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littlewonder -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 2:58:17 PM)
I don't. I get to know people for who they are..not what they like to do in the bedroom.

akisha -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 3:03:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave I've never flagged, but I've often wanted to try a black handkerchief in my right pocket just to see if anyone notices... live on the wild side, use an orange one grins

IrishMist -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 3:08:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress How do you tell the public that you are into SM? Are your clues subtle? Do you use sybols like a triske tattoo or handcuff earrings, or do you do it in person, drop hints in conversation.... Just curious how others do it... As others have said I don't

akisha -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 3:08:59 PM)
I don't use any symbolism when out and about. It's nobody's business and I'd be really pissed off if someone came up to me and started talking kink when I'm out shopping with my lil girl or my mom. If I want someone to know, I just straight out tell them. I never was good at games or code or what ever. I'm pretty straight forward and blunt

DomImus -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 3:15:34 PM)
I don't flag. I have a handcuff key on my keyring just as an novelty but nobody has ever noticed it or mentioned it if they have. Anyone I might seek would pick me out without any outward indications. The ones that need to be flagged probably would not suit me.

LovingMistress45 -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 3:19:55 PM)
I don't in general. If I want someone to know then I tell them. A while back a guy at work flirting with me a lot and I said you don't know what you are getting into. He said what do you mean so I told him to check out A Different Loving and get back to me. But really most of my friends know, but I live in a small conservative area so I am not public about it.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 4:37:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress How do you tell the public that you are into SM? Are your clues subtle? Do you use sybols like a triske tattoo or handcuff earrings, or do you do it in person, drop hints in conversation.... Just curious how others do it... I don't.

MarsBonfire -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 5:29:23 PM)
I generally don't. Wearing a collar has been taken over by vanilla kids, and most people have no idea what either the hanky code, or the whole left/right thing means with keys or steel rings, or whatever. These days, if you want to broadcast, just wear some BDSM themed t-shirts. Otherwise... don't bother.

Rickyonhh -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 6:43:29 PM)
Due to both the nature of my job and the fact that I live in a small community I couldn't if I wanted to. Wish I could though. One day maybe when I am in a different situation and enviroment.

littlesarbonn -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 8:35:09 PM)
It's pretty simple for me. When someone starts looking like she's interested in developing a relationship with me, I just come out and say I'm a lifestyle submissive and if asked, I explain what that means. If it doesn't go forward from there, I really don't care. I've stopped trying to be careful about stating it. Most of my friends know this about me. Most of my friends are women, and they completely understand that this is a part of me. It doesn't mean I have to serve them, but they know that if they're ever interested in hooking me up with someone, that's going to be a huge part of the dynamic. And it's actually served me well because every now and then one of my friends will tell me there's some woman they want me to meet, and sure enough I've been saved from TONS of awkward conversations. Mostly, however, they tend to introduce me to women who are struggling to figure out why they feel the way they do (they tend to use me to help out submissive women friends who don't realize there's a community out there), and I'm fine with that, too. I'm pretty much the safest friend they know to help people out in this lifestyle without ever having to feel that I'm going to use it to my own advantage.

MasterRaid -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 10:18:13 PM)
My Flag is very boring and dull, I simply tell them.

Lordandmaster -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 10:26:33 PM)
Mostly I use telepathic signals, but they're not always received. So sometimes I have to give stronger indications. quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress How do you tell the public that you are into SM? Are your clues subtle? Do you use sybols like a triske tattoo or handcuff earrings, or do you do it in person, drop hints in conversation....

MarcEsadrian -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 10:38:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress How do you tell the public that you are into SM? I don't. Let them climb the crooked paths of the mountain, if their interest so inclines them. I'll have a tea party with the determined 1% that happens to make it to my ledge.

heartcream -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 10:55:01 PM)
Being a waitress I go to the table and say, "Hi Free Men, this girl is pleased to serve you tonight." I really linger on the word, 'serve'. At the end of the meal I may say, "This girl would like to know if you would like some vanilla ice cream to munch on." I sort of arch one eye brow at this point. I also do not wear clothes except a lock on my hoo-hoo that catches in the light shining and swaying as I walk. On the small of my back is a big bad tattoo that says, HisHardCockslave. Sometimes people act like they know about my secret life.

SteelofUtah -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 11:03:14 PM)
I just wear a shirt that says "How I remember where I left the Car Keys" With a picture of a Slave Collar with an O ring on it. And wait for someone to get the joke. Steel

MasterRaid -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 11:03:51 PM)
Good Flag, you have obviously been trained well.

MasterRaid -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 11:05:13 PM)
Looks like I need to change My current shopping stores. Got the name of that one Utah?

SteelofUtah -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 11:08:51 PM)
You would be amazed what Printers and Iron On's can do these days..... It's even washable. And Hot Topic gets Lucky from time to time..... I saw one there the other day that said *"If he didn't beat it into me how would I learn?"* I am sure it was a Battered Wife joke and Totally inappropriate but put it on a slave and all the sudden it's HILLARIOUS!! And there is always the Picture of the Pyramid with the Caption "Slavery .... Gets Shit Done"

MasterRaid -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/26/2009 11:17:15 PM)
Heres a good one.....My (at the time 14 year old daughter) coming home from vaction to DISNEYLAND bought me this ti shirt that reads... Kindly take a moment to read the words that are printed on this ordinary t-shirt it won't cost you a thing but it will provide me with enough time to get a clear mental picture of what you look like naked with the back of your head over my dick. P.S. If you're a man back away slowly cause you're really starting to freak me out and I have a gun.

eyesopened -> RE: How do you flag ? (3/27/2009 4:32:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Guess I not in the withit crowd keys hangin out of pocket??? Never heard of it. what does it mean? Ive seen ppl with keys on their belt loop same thing? Wallet on a chain have any meaning? BadOne It's a leather symbol for a heavy S/m player. Oh crap! I hang my keys out of my pocket all the time when I'm pumping gas or making several trips to the trunk of the car. And I'm not even into S&M!! Our relationship is S without the m. Luckily no one has ever taken out a cane and hit me with it or worse, ask me to cane them.

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