cpK69 -> RE: Mass killings and underlying reasons (4/14/2009 10:49:33 AM)
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I don’t know a lot of case history, aren’t a lot of the offenders, on the level we are discussing, usually older teen, young adult? (Can’t get the one that happened, I think within the last year, out of my head... the kid at the church school.) If that is true, isn’t their social life more akin to their home life by then? It’s hard for me to say, I don’t think what I had would be considered as a home life. This is a difficult topic for me to express myself on. Having been there, the talk reminds me of my visits to my first counselor. We didn’t get past “well, if you would just…” The other thing that comes to mind, is my visits to my last counselor, whom, by the time I left, had convinced me that, yes, I had been a victim. It wasn’t until I got here; I gained some idea as to what had really happened all those years. A year or two ago, I was having a conversation with my mother about the tough times. The conversation pretty much ended when she had said something to the effect “Well, those weren’t easy times for me; I felt trapped.” All I could think was, wow, after all this time; she still can’t see past herself. My reluctance isn’t in incorporating some sort of preventive maintance program, it’s an uncertainty in knowing what to do, if the issue is about being honest, and some people can’t handle the truth. Kim
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