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Wanting to know more about Humiliation - 4/10/2009 4:14:44 PM

EmpressLydia

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Hello, My name is Lydia. I'm a previously started Domme and I'm looking for anyone who can tell Me more about Humiliation. Do you have any pointers or assistance you could offer? Thank you for your time.

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RE: Wanting to know more about Humiliation - 4/10/2009 4:20:32 PM

lovingpet

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What are you looking to know about it? Techinque? Opinions about its use? Something else? Personally, I need some clarification.

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RE: Wanting to know more about Humiliation - 4/10/2009 4:26:52 PM

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I need mostly, what to do, when to use it, techniques and such. Thank you.

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RE: Wanting to know more about Humiliation - 4/10/2009 4:53:07 PM

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Since my two major kinks are control and humiliation, I sometimes wonder why so many people here just don't seem to "get" it. I had a lot more patience with that when I first joined CM a few years ago- YKINMK, after all. Different strokes for different folks. But lately there's a thread started by one of you just about daily, or at least it seems so.

Is the search feature here really so hard to use? Its up at the right corner of the screen, on the boards.

Any of the previous threads will tell you that its very individual. What may be yummy humiliation to my slaveboy may be a hard limit for someone else.

I refer you to my journal, for specifics about mine and my slaveboy's taste in humiliation, for example.

Also, I make a distinction between humiliation and degradation. My kind of humiliation is done to lift up my boy- never to put him down. There are those whose kink is degradation.

Bottom line: get to know your sub and what kind of humiliation if any, they like.

For some people, any kind of humiliation at all is a hard limit. Humiliation should be specifically tailored for your individual sub, otherwise it won't work, and may backfire.

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RE: Wanting to know more about Humiliation - 4/10/2009 5:01:42 PM

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LOL!

Just had a look at your previous profile.

You are not a 41 year old native american gay male slave, huh?

Seems to me you already know a thing or two about humiliation- and not the good kind!

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RE: Wanting to know more about Humiliation - 4/10/2009 5:12:13 PM

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There are more threads on this than you can shake a stick at. Try the Search feature to find them. There's also a lovely woman here, named Feydeplume, who's working on an article about it. If you sweet talk her, she might be willing to send you a copy of it. She sent it to me and I found it very helpful.

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RE: Wanting to know more about Humiliation - 4/10/2009 5:19:39 PM

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Thank you very much.

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