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What is more important in a Dom?

Good looking?

0% (0)

Well versed in control and BDSM?

82% (14)

Well Hung?

5% (1)

Financially secure?

11% (2)

Total Votes : 17

(last vote on : 4/9/2009 5:23:47 PM)
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What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 4:35:18 PM

MasterRaid

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What is the most important thing you subs and slaves desire in a Dominant?

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 4:44:00 PM

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Since my personal choice of integrity was not listed, I decided that "Well versed in control and BDSM" would get my vote. If it's a D/s relationship, I need someone who knows what the heck he's doing. However, in any relationship - especially one that will require my trust and cooperation, integrity gets the real vote, hands down.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 4:46:16 PM

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Intelligence isnt important in a dominant, but it is in a submissive?
What about Compassion? Integrity? Respect?

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 5:50:23 PM

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How about "none of the above"?

Put me down for honesty, integrity, and intelligence.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 5:55:44 PM

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No personality traits are listed?

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 5:58:12 PM

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We don't need personalities, Dark Steven. We just need bionic arms and bottomless wallets.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 5:59:09 PM

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Dear, dear, misguided DarkSteven... everyone knows that a twue Dom doesn't have a personality.

Dey are just big, bad, and scawy...

*nods and giggles*

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 6:01:49 PM

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These options are rather shallow.

I didn't vote.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 6:03:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterRaid

What is the most important thing you subs and slaves desire in a Dominant?

No vote here since you did not put up my most wanted 'thing'.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 6:06:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Dear, dear, misguided DarkSteven... everyone knows that a twue Dom doesn't have a personality.

Dey are just big, bad, and scawy...

*nods and giggles*

You just described all my coworkers... they're engineers and nobody has a personality among all of them.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 6:10:18 PM

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Fast reply:

Intelligence and sense of humor.

ETA: Those are the things that are most important to me in any person, and Doms are people, too!

< Message edited by smartalex -- 3/29/2009 6:11:05 PM >

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 7:22:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Dear, dear, misguided DarkSteven... everyone knows that a twue Dom doesn't have a personality.

Dey are just big, bad, and scawy...

*nods and giggles*

You just described all my coworkers... they're engineers and nobody has a personality among all of them.

Dear gary! And with funny bones like yours and mine, that must be like nails down a chalkboard.

*hugs*

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 7:23:29 PM

Daddysredhead

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quote:

ORIGINAL: smartalex

Doms are people, too!

Scandal!!!!!

I'm writing to the Submissives Society about this little deal-breaker. Doms must not be people. I won't have it.

*giggles*

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 7:30:48 PM

littlewonder

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Good looking: Yes

Well versed in control and bdsm: Not so much..power though..hell yes.

Well hung: He has talented hands and mouth right? Then it doesn't matter.

Financially secure: Living within his means is all that matters.

There are sooo many other things that are just as important as those listed.

I want it all

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 7:42:35 PM

Vendaval

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I R N engineer, letme duminate U

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Dear, dear, misguided DarkSteven... everyone knows that a twue Dom doesn't have a personality.

Dey are just big, bad, and scawy...

*nods and giggles*

You just described all my coworkers... they're engineers and nobody has a personality among all of them.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 9:12:38 PM

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For me, it's a combination of things. No one thing is more important. A great smile, nice eyes, good sense of humor, knows what he's doing, smart, can take charge of my body and mind, a nice package, ummmm and sexy as heck!

Well I'll be, I just described my Sir. Go figure.

I didn't vote.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/29/2009 11:02:08 PM

corsetgirl

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Well versed and in control of everything including how well a dom handles himself with frustration and that he could always communicate with the sub even if there are bad times.

I see doms as human beings, too...guess I have yet to meet the big, bad, and scary ones.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/30/2009 12:15:10 AM

Lordandmaster

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You gave us some pretty superficial choices.

I would have thought the most important thing is honesty.

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ORIGINAL: MasterRaid

What is the most important thing you subs and slaves desire in a Dominant?

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/30/2009 4:54:11 AM

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Intelligent, self aware, and rock solid integrity.
In other words, when it comes to the poll options, none of the above.

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RE: What is more important in a Dom? - 3/30/2009 5:04:00 AM

persephonee

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Dependability, Durability and a warantee.

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