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A Strange response - 4/7/2009 2:46:49 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Has anyone ever had a response to something that was totally unexpected? Some background I was lying down and the dude said he was going to cut my dress off, I asked what he was using he said a pen knife and I felt it against my skin and started to cry, I have done knife play before (it was actually a set of keys which is even more embaressing) but I really didnt think I would cry. Im thinking maybe it was because I really liked the dress and didnt want it ruined. So yeah has anyone ever responded in a weird uncontrolable way to something that normally they are fine with?

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RE: A Strange response - 4/7/2009 5:15:50 PM   
BeIgnited


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Status: offline 		This happened to me a few weeks ago, except it was just regular sex and I burst into tears. I attributed it to hormones/sensory overload. Sometimes it happens after an orgasm when I'm by myself. First time it happened with my Dom though, and he was more freaked out by it than I was. 

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RE: A Strange response - 4/7/2009 5:37:14 PM   
tartansIutNS


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Status: offline 		Licking my nose causes me to loose all sense of submission and obedience and lash around and cry and complain until i'm blue in the face...and ordered onto the floor :(

Of all the things that are required of me a face lick shouldn't really cause such a strong response!

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RE: A Strange response - 4/7/2009 5:40:28 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		I had this happen once. I reacted to my own sounds of distress very strongly. I had a flooding episode from a bad experience from my past. I can't really explain why that particular time triggered such a response and other times didn't, but it was no less unnerving to the person who was topping at the time. Play ceased between us after that.

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RE: A Strange response - 4/8/2009 12:02:36 AM   
kuriouswitch


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Status: offline 		i did that a few weeks ago, every once in a while during a scene Master will say, "surrender fully to your Master", it's basically a signal for me to cum as an act of submission to him, usually during an intense scene or sex act. The minute he said that i burst into tears and started sobbing, Master doesn't phase easily, he just kept going and then after the scene during aftercare he just held me until i fell asleep sobbing.

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RE: A Strange response - 4/8/2009 1:03:58 AM   
allthatjaz


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Status: offline 		I have a tendency to react differently to what could be deemed as the same act. Anything from absolutely loving the moment, to going into a blind panic. I also find that if I have been inwardly worried about something or sensitive because of something that happened earlier in the day, I can break down into uncontrollable sobs during a scene and personally I think its a great release so long as your partner understands that you just needed to do that and its nothing he's doing wrong. When I sob, the last thing I want is for my partner to stop.

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RE: A Strange response - 4/8/2009 1:42:51 AM   
atypicalsub


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Status: offline 		I can hold still while Mistress cuts me with a knife and makes me bleed, but I can't tollerate her buffing my finger nails with an emery board.  Everyone has unique triggers.


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RE: A Strange response - 4/8/2009 5:46:36 PM   
pinkwind


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Status: offline 		Andy can and does do some extreme things to my mind and body, and i will take every last bit of it without much over reaction. But bathe me, look after me, show me kindness in word or deed and i have been known to dissolve.

It's how i earned his slave name of "emotion".



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RE: A Strange response - 4/9/2009 7:52:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm most likely to freak out if I'm coming down with something. Of course, I never know until the next day that I'm sick.

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RE: A Strange response - 4/13/2009 4:01:25 PM   
aaminah


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Status: offline 		oh my yes.......in my experience it's just unconscious triggers , sometimes it's just hormonal like someone else said but mostly i think it's the unconscious having a reaction to a particular stimulus......

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RE: A Strange response - 4/13/2009 4:05:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've had this happen as well,
I am personally still struggling with being Domme/sub top/bottom....  I've had situations where being spanked or playful face smacking when I am not in the mood for it will bring tears.
I chalked mine up to hormones as well.
Luckily my boy understands this, and doesn't view me differently.

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RE: A Strange response - 4/13/2009 7:25:10 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		Just as an aside to the OP. What are the chances this response is at all related to the memories you were talking about in another thread? If you wish to discuss this, please feel free to contact me on the other side. Been there and back a few times, so I will be happy to be an ear if you need one.

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