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RE: Doctor visits - 1/27/2006 9:11:30 PM   
sissymaidlola


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Status: offline 		OK, three response so far, cool ... but they are ALL from female subs. What about you owned male subs out there with tattoos and brandings, etc. of ownership? sissy Suspects it is much harder for us male subs when we go to the doctor's office ... we don't seem to have the rapport with our GPs as you gals have with your Ob/Gyns who don't ever seem to be fazed by anything you do. Here is just an example of what sissy fears can go wrong when he goes to the doc ....

sissy Goes to the doctor wearing make-up:

lola: Hi Doc, I've got a bit of a cough.
doc: You've got what ?
lola: I've got a bit of a cough.
doc: You're a transvestite, aren't you ?
lola: No, I've just got a cough. Yes, I am a transvestite, but I've also got a cough.
doc: Well, I'd better sort the transvestite thing out. I'll have to refer you for that.
lola: No, that's OK Doc, really, it's not a problem ... just treat the cough please.

You guys that are not TVs just don't realize the obstacles that things such as a routine visit to the doctor's office presents to us trannies ... Even if we go to see the doc in our regular drab clothes, we still have to contend with worrying about things such as what the doctor (or any of his female assistants) will say once we have stripped naked to reveal that we are completely depilated, have bra and bikini tan lines, and have the words "sissy slut" tattooed on our buttocks .... or will we catch ourselves in time and manage to refrain from shouting "harder, deeper!" when the doc performs the prostrate cancer examination ....

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RE: Doctor visits - 1/28/2006 11:43:36 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Ummm sissy sweetheart...why do you not go to a kink aware doctor? I would think that they had seen a TV before?

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/29/2006 12:11:59 AM   
Silverwuulf


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From: Texas
Status: offline 		When I was collared, I was unable to wear a collar around my neck at work, so my Mistress gave me a bracelet to wear in place of a watch. I got some funny looks from people that thought it was a watch and asked me what time it was, but other than that, no one that didn't know said anything.

I would consider piercing if that was something They wanted, but tattoos or brands would take a lot of convincing and even more love from Them.

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RE: funny looks from strangers - 1/29/2006 12:59:30 AM   
sissymaidlola


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When I was collared, I was unable to wear a collar around my neck at work, so my Mistress gave me a bracelet to wear in place of a watch. I got some funny looks from people that thought it was a watch and asked me what time it was, but other than that, no one that didn't know said anything.

Stranger: "Have ya got the time on ya cock ?"
Silverwuulf: "No, but i've got my slave name on my wrist!"

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RE: Kink aware doctors - 1/29/2006 1:08:06 AM   
sissymaidlola


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Ummm sissy sweetheart...why do you not go to a kink aware doctor? I would think that they had seen a TV before?

Damn, sissy must have overlooked all the doctors that are listed under the "Kink Aware" section of his HMO plan. Funny, sissy's HMO doesn't seem to have a "Kink Aware" section ... what gives here?

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/29/2006 4:15:53 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		hello sorry i haven't posted yet but as a sub male to a Mistress i wear panties as well as nail polish on my toes and a pink rubber wrist band the cancer one so i get by in the publics eyes

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RE: Kink aware doctors - 1/29/2006 4:57:33 AM   
JohnWarren


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Ummm sissy sweetheart...why do you not go to a kink aware doctor? I would think that they had seen a TV before?

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ORIGINAL: sissymaidlola
Damn, sissy must have overlooked all the doctors that are listed under the "Kink Aware" section of his HMO plan. Funny, sissy's HMO doesn't seem to have a "Kink Aware" section ... what gives here?


Go to Race Bannon's Kink Aware Professionals site

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/30/2006 4:04:56 AM   
Pentagod


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

A lot of people use their hair as a symbol.


My sub does this as well. Also, I use the same stylist ( world class ) since I feel a womans hair is her crown.

It is obvious to all others in the scene who is mine usually due to the impeccable nature of the thier hair and coloring.

-Penta

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/30/2006 3:10:44 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		I love the ID braclett idea! Mine would say, "Please return to Daddy."

We are in a LDR and I won't be getting my collar until we are in real life. He did send me a lovely toe ring right after we started and it hasn't come off since. I find myself often looking at it or playing with it when I am sitting down. I don't plan to ever take it off unless it breaks.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/30/2006 6:59:46 PM   
sjacket


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quote:

ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? ....


Mistress is cutting her initial into my left shoulder. She is using scalpels, and we will be doing cutting #8 this coming weekend.



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RE: signs of ownership - 1/30/2006 7:54:27 PM   
LisaLace


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Status: offline 		People that talk about themselves in third person,, irritating

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/30/2006 10:14:42 PM   
classykindasassy


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Status: offline 		I don't have this but would like to one day:

like in Story of O, a clit hood piercing with a tag I can hang from it for parties.

Or, I like that ring she had too, the one that looks like a collar with a bail/ring hanging from it.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/30/2006 11:35:14 PM   
veronicaofML


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From: from iowa..now in wisconsin
Status: offline 		i'd a gave $20 i was in here somewhere...
all i can say is;
i have 'a' tattoo on my left butt cheek from my 1st domme...
and of course...i have my dog choker chain collar i wear 24/7/365


unless ya count the p.a. She let me have that i begged for?????


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RE: signs of ownership - 1/31/2006 1:25:30 AM   
NastyAngel


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Status: offline 		I don't have anything official yet and so far we are only online but Master says he wants to make it real very soon and go from there but he had me buy a bracelet which I wear as my symbol and when I am with him, he plans to pierce me and tattoo me.

btw, I actually have 2 Masters, they have slaves they own together so this part is new to me. I"ve been a slave before but to a former Master that was abusive. My new Master/s are very good and treat me right and they both have plans of tattoos and piercings. hehe

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RE: funny looks from strangers - 1/31/2006 5:05:31 AM   
TslAveS


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From: sk
Status: offline 		hello sister, you look dashing in that french maid suit and also in that pink dress. would love to borrow it from you =) if you will let me .. jk

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RE: signs of ownership - 2/1/2006 4:12:30 PM   
sting516


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From: long island, ny
Status: offline 		The signs that i am owned will be a large gothic tattoo on my back stating "Property of Mistress (Her first name here)"

In addition, i already have a guiche piercing at Her instruction (to be used for chastity) and am told She will also pierce my tongue and ears.

i'm very lucky that Mistress has chosen to decorate me as such...and hope She'll make whatever changes She wishes during the course of Her ownership of me

Just my two cents.

sting

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RE: signs of ownership - 2/2/2006 1:43:43 PM   
Veritasluxmea


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Status: offline 		Ok, please don't jump down on my for this, I just have a few questions. I am ok with piercings, a little less okay with tattoos and vehemently against brandings and cuttings. I don't know..I equate scarring with abuse, but it's because I have scars from past abuse. Are those limits ok? Will a good Master respect them? Or, am I being overdramatic and need to get over it? Will a Master expect me to trust him enough to scar myself for him? Or, do I find one with those limits too? Sorry for so many questions, and thanks for any response!

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RE: signs of ownership - 2/2/2006 1:53:34 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Veritasluxmea
Are those limits ok?

Any limit is ok. You can have a limit on not wearing pink. You can have a limit on not sleeping after 6 pm.

The issue is finding someone who is compatible and happy with those limits also.

quote:

Will a good Master respect them?

A good person will respect your limits. HOWEVER, a person can be a good master and still not be compatible with your limits. A master isn't bad just because he really wants piercings in his slave. It just means you aren't compatible.

A bad master will try and shame you and tell you that you are wrong for having the limits that you have just in order for them to get what you want.

quote:

Or, am I being overdramatic and need to get over it?

You will find in time that many of your limits will shift, due to many reasons. The moment you start doubting yourself however, is the moment that someone will try and take advantage.

quote:

Will a Master expect me to trust him enough to scar myself for him?

Since you are the one who gets to choose who you belong to- you should have this discussion before you make a commitment. Some masters want it, some don't.

quote:

Or, do I find one with those limits too? Sorry for so many questions, and thanks for any response!

It's generally easier all around to find someone with very compatible limits. I'm not saying you shouldn't be flexible- but you should find a balance between being true to yourself and being open to new experiences.

Only you can say where that line of balance is.

PS- great Buffy quote on the profile, don't make the mistakes that she did- rushing to something just to FEEL

< Message edited by LuckyAlbatross -- 2/2/2006 1:54:47 PM >

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RE: signs of ownership - 2/2/2006 2:05:04 PM   
PenelopePitstop


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From: UK
Status: offline 		One thing I like the idea of which is not too much of a 'committment' is to have my Dom prick his name on my ass in a million tiny dots.

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RE: signs of ownership - 2/2/2006 4:46:03 PM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		last night Master gave me a sliver anklet of slave bells and yin/yang symbols. it tinkles so gracefully in its sound

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