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RE: what does the 'submissive' have to offer a dom/domme? - 3/20/2009 7:29:23 PM

Jeptha

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ORIGINAL: transfixed

...will be honest folks - this is ALL about me (joke - not) i.e. what do i have to offer rather than what i am seeking?

Just as a side note: those can be the same things.
What you are seeking can be seen as your 'strengths', in one way of looking at it.

But, as well, one of my favorite things to do is explore and play around with the fantasy life of my partner. I like to get into and explore that intimate personal landscape (if you will), and I have often found myself very at home there.
So, in that sense also, what you are seeking can be thought of as what you have to offer.

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RE: what does the 'submissive' have to offer a dom/domme? - 3/20/2009 7:59:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: Freyathelady

I think the best thing a sub has to offer is a true desire to make the dom's life easier.

That about explains what a sub should be able to offer me as a domme

I don't have a 24/7 partner or am I needing one, I play casually. I like a different mix of subs so prefer a stable of subs

what I offer subs is a means to bring their submissiveness into reality.

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RE: what does the 'submissive' have to offer a dom/domme? - 3/21/2009 12:10:20 AM

Kana

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I am a simple guy...
And a pig.
All I want is everything.

Easy enough.

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RE: what does the 'submissive' have to offer a dom/domme? - 3/21/2009 2:10:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What I want a slave to have to offer........their belonging to me has to enrich my life. They have to bring a positive "more", instead of a negative and stressful "more.

I am a giving person but I am NOT going to be the one putting forth all the effort and energy just to create an environment for her to live out her fantasies.

And your belongings are theirs???

*sings: is your wallet big enough....? *

Well transfixed, as you can see there are different people,
with different opinons. But for Me it's not about their wallets,
it's about Love, and a Magic click there is,
and I go on from there.

So be yourself, and know what you're good at.

It will all b alright.

I wish you enough.

GoddezzT`

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RE: what does the 'submissive' have to offer a dom/domme? - 3/21/2009 2:23:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

My service, devotion, love, obedience, character, integrity, honesty, life skills, intelligence, body, mind, whatever he wants.

In context: I am taken but we do not live together and he has indicated in some clear instances of what it is he seeks and does almost everytime we talk because I pay attention to his desires, wants, needs, language. We communicate as much as possible.

ditto exactly

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RE: what does the 'submissive' have to offer a dom/domme? - 3/21/2009 6:38:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

I am a simple guy...
And a pig.
All I want is everything.

Easy enough.

Dayum but that's sexy.

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RE: what does the 'submissive' have to offer a dom/domme? - 3/21/2009 8:26:47 AM

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In short, what I have to offer is me - all the complexities of my personality, my passions, desires, quirks, dorkiness, humor, issues, etc., to name a few. Like DES said, I'm not filling out a job application. I want to click with someone whose complexities, personality, passions, desires, quirks, dorkiness, humor and issues attract me in return.

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