Isara
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Joined: 2/4/2005 From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia Status: offline
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i always felt a permanent marking would be a "hard limit" too. But when Master wanted to mark me - brand me with a tattoo of his insignia (thankfully he did not want me to go through a hot iron branding - deciding that inflicting that kind of pain on me did not grow my submission any differently), i had concerns but worked through them. Now i happily and proudly wear his mark. As long as i continue to work hard for him, he will not release me, so i don't worry about that. However - - if such a day should come, i am honored to wear the mark of a man who effectively helped me turn my life around. i wear a 24/7 collar (gold and titanium) and his mark on my right flank. Funny, a realtor i met recently complemented my "unique necklace" and said it looked "strong." :) Goodness your collar sounds lovely!. I wasn't criticising anyone's relationship, I just look at things differently I guess. What is it? One in two/tree? marriages will fail, and BDSM relationships, when they're long term, are (for me at least) not unlike a marriage. (Though our version of it can be more fun )That's not to say I'm dooming myself from the start, but I'm realistic, relationships -do- fail, and sometimes they go bad. I'd rather not have marked someone permenantly.
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"I can't -- not just like that. I'm a complicated person, you see, Aunty... Sometimes I'm nice, and sometimes I'm nasty -- hee hee!...and sometimes I just like to sing little songs, like: "See the little goblin, see his little-- " Edmond Blackadder
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