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KatyLied -> RE: Desires to submit are overwhelming.... (1/30/2006 8:00:33 PM)

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it does compell me to want even more to submit to him and to outwardly symbolize that submission through some act or posture so that he understands that not only have I heard him, but that I see the wisdom in his words and appreciate oh so much that wisdom, thoughtfulness and bravery and that he applies them to me with such care and devotion.


Nicely stated.



veronicaofML -> RE: Desires to submit are overwhelming.... (1/30/2006 8:44:35 PM)

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i've had many a minister tell me that. never did understand. i was raised to be proud, hold my head up and walk like man,...
i have ''heard'' some folks, preaching, saying pride goeth before a fall.....
aint never grabbed that one either........i know far far too many people that have no damned pride and are willing to lowwer themselves to do anything in the world if they think they wont get caught by the fuzz.

so i have NO idea WHAT you are saying...but maybe some day--------and i aint holdin my breath.....
maybe someone will explain it??????? i damned well friggen doubt it......but maybe.



classykindasassy -> RE: Desires to submit are overwhelming.... (1/30/2006 10:29:04 PM)

I don't have relationship problems that make me want to submit more.

BUT, here is a scenario that for me falls into the question:

I'm a life coach and I take on my own behavioral bullshit. Meaning, I will "call one" on myself that maybe Himself or others don't see but I know I did. Like being snotty to someone even when many reasonable folks would call it justified. Or having an adult tantrum about something - it may not be such an offense worthy of negative discipline in my Dom's eyes, but given my expectations of myself, I want to do better than I did.

Sometimes I wish the mention of such a thing would inspire Him to give me a good flogging or something just to cement my own self-discipline. He may not be offended by it, but I let myself down. Sometimes it would feel good to have the locus of the punishment be outside myself so that I felt it more pleasurably, yet it cemented something - like when you paper-train a puppy and rub its nose in its poop when it goes off the paper.

NATURALLY I DECLINE TO BE SCATTED... but I hope this makes some kind of sense to anyone...



veronicaofML -> RE: Desires to submit are overwhelming.... (1/30/2006 10:55:48 PM)

YOU are a better person than i am.

i give ya 10 points out of 10.

take care



PenelopePitstop -> RE: Desires to submit are overwhelming.... (1/31/2006 10:57:00 AM)

Hi, I'm a depressive type and I find that the more unloved/ugly/unwanted/hopeless I feel the more intense my urges become. This is a double headf**k because this is maybe the absolute worst time to be looking for relief. I say maybe though because I've just split up with someone and unfortunately these feelings I have all kind of'jumped' on me at once as an indirect result, I couldn't cope, and ended up self-harming.

In conclusion, I'd have to say, yes, I think it's a common thing, but perhaps not wise acting on them until you feel more in balance with yourself. I think in the context of a relationship problem they become connected to something deeper and that needs looking at first.



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