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Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/26/2006 11:37:06 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		What do you do to improve yourself which benefits your Master/Mistress?

IE - cooking classes, diet/exercise, auto shop repair etc.

Currently, I'm learning about his religion and culture which is so different from my own and he's going to teach me how to make some of his favorite dishes from that culture. I've also learned how to pick out fine cigars in the past year and have brought him some which he was very surprised he liked so well since I don't smoke them myself. I'm going to take a semester at the local culinary institute to improve my sauce making skills and I've been hunting for various recipes to use the new Kitchen Aid I got for Christmas. I've also read a great deal on some of his favorite subjects so I can converse intelligently on them and continue to study and educate myself on the things which he enjoy's doing. We are, together, going to the shooting range, which is not specifically for him since I've always like it myself, but he appreciates that I can keep his guns clean without shooting myself. :)

Celeste

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 12:04:58 AM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

What do you do to improve yourself which benefits your Master/Mistress?

IE - cooking classes, diet/exercise, auto shop repair etc.

Currently, I'm learning about his religion and culture which is so different from my own and he's going to teach me how to make some of his favorite dishes from that culture. I've also learned how to pick out fine cigars in the past year and have brought him some which he was very surprised he liked so well since I don't smoke them myself. I'm going to take a semester at the local culinary institute to improve my sauce making skills and I've been hunting for various recipes to use the new Kitchen Aid I got for Christmas. I've also read a great deal on some of his favorite subjects so I can converse intelligently on them and continue to study and educate myself on the things which he enjoy's doing. We are, together, going to the shooting range, which is not specifically for him since I've always like it myself, but he appreciates that I can keep his guns clean without shooting myself. :)

Celeste


Cooking - which is something I enjoy, but I constantly work on refining (I have a Kitchen Aid also, its awesome what you can do it with it - they even have wheat/grain attachements for them).

Learning about bootblacking and general leather care to be able to care for his shoes, boots, and leather goods.

He's a big movie buff as well as brit coms. I'm one of those people that before him almost never went out to watch movies, so I'm doing a lot of catching up and have been for years.

Even if I can't always get to the gym I try to regularly do yoga to at least stay fairly limber (he likes bondage a lot).

In the future I'd like to take a massage class and learn more about guns, since that's something he enjoys quite a bit (I'm one of those people thats never even held a gun in my hands).

Those are a few things off the top of my head,

C~

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 1:33:34 AM   
veronicaofML


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Status: offline 		N O T H I N G !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

pretty damned hard to improve on doing floors on your hands n knees.
pretty hard to improve on 4 loads of laundry in one day
hard to improve on vac'ing twice
etc etc etc

what is TO improve/

"I" am NOT part of the-norm,,,in this lifestyle. i am the outsider here.


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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 3:50:09 AM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		diet diet diet

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 5:08:53 AM   
cloudboy


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I think you need to improve your readiness for STUD services, should you be called upon to perform.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 5:23:02 AM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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quote:


Cooking - which is something I enjoy, but I constantly work on refining (I have a Kitchen Aid also, its awesome what you can do it with it - they even have wheat/grain attachements for them).


If you want to refine your cooking, might I suggest getting the Culinary Institute of America's "The Professional Chef" and Julia Child's "The Way to Cook"? Both of those will take you step by step through learning professional quality cooking.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 5:54:33 AM   
IceyOne


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What do you do to improve yourself which benefits your Master/Mistress


Improve my cooking skills. I am passable, but not that great of a cook.
Improve my organizational skills they really suck big time
Find some way of improving my memory...I have notes laying all over the place reminding me of things...unfortunatly, I also forget about the notes.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 6:02:22 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Frankly I'm just being settled right now. I spend time with my loved ones, trying to eat healthier, maintaining a good steady income, managing my time well, solidifying the bonds that I have and trying new things.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 6:12:20 AM   
Elegant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs


Learning about bootblacking and general leather care to be able to care for his shoes, boots, and leather goods.

C~



Good for you!

Don't hesitate to ask any questions.

Regards In Leather,
Elegant
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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 6:16:32 AM   
Elegant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

pretty damned hard to improve on doing floors on your hands n knees.

Try it while doing a handstand!


quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

pretty hard to improve on 4 loads of laundry in one day

You only do 4 loads a day?


quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

hard to improve on vac'ing twice

Useless if you don't change the bag or if you have a lousy vaccum cleaner.



quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

what is TO improve/




Your attitude.




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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 6:30:15 AM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

quote:


Cooking - which is something I enjoy, but I constantly work on refining (I have a Kitchen Aid also, its awesome what you can do it with it - they even have wheat/grain attachements for them).


If you want to refine your cooking, might I suggest getting the Culinary Institute of America's "The Professional Chef" and Julia Child's "The Way to Cook"? Both of those will take you step by step through learning professional quality cooking.


Thanks for the suggestion, Julia Child is one of my favorite chefs. I should clarify, I love cooking and am a very good cook already, I just view that (and some other skills) as something can be infinitely improved on. My cooking bible is Joy of Cooking (the original version).

C~

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 8:40:12 AM   
cloudboy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: diet diet diet


Its better to just eat well.

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 8:51:13 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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From: N. Carolina
Status: offline 		Would you consider cloning yourself into male form???? None of the subs I've talked to are even remotely interested in what I like and what I believe, all they care about is that I'm a "Mistress" and want to know what I'm going to do to them <sigh> How nice that you care so much about your Master!!!!! bravo!!!!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

What do you do to improve yourself which benefits your Master/Mistress?

IE - cooking classes, diet/exercise, auto shop repair etc.

Currently, I'm learning about his religion and culture which is so different from my own and he's going to teach me how to make some of his favorite dishes from that culture. I've also learned how to pick out fine cigars in the past year and have brought him some which he was very surprised he liked so well since I don't smoke them myself. I'm going to take a semester at the local culinary institute to improve my sauce making skills and I've been hunting for various recipes to use the new Kitchen Aid I got for Christmas. I've also read a great deal on some of his favorite subjects so I can converse intelligently on them and continue to study and educate myself on the things which he enjoy's doing. We are, together, going to the shooting range, which is not specifically for him since I've always like it myself, but he appreciates that I can keep his guns clean without shooting myself. :)

Celeste



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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 8:55:33 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Good heavens? FOUR loads a day???? EVERY day? Yeesh! And vacuuming twice...hmmm, let me guess... long-hair cats and/or unruly, undisciplined children? Either that or your Mistress is a serious perfectionist, worse than I am, which is saying something! LOL!

quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

N O T H I N G !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

pretty damned hard to improve on doing floors on your hands n knees.
pretty hard to improve on 4 loads of laundry in one day
hard to improve on vac'ing twice
etc etc etc

what is TO improve/

"I" am NOT part of the-norm,,,in this lifestyle. i am the outsider here.




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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 8:57:16 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Well i used to diet and i want to take one of those stripping exercise classes then i can show him what i learned in class grins.

littleone

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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 8:57:27 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		And I think this is uncalled for. He responded to the question, and added the disclaimer that his was not the typical situation. I find your response just RUDE.

quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy


I think you need to improve your readiness for STUD services, should you be called upon to perform.



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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 1:32:20 PM   
veronicaofML


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I think you need to improve your readiness for STUD services, should you be called upon to perform
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hope ya aint talkin to ME!!!!!!!!

i hate sex.


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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 1:33:40 PM   
veronicaofML


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From: from iowa..now in wisconsin
Status: offline 		Would you consider cloning yourself into male form???? None of the subs I've talked to are even remotely interested in what I like and what I believe, all they care about is that I'm a "Mistress" and want to know what I'm going to do to them <sigh> How nice that you care so much about your Master!!!!! bravo!!!!!
===============

he he he "I" am male form.................giggling


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drugs sex and rock n roll,...drugs are good and so is the rock n roll, sex is over rated"
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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 1:36:34 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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From: N. Carolina
Status: offline 		Yes, and you're taken too!!! A lotta good that does me ;)

quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

Would you consider cloning yourself into male form???? None of the subs I've talked to are even remotely interested in what I like and what I believe, all they care about is that I'm a "Mistress" and want to know what I'm going to do to them <sigh> How nice that you care so much about your Master!!!!! bravo!!!!!
===============

he he he "I" am male form.................giggling




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RE: Self-improvement ? for slaves/submissives - 1/27/2006 3:07:48 PM   
Smythe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

And I think this is uncalled for. He responded to the question, and added the disclaimer that his was not the typical situation. I find your response just RUDE.

quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy


I think you need to improve your readiness for STUD services, should you be called upon to perform.




I believe it was meant as a friendly joke. We all know veronica's opinion about sex.
Smythe


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