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Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:14:36 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I've been at CM for almost two years and have a number of submissive men who consistantly look at my profile, but have never made contact.  I have wondered from time to time, what they were there for and what might be going on.  This isn't a complaint because I am not getting enough email! lol  I just wondered if there are reasons that a submissive male might be afriad or too shy to make contact with a dominant and sometimes if they are continuing to visit a profile in hopes that the dominant will contact them.

What are red flags to you besides the financial demands you might find on a profile?  What do you like to see in a profile?  What do you look for and what attract's you?  What makes you decide to contact a dominant?  What are you looking for in life and with a dominant?  Are you just viewing profiles just to look at pictures or for other reasons? 

Please speak your mind and give a view into the way you see things.

I am not looking for evaluation on my profile or for anything other than to understand what some of you might be thinking and feeling.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:16:27 PM   
gman992


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Status: offline 		Well,  I keep on contacting doms in my area, and they haven't written me back, so we're kind of in the same boat.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:17:26 PM   
hopeful68


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Status: offline 		Do you mean that others make financial demands on you..?  or you make demands on them.. ?  I have never seen that in a profile and am curious.. lol.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:19:09 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		gman, I think we are talking about different things here.  I get responses to my emails and I get emails, I am just wondering how some of you feel about things.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:20:00 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Well mostly Miss Lockit......it's just cause i'm ascared........if my perving upsets You ,i will of course cease and desist.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:20:46 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		hopeful...lol... no.  I am wondering more about how the submissive male thinks and feels when it comes to profiles of dominant's and such.  So many complain about dominant's requiring tribute or payment that I was trying to exclude that complaint here. lol

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:22:31 PM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Well mostly Miss Lockit......it's just cause i'm ascared........if my perving upsets You ,i will of course cease and desist.


You better not!  LOL... you know I love your emails!  Now answer my darn questions will ya? hehe

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:36:15 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Why are you females so demanding...sheesh.
1) I have no idea,if I see something I like I make contact.....why these others perv and run is beyond my ability to comprehend.
2)Professional looking pictures of almost too good to be true 20 somethings.....the bullshit radar starts tingling
3)Something other than the "I am Goddess,you are dogshit beneath my feet attitude (this often accompanies those professional photo's.... LOL)
4)A tingling I get...and not just south of the belt buckle(though thats allways good too)
5) I'm looking for the whole enchilada...the same thing a vanilla is looking for,the possibility of something above and beyond just the physical.......all of this plus a TPE.....that's not too much to ask for is it?

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:39:30 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Thank you Mike!  I'll grill you later! hehe

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 12:47:30 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Oh goodie ,something to look forward to on a slow day.....or any other day for that matter!

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 1:00:35 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Whenever I look at a lady's profile, I am just window shopping.  I serve Ms. Mlicious.  But if I were looking for a new Mistresss, her list of lives for, loves, likes, etc would encourage or discourage me.  If a lady lives for all my hard limits, then I would move on.  Sometimes it's not that there is anything wrong with the lady.  It's just incompatibility.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 1:00:46 PM   
manxcat


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Status: offline 		Whenever anyone pervs me more than once or twice, without writing, i usually write them and ask why, or tell then they should.  That usually gets a response, both from subs and doms.  And there seems to be a lot of the latter!

manxy


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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 2:00:27 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		*sneaks back after perving manxcat's profile for the 5th or 6th time*

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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 2:11:25 PM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: manxcat

Whenever anyone pervs me more than once or twice, without writing, i usually write them and ask why, or tell then they should.  That usually gets a response, both from subs and doms.  And there seems to be a lot of the latter!

manxy



LOL... boy do I know what you mean about the male dominant's!  I get a lot of response from them for the typical reasons, but some just like my funny sarcasm in some of my journal postings. 

I hesitate to say too much at this point, as I would like to see any responses that might come of this before I say more.  At first I wondered if people were just there to read my stories... they are not there now.  Then my journal has a number of different things in it, so thought that might be part of it... but there were always those times where I wondered.  Not just about my own profile either.



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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 2:12:53 PM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

*sneaks back after perving manxcat's profile for the 5th or 6th time*


Did it work?  hehe

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 2:40:07 PM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavekal

Whenever I look at a lady's profile, I am just window shopping.  I serve Ms. Mlicious.  But if I were looking for a new Mistresss, her list of lives for, loves, likes, etc would encourage or discourage me.  If a lady lives for all my hard limits, then I would move on.  Sometimes it's not that there is anything wrong with the lady.  It's just incompatibility.


I used to list what I like in more detail, but found it created a lot of email issues! lol  I prefere to talk to someone about those things now!  I was more interested in why I've had repeat visits, some for a couple years and then after I took my stories off.  But I have talked to a couple people and we were wondering what some were thinking and feeling when they repeatedly returned.  Of course we could ask, but it is only recently I have personally wondered more because my stories are gone.

Thanks for your input!

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 3:09:16 PM   
slvemike4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

*sneaks back after perving manxcat's profile for the 5th or 6th time*


Did it work?  hehe
Nope haven't heard a peep from Her.......dammit.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 3:22:58 PM   
dennidson


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Status: offline 		Sometimes when I view a profile but not messaged there is something that put me off in the same way that there are many who have viewed me but not messaged. There have also been many where I would have liked to have messaged but lost my bottle. I try not to take it personally.

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 3:29:43 PM   
Lockit


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ORIGINAL: dennidson

Sometimes when I view a profile but not messaged there is something that put me off in the same way that there are many who have viewed me but not messaged. There have also been many where I would have liked to have messaged but lost my bottle. I try not to take it personally.


It's good you don't take it personally!  To do so might be pretty stressful and a real shame!  I know it must be very hard to make contact, not knowing what will happen and maybe feeling rejected, but I think that is where we have to find a balance.  If one wants to make contact and doesn't, they will never know and could be losing out on knowing a wonderful person! 

I would encourage you to get your feet wet and after reading the profile, writing an email that is friendly and in keeping with the person's profile.  You never know what might happen and it might not all be bad.  If the bad comes at you... don't take it personally.  You know who you are and be strong in that and the one's that turn out badly are not someone who know you and should be able to hurt you.  Take it in stride... but do get out there and try!

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RE: Questions for male submissive's - 4/6/2009 3:34:23 PM   
slvemike4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dennidson

Sometimes when I view a profile but not messaged there is something that put me off in the same way that there are many who have viewed me but not messaged. There have also been many where I would have liked to have messaged but lost my bottle. I try not to take it personally.
Understandable dennidson,but the op specifically asks about multiple pervings.....and why no contact.If you keep going back to a particular profile one would think there is something there and a message would follow .....unless we are talking about Lynnxz's profile....I just stop there for the pictures.....

< Message edited by slvemike4u -- 4/6/2009 3:35:07 PM >

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