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YourhandMyAss -> RE: unreasonable request (4/17/2009 8:19:19 AM)
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Daddy and I were 2 hours apart and didn't see each other much, one day, Daddy had all day off to do house work and laundry and stuff, and one time I called him and he's like I Can't talk I need to do laundry and stuff, and I was so upset with him for pissing the whole day away, and so then when I was finally able to come home and talk he couldn't talk, and I hung up with him and then was just stewing in my own emotions and afraid to call him back, and I finally did and then said I am mad at you because you pissed the entire day away and I haven't gotten to talk to you all day and now we can't talk because you have to do stuff you waited last minute to do, and he said you're right I am sorry.
Thank you for telling me how you feel, and please tell me anytime there's anything you need to tell me or any time you're angry or upset.
And then one time I woke up at 6 am from a horrible nightmare, and I knew he had to go to work early and calling him at 6 am would be bad for his getting the sleep he needed, and so I debaited and debaited and finally called and he said no no he's Daddy that's what they're for, and if you have a nightmare and need me you're more than freee to call.
Because he knew I wouldn't call for any reason that wasn't a good one so early in the morning, when I knew he had to be at work at 8.
Now I don't think of these things as tests nor did I do them to test him, but in a way it is a test, yes, and he flew through them beautifully.
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Each time I contacted him in need of something it gave me a chance to test whether he would be willing to help me when needed. I wasn't setting him up for failure - I was seeing if the level of trust I had given him was warranted (and it was).
Each time I have been tested in my relationship I have grown from it. I have been able to do things that I never thought were possible, and each time it left me feeling stronger and more sure of myself. That doesn't mean that I was never scared or never had any reservations about it. I simply chose to overcome my own discomforts to prove to my Master what he and our journey meant to me. Most Doms/Masters test their subs for this very reason - to allow them to show their trust and to grow. It has a very valuable place in the BDSM world. Each submissive needs to know when to draw the line and that is a very personal matter.
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