SlaveBlutarsky
Posts: 491
Joined: 10/10/2005 From: Upstate, NY Status: offline
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What's funny is for me, the looks of the woman are much more important than the looks of the Domme. While I love the image of the stereotypical Domme, it's of little use to me. The woman I will fall madly in love with and serve until we're old and gray will need to be compatible in all parts of my life, so looks and style kind of fall in line with that. Me walking into Easter Dinner last week with a pierced, blue haired, Goth chick wouldn't have really fit in too well (plus I tend not to have a lot in common with such women) nor would me walking in with a heavyset librarian type (plus I tend not to have a lot in common with such women). My friends and family aren't conservative or religious or closed minded or anything like that, we're just 'normal,' middle class people. In my attempts to date dominant women, I've met some very nice women, but none who would fit in my world, which has a 'look test.' I personally would be okay with dating someone outside of my normal 'type' if she fit into my life and got along with my friends and family, but unfortunately tend not to be attractive to those women apprently because my approaches to them have been shot down. Anyone who says looks aren't important or that they don't prejudge on looks is full of it to a certain extent. Everyone does, whether conscious or not.
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