Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Aneirin What is it about being naked, do you prefer to be naked in your bdsm activities or clothed? Do you like being seen unclothed by others ? To me, I feel it is an expression of freedom, freedom to be me in my entirety in such activities, and perhaps a little exhibitionism. Any thoughts ? Such is the mostly warm climate here, I'm not much for wearing clothes at home anyway. But within a D/s dynamic, different degrees of nakedness is more about setting the right headspace than any other consideration.... During a scene, I'm usually dressed while I'll have the girl wearing no more than heels. But then there's the grey areas.... If we're just relaxing around the home, I'll likely be wearing very little to nothing but I think it quite sexy if she's wearing a bikini or T-shirt and panties etc (I do like to see legs, regardless). But that can change in a blink if I feel the need to assert authority - I'll suddenly feel uncomfortable undressed while she'll be spending a few hours fully exposed and talking in "yes, Sirs" and "no, Sirs". The rules on nudity are too fluid to ever formally articulate. Basically, she takes her cues from me and whatever she's wearing (or not) is probably fine until I decide otherwise. Focus.
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