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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 3/29/2009 6:54:53 PM   
asianchloe


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Status: offline 		Agreed. Maybe she's a masochist and is late on purpose to get punishment? Either way, she's topping you and you're letting her.


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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 3/31/2009 7:36:31 AM   
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I have no sensse of time. If you ask me to tell when 5 minutes has gone by......I'd be way off and it could be either early or late. Everyone always assumes it's a lack of respect on my part. It isn't, I just can't judge it's passage.

It wasn't until I met with an organizational expert that I realized what the issue was. That person helped me work out a way to keep me on time. I still lose track of time when I'm reading or playing on the computer, but I've gotten much better when I need to be somewhere.

So, in my situation punishment wouldn't have worked. It would have just made me resentful.

Perhaps working on cause and cure would be a better plan.

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 3/31/2009 8:58:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		whats the secret to that, O?  I have absolutely NO sense of time..I'd be totally screwed without clocks/alarms...

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 3/31/2009 5:27:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Greedy,,

see my alarm clock suggestion....

just kidding!

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 3/31/2009 8:09:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

whats the secret to that, O?  I have absolutely NO sense of time..I'd be totally screwed without clocks/alarms...
It actually is clocks and alarms......and routine.

I have at least one clock in every room, sometimes more than one. Especially in the bathroom where it's easy for me to lose time.

I literally timed every step of getting ready in the morning. I know that it takes 45 minutes to shower. etc in the morning. 15 minute shower, 15 minutes drying the hair, 15 minutes getting dressed and face. I know that it takes 10 minutes to get out of the house: dogs fed, watered and out. So, I know that 7:05am is my drop dead time to start getting ready for work. In the beginning, I had to set timers. Now it's just rythm.

It hasn't made me be able to sense time, just more aware of how much time things really take. The routine is what saves me.

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/1/2009 6:56:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah but in the case of the op, this girl probably has to wait for school to get out for the day.

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/1/2009 6:59:56 AM   
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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/1/2009 7:01:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Yeah but in the case of the op, this girl probably has to wait for school to get out for the day.
Unfair....coffee stings when you snort it out your nose.....

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/1/2009 9:02:39 AM   
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OP, I'm not trying to be rude here but if you can't even figure out how to fix a minor problem you are in for a shit load more of them coming up.

I know for me, in my relationships at the begining period, if he is incapable or doesn't bother to correct a mistake, chances are it'll happen again, and if still nothing happens then I'd probably figure he really doesn't give a damn either way and stop bothering to make sure I did anything right.

If the Dominant can't be bothered make sure things are getting done the way he wants when he wants, why should the sub??

You set the tone of the relationship right from the first day. If you don't then you get to spend alot of time later on correcting things and re-teaching.

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/2/2009 1:13:39 AM   
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nice purple welt for each minute she is late.. once the buttocks are covered move to thighs .. and breasts..

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/18/2009 9:55:29 AM   
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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/18/2009 4:06:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I had a young woman , as you describe, she was late often. In ritual she was required to reveal all, and accept the punishment of correction and the education to do better.
As a Mature Master , I have had so many to train, teach and release, and I have not lost quality contact with anyone, because one must be honest, fair and compassionate with each other, be it Mistress, Master or submissive.
It may be that the young Lady in question, the originator of this topics , slave girl wants to move on, new pasures that may be for her betterment, the master must establish this.
My slave girls can not wait to be in my presence, arrive earlier than late, if they are eager to please, they will be on time, but on occassion everyone can have a problem keeping good time, so be compasionate, but be certainly sure she wants to be with you.......??

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/18/2009 8:30:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know if this has been suggested or not (I didn't read the entire thread), but how about spreading some uncooked rice on the floor in the corner and have her kneel for her corner time....it gets painful awfully fast

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/19/2009 4:34:38 PM   
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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/20/2009 3:22:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: novak

a two mile barefoot walk


That's not all that bad, i did it walking to work when my car was out of commission and i had shoes that i couldn't walk in. Sure hurt to step on a pebble though.

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/20/2009 2:00:43 PM   
novak


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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/21/2009 5:31:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Arpig

I don't know if this has been suggested or not (I didn't read the entire thread), but how about spreading some uncooked rice on the floor in the corner and have her kneel for her corner time....it gets painful awfully fast


He lives with his parents, and they might object to rice all over the floor.

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/21/2009 7:24:23 PM   
Redoubt


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Status: offline 		I'd ask her "Do you disrespect my time?"

the answer would of course be "no" (if it's "yes" - you have way deeper problems than this)

Then explain why you waiting on her is not acceptable. Find out if you need to schedule later, or if it's just laziness on their part.

If it's laziness, then corner time with a loud ticking clock.. then sending her home unfulfilled ought to get the message across especially if it's on more than one occasion.

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/25/2009 2:32:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		this is probaly not appropiate but since it is 5 am i will post..


I was just late as a newbie....and it was hot....i didn't even know i was late because I didn't know we had a "hard time" but i guess we did...he was very accomidating for the first few minutes....then....if you want to know more you can e-mail me offline...but I can tell you my bff got off just hearing about it..

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RE: Any interesting Ideas for a Slave girl being LATE t... - 4/25/2009 8:09:53 AM   
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