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LaTigresse -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 12:21:20 PM)

Telling someone you are chained to my bed tends to cause that.

I am sure the new piercings in the top of my head are fake too. Evil thorny locust...it's fake also.




subtlebutterfly -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 12:32:23 PM)

now wouldn't that be sweet[8D]




IronBear -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 1:16:41 PM)

Not sure if I qualify to be REAL.. When giving serious professionally based advise I'm serious and the advise is Real. The same appluies when giving advise based on personal experience. But then there are many who do this too and I believe them to be real and serious. However then again half the time I am simply a Buffoon which I supose is also serious and real in its own way. You can bet your balls (if male and what ever you prefer if female) If on the rare occasion I am ripping some clown a new arsehole, I am very serious and real.. Sooo I must be both REAL and SERIOUS to some folks and for some others I am simply a figment of their immagination.... I Can Live With That.. 




IrishMist -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 1:31:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

I want a Sign Iron Bear.

I want mine to say

Mostly a Dick with some redeaming qualities.

Imagin how popular I'll be then.

Steel

But Steel...those of us who have been 'acquainted' with you for some time, know better.
So, your sign would be of no use because well...we all know and accept that umm..you have no redeeming qualities

[sm=cute.gif]




MAMandSlave -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 1:39:17 PM)

We have been accused quite a bit of being fakes, that we stole pictures from kink.com, etc. One pissed off guy insisted that we prove we are real by having my girl give him a webcam show....right...




Andalusite -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 2:43:01 PM)

I've met a few local guys through CM so far, and none of them have been fakes or flakes. I was very obviously incompatible with some of them, there are a couple who I am getting to know better and trying to figure out if things will work or not. It's pretty easy to filter the obvious fakes/scammers/cyber-only types, and you can make a point of contacting people who seem to be worth your while.

So far, nobody has accused me of being a fake, and I've had a lot of compliments on my profile being very down-to-earth and realistic. [:D] I know I'm not a match for everyone here, but that doesn't make me or them fakes, it just means that we need to find someone else.

I read your profile, and don't see how you are making any effort to appeal to the women who are in your area in that age range. You don't go into much detail about who you are and what you're looking for, just that you want a young hottie who is local. *shrugs* You need to give them a better idea of why they'd want you.




GreedyTop -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 3:06:45 PM)

*sigh* so many women I admire and respect are fake..... guess that makes me fake too




Takecharge13 -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 3:07:27 PM)

There are ways to determine who is real at times, but some fakes are too ingenious and glib to be pinned down by the searching questions. I have found both very real subs on here and encounted a few fakes. I would have to say some of the posters who you may think are fakes are actually people who are overstating their experience and when it comes time to meet, even for that trail cup of coofee back out or offer up excuse after excuse. Its all part of the lifestyle, which has many newbies, cusious, but afraid.

I will say most of the people that turned out to be real, have been fun and interesting.  




porcelaine -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 3:08:47 PM)

why do you expect people to behave differently in a virtual world? the same things you've described happen everyday. some are serious and seek sincere companionship, others desire self-fulfillment and hide it under the guise of wanting to relate. regardless of where this occurs one thing is constant, real people are involved. as always you have your good and bad apples, and it is only through trial, error and experience that you'll be able to decipher which label applies. best of luck on your search.

porcelaine




Takecharge13 -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 3:12:49 PM)

True as far as behavior in the real and virtual world, although its much easier to hide and fool others in the virtual world.




CatdeMedici -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 7:25:29 PM)

None of us here are real, we are all spammers from Nigeria--well a few of us are Mod 11's alter personalities--[8|]




NormalOutside -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 7:28:06 PM)

People call anything they don't like "fake". Nobody's fake. How can a human be fake? Blows my mind to hear subs saying "he's a fake dom" and the dom saying "she's a fake sub". Especially considering they're both as real as real can be, and they're both serious about finding the right thing for them!

If something's not what you want, don't call it fake, call it not right for you, and move along.




SailingBum -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 10:59:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BigGuy44

I have been on site for some time now and am a serious player who is looking for a sub. However I am astonished to find how many non-serious people seem to be lurking posing as looking for partners. There are a fair number of men posing as female subs. I regularly read of others complaining of similar experiences and even of stolen identities and photos. I understand that some will get their kicks from behaving like this and have no problem in those who simply want to brat or pretend to be serious. I wonder however if there is a need (and a method) of separating serious players from those who are not. For me, these people could perhaps use the chatrooms for their activities and leave the profile section for those genuinely seeking partners. Alternatively a new area could be established where bratting and playing games was the order of the day.

What do others feel about this? Am I alone?

Big Guy


Freely admits I am not serious about life.  No one is getting out alive anywho.  I am not looking for anything on CM.  Swap a few ideas on the boards and talk a little smack.  And of course LUST upon the HOT bitches on here.  There are quite a few

BadOne




LadyPact -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 11:12:58 PM)

I beat people for fun.  Feel free to decide if I'm serious or not.




PanthersMom -> RE: How many are serious? (4/11/2009 11:45:23 PM)

i'm seriously not real.  honest, i am, lol! 
PM




PsyVamp -> RE: How many are serious? (4/12/2009 11:34:08 AM)

I'm not real...
I've been a figment of my pet's imagination for going on 2 years now
[;)]




RealSub58 -> RE: How many are serious? (4/12/2009 12:29:02 PM)

I have been on site for some time now and am a serious player who is looking for a sub.

I am replying without reading any responses to the OP.
Just so all know that so I might be repeating.
 
First off, you have been on CM since Jan 09 and have probably wondering into the chat rooms before you found your way to the forums ~ where I think all serious folk are ~~  just my perspective.
 
I am not much for chat rooms, it is idleness and time consuming banter about nothing, IMHO.
 
The reason I copy/pasted the OP's first sentence is because of that one word.  PLAYER.
 
I don't know how your profile reads but if I read that on your profile and I was not attached, I would definitely pass by.  Player means just that to me.  I wanted a serious commitment, not a player. 
 
If you are looking for a devoted bottom to your top playing, then say so. But player is not a person seeking something serious, IMHO.




Goddess2002 -> RE: How many are serious? (4/12/2009 12:54:31 PM)

I am curious, though, how many of the female sub/slave profiles are actually the person in the pic, or what percent are really men lurking or people wanting $$ sent to Nigeria? I'm looking for a sub/slave girl but am amazed at the huge number of nubile bikini-model types I see with profiles...




subtlebutterfly -> RE: How many are serious? (4/12/2009 1:18:29 PM)

hmm I was me in da pic..before I took the pic along with my profile down.
However I've never been located in my real country..but then I usually clarify that in the first 1-3 messages. [8|]




Phoenixpower -> RE: How many are serious? (4/12/2009 1:20:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

Sorry to bust your bubble but you can have all the sections you want and they will still go where they want and play their games. 


Unfortunately sooooooooooooooo true [&o][&o][&o] 




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