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RE: sleeping with someone on the first meeting: do or d... - 3/20/2009 11:49:40 AM

TaoWoman

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In the past 3 years, I think I have only NOT had sex on the first date 3x...morality is not the issue with me - chemistry and sexual safety are~

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RE: sleeping with someone on the first meeting: do or d... - 3/20/2009 12:55:37 PM

UncleNasty

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

only you can answer that question.

personally, i don't sleep with any man on the first, second, fifth, tenth etc meeting. i prefer to be in a solid relationship first.

A solid relationship for me is inclusive of sexual chemistry and sexual compatibility and I couldn't consider it to be solid until that, among other qualities and attributes, had been established.

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RE: sleeping with someone on the first meeting: do or d... - 3/20/2009 2:21:58 PM

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Who cares what other people think about it. Honestly. Some will say yay some will say nay, some may say you go girl and some will think you're a whore.

If you want to do it, do it regardless of what a bunch of strangers on some website will think. Nobody can dictate what's appropriate and not for you, based on some internet post, and if we all could I would still say decide for yourself. It's part of owning your own actions.

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ORIGINAL: evelinggirl

i've heard different opinions on this topic. i generally don't mind sleeping with a guy i have a connection with but if i'm meeting him for the first time in person, i want to know what people think about that. i mean besides the unsafe factor which i generally establish when i first meet a guy. would it be more appropriate to wait for the second or beyond meetings?

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RE: sleeping with someone on the first meeting: do or d... - 3/20/2009 6:59:56 PM

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~fast reply~

i slept with TheEngineer on our frist meeting. he drove from new orleans to jacksonville fairly sure he was gonna get nailed.

that was over 10 years ago now, i think. maybe 9. my memory is shot. anyway, we only "dated" three times before he moved me to houston to live with him. so sometimes it works.

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RE: sleeping with someone on the first meeting: do or d... - 3/23/2009 9:13:38 AM

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RE: sleeping with someone on the first meeting: do or d... - 3/23/2009 9:20:54 AM

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Usually its a given that it going to happen but this is after getting to know each other thur messages and lots of phone time..I would say over the last 5 years it an rare exception that it doesn't happen...B

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