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RE: New Mistress looking for advice - 3/24/2009 1:28:29 PM

GoddessTeaze

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MissJanice2 wrote: I don't mind my slave looking at other women, but when he does, I seem to get pissed off.

So you do mind, then. Actually, quite a lot.

Did you mean to write something else?

beeble.

Roflmao

Too funny.

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RE: New Mistress looking for advice - 3/24/2009 7:27:16 PM

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Now if I only had a chastity device...

These ideas are great. And I will be sure to have a serious discussion with subbie before we go anywhere.

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RE: New Mistress looking for advice - 3/24/2009 7:29:30 PM

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Lookat sex toys find it there

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RE: New Mistress looking for advice - 3/27/2009 9:29:59 AM

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Wow!!! Some of you are cruel. I like the butt plag and chasity idea. If he were mine, I would have the girls tease him bigtime.

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RE: New Mistress looking for advice - 3/28/2009 11:36:47 PM

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Why does everyone try to model their relationship on other people's ideas? Any relationship should be as indivigual as the people involved in it. You need to communicate your expectations to your partner. What anyone else would expect in the same situation is irrelevent. This is all universaly true, it doesn't matter if it's a vanilla or a kink relationship.

In a D/s relationship there will be expectations punishments when the submissive's performance does not meet the dominants requirements. Still, punishments and rewards need to be indivigualy based on what the person would enjoy and what they would work to avoid. Some subs enjoy beatings or whippings, others hate them. Many men would consider having to perform oral sex on another man a degrading punishment. My Mistress knows that for *me* sucking on a well hung man is a reward. You need a lot of communication to learn what will motivate *your* sub.

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RE: New Mistress looking for advice - 3/29/2009 12:08:31 PM

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Why does everyone try to model their relationship on other people's ideas? Any relationship should be as indivigual as the people involved in it. .

I do not think that Mistress Persephone was looking for a total plan of what to do, but ideas so that she can see if anything sounded interesting to her. Sometimes people just want to find a new idea to spice things up. I think it is horrible that people on this site continue to ridicul people that are trying to learn from others. Afterall a community is there to help people learn.

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