paradise. Wherelse you gonna meet the likes of LOLA, Veronica, you in such BOLD RELIEF?

Sure, there's gamemanship, but than only makes everything more interesting.

Uninhibited F2F would certainly offer more, and be much deeper, but that's no small caveat.

My beloved cloudboy, for you the MB are pure thought and soul, but I am going to say to you, for probably 60% of the responders, its a mask--yes give a damn for what others think--but to think it is honest and pure---well uhm believe none of what you hear and half of what you see---

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 8:08:23 PM

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My beloved cloudboy, for you the MB are pure thought and soul, but I am going to say to you, for probably 60% of the responders, its a mask--yes give a damn for what others think--but to think it is honest and pure---well uhm believe none of what you hear and half of what you see---

Well, I have not looked for it, or recognized it per se, but I guess what you are saying is that some are angling to achieve some sort of "effect." Probably so, but such a thing doesn't have much staying power.

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/25/2006 8:23:12 PM

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KnightofMists<<<<<

Ya speak truth here...
msg boards aint as good as face to face..ya are right.
and i spose...lots of folks take their sweet little time writing out cutesy lil things..
me?

hell no.
i write as i think n speak,....

y'all take care.
i like yer posts.
thanks

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RE: Lifestyle Personnas and how they are expressed - 1/26/2006 6:20:57 AM

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My beloved cloudboy, for you the MB are pure thought and soul, but I am going to say to you, for probably 60% of the responders, its a mask--yes give a damn for what others think--but to think it is honest and pure---well uhm believe none of what you hear and half of what you see---

Well, I have not looked for it, or recognized it per se, but I guess what you are saying is that some are angling to achieve some sort of "effect." Probably so, but such a thing doesn't have much staying power.

On that thought I agree, I do tend to believe what I see written but then there are times that thoughts come across opposed to what once was written ( curse of photographic memory)--and I begin to wonder---but one hopes it is a place of indeed pure thought, to learn, to impart and to test the waters of tolerance---smiles

I personally am pretty much the persona I portray here---but then boy can confirm that more--

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