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antipode -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 9:37:38 PM)
quote: looking at one of those adds with bondage, they were all young subs with old men If you are referring to the advertisements for kink.com sites, the male actors are selected on cock size, and the ability to keep an erection for long periods of time, which isn't all that easy. You'll typically find the more experienced guys in those porn flicks - older men, for purely biological reasons, are better able to postpone orgasm, which is what they need to do in order to maintain an erection. If you are thinking there is any other reason for selecting them, you can forget that - it is not easy to produce a boner on command, day in day out, and then keep it up for entire scenes - it is just work, and if you look at the shoots closely, you'll see they only use a few different men, and that is only because those men can deliver, several days a week. Pausing a shoot, which costs thousands of dollars an hour,. while the entire crew waits until the guy or guys can get it up again, while getting paid, and having to retake scenes when he loses his erection halfway through, is not only an expensive exercise, it also limits production. I believe kink.com outputs something like 8 to 10 videos a week, which is about the maximum they can produce. Prior to the invention of Viagra, they managed only half that. These folks are there to make money, not to get off on chicks. Sex gets old pretty quick when you do it for a living.

Vendaval -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 9:39:20 PM)
I wonder if Viagra and Cialis and all that have reduced the need for porn "fluffers"?

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 9:59:16 PM)
why do i keep hearing this internet is for pORN thing in my head world of war craft thingy

Vendaval -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 10:11:37 PM)
Because you are special and the voices only talk to you.

MadAxeman -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 11:25:37 PM)
A lot of fluffers went to the wall when Clinton left office

dragonnite -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 11:34:46 PM)
I agree with IronBear, that age and for that matter physical beauty is not all that important where as the ability to click and meld is. More times than not the older men tend to treat you alot better than the younger ones.

NormalOutside -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 11:41:22 PM)
Far and away, people are attracted to youth. This isn't a rule, but it's a trend, and you can argue it all you want, but it's still the case. And you can whine and wish it weren't, but it is. It won't change. At no point in history has the wrinkled older woman with the saggy tits, barren womb, and dry pussy ever really been a sex object. That's reality. How you deal with it is up to you.

kidwithknife -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 11:42:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vendaval What on Earth are you talking about? I am blunt and plain spoken is all. Misunderstanding I think. Only the first paragraph was a reply to you (where I was agreeing with you). Second was to the OP.

Vendaval -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 11:45:55 PM)
No worries. The "Reply To" function can be a bit messy. [:)]

saltcod -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 12:07:49 AM)
youth is a wonderful thing...but what a shame it's wasted on the young. sc Far and away, people are attracted to youth. This isn't a rule, but it's a trend, and you can argue it all you want, but it's still the case. And you can whine and wish it weren't, but it is. It won't change. At no point in history has the wrinkled older woman with the saggy tits, barren womb, and dry pussy ever really been a sex object. That's reality. How you deal with it is up to you. [/quote]

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 12:10:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vendaval Thank you dear. [sm=flowers.gif] My very hot and sexy 14-years-younger-slave-boy sends his regards too and wants to know when you are coming back to Cali so we can show you around. You're way too kind, and my own regards back at 'im. God, he's a great guy. I'm actually planning on coming back in a couple of weeks, sometime around the middle of April. Aiming at San Francisco this trip, and I'm studying the Citadel and Society of Janus websites to determine the best week and a half period to catch as many community events as possible. I'll be swinging down the coast to Monterey and Big Sur for at least a few days, because I fell so deeply in love with that area I actually dream about it two nights out of three. Got to get back and experience a little more of that. I don't know if I'll be getting down as far as San Luis, but it's not something I'd rule out either. The chance to see you guys again is a definite priority. At the very least, my next trip aftr that would focus on the Central Coast, because I'll already have LA and the Bay Area/Nothern Coast covered by then. we should talk. I'll e-mail you, and we can kick some ideas around.

VanessaChaland -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 12:23:47 AM)
The other side of this might be: http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/

MadameMarque -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 12:38:49 AM)
No offense?? Who could possibly be offended by the suggestion that they're too unattractive to deserve the attention of someone who's out of their league? You're pissed off by shallow, superficial people? Your post is all about judging people based on their looks and age. That is the very definition of the words, shallow and superficial. If you're more comfortable with someone you feel is "your level of attractive," nobody's stopping you. I just hope, for the sake of whomever you're with, that that's not what it sounds like, for them, which is to be the second best that you think you should settle for. Not only older men and attractive younger women get together, in real life. I've had the pleasure of being with some younger men who are quite beautiful. Out of my league. But not. "I must admit, it hurt my pride The groom was prettier than the bride" to quote a lyric. If you'd only been complaining that there's not candy for women, in porn, I could've just agreed with you. Gay and bisexual stuff are almost the only way to go, if a woman wants to watch something erotic (on screen, that is :P). There've been a couple of really cute guys on meninpain.com, I'll give them that.

MadAxeman -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 12:43:09 AM)
Brilliant link! I pee on your acorn lol.

eyesopened -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 1:48:09 AM)
The real question for me is why do people insist on believing porn is documentary film and not just a *movie?*

IronBear -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 3:08:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NormalOutside Far and away, people are attracted to youth. This isn't a rule, but it's a trend, and you can argue it all you want, but it's still the case. And you can whine and wish it weren't, but it is. It won't change. At no point in history has the wrinkled older woman with the saggy tits, barren womb, and dry pussy ever really been a sex object. That's reality. How you deal with it is up to you. Sounds like you’ve visited Australia where the youth culture has reached such a state where all things youth are worshiped and those past 40 are ignored and hopefully forgotten. No longer does Australian society treat the oldsters with respect and value them for what they have done and the knowledge and experience they can pass on but treat them with contempt and distain.. Sorry just something which I find disgusting and sad.

susie -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 3:19:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama giggles The title of the thread alone is entertainment enough. I've decided to start up a new BDSM pornsite with ugly old women and pretty young boys. At a loss for a title, though--how about "HAGPLAY.COM"? audition please, audition please [sm=alien.gif]

LaTigresse -> RE: Young subs and old ugly WOmen (3/28/2009 5:46:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vendaval That is pretty much standard for men and women* in their 30-40's. Most are ready to settle down and have a family or they have major baggage from previous relationships.* I tend to date younger men for the same reasons. quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 I'm a 40 year old man who doesn't want children of my own. My experience dating (both kinky and nilla) is that most of the women I've met age 33-43 are either hunting for a baby-daddy, or have tremendous baggage from a nasty divorce. Change the persons to all female and ditto. So far, every sub/slave close to my age (give or take a few years) that has contacted me has been so wacko I am getting a bit edgy about even opening up any sort of dialogue with another. Twentysomethings can be a lot more work, but much less weirdness. ****the statement is solely based upon personal experience and could be the result of the poster's own weirdness....

Aly055 -> RE: Young subs and old ugly WOmen (3/28/2009 9:27:05 AM)
I’m new to the lifestyle and with my very first Dom. I’m 19 and he’s 41 so there is a large age difference however there are several reasons for it. Part of it is just our location we live in Maine not only do we live in Maine, but we live more toward the middle of the state which limits things even more. I was originally looking for a Dom closer to my own age maybe up to the age of 30 or so still older, but not as much; the thing that I found is there we only a couple anywhere near me and I wasn’t interested in them. I’m new so I’m not exactly sure what I want, I have a few ideas but I’m looking for someone who can help me explore. The doms my age were just getting into things themselves so that didn’t really interest me. Finally my dom had messaged me I wasn’t sure about his age , but we starting messaging back and forth then instant messaging and we just clicked. Even though he’s 41 he just doesn’t seem it. I like that he has experience I also like that he’s willing to go as slow as I want he’s not going to push me to do more than I want if I’m not ready for it. I won’t say that it isn’t a plus that he’s settled has his own house and stuff he’s comfortable enough that we can buy new toys and stuff. I actually asked him the other night why he didn’t look for someone closer to his age. This came up because I’ve been going through a whole bunch of life stuff possibly transferring schools, ex boyfriend stuff, and other things needless to say I’ve been a tad bit emotional, so it made we wonder why he was willing to deal with that stuff. My thought is someone closer to his age would be more settled and stuff however like he said lots of times they are just looking for something different from their marriage or other things. He said the thing with me is that I’m very curious and open to things which makes it fun to work with me. Anyway I think there are several factors that come into play on why the dom is normally older. edited because of text size

FullCircle -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/28/2009 9:37:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: antipode If you are referring to the advertisements for kink.com sites, the male actors are selected on cock size, and the ability to keep an erection for long periods of time, which isn't all that easy. You'll typically find the more experienced guys in those porn flicks - older men, for purely biological reasons, are better able to postpone orgasm, which is what they need to do in order to maintain an erection. Who told you that. I also see ads for 'man problems' in the newspaper and they always feature old people. Although I'm not one for believing stereotypes. People are not defined by an age group, different ages share the same abilities. For me the old/young image is based on the fact most of those old male people in the porn industry that have made money have done so by being in it for eons and so being old is second nature. Few pay to see a man fuck, females on the other hand flooding the market so could earn better sums in days gone past. Not that I have a degree in Pornology or anything, let us be clear on that right now! edited for spelling and to add extra lines of crap.

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