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RE: fritzybloopybuggaboosmucklyfeck mood - 4/17/2009 8:28:21 PM

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Status: offline hi angel,

i think youre right. Sir wasnt 'available' to me in that he was focused on misst. i realise that when Sir and i are together the same happens to misst. we talked on the phone, but it was chit chat and nothing that connected me, but then i hid alot of what i was feeling before it got so bad i couldnt anymore.

it was 'the days at a time' that did it i think. had it just been for a normal weekend i would have been fine, but the easter weekend began on thursday and by sunday i was fried sunny side down and all frazzled round the edges. monday polished me off completely! - you are right i needed to be connected to Sir and it didnt happen, so i fritzed.

WOW that happens to me. I know that if i don't hear from him for a day or so, i get off kilter. It doesn't happen much but when it does, i am on pins and needles until he comes back. I feel all out of sync. Thanks for letting me know it happens to other people too!

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RE: fritzybloopybuggaboosmucklyfeck mood - 4/18/2009 5:56:40 AM

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Hey OP,

Yeah that is a bitch. I am not saying what he is doing is right or wrong because only he knows what he is, but to me, if a Man has two slaves disconnecting from one just to spend time with the other seems a little drastic. Especially if its a new relationship, which seems like yours is. A Man can be completely focused on one slave and still spend a few minutes a day simply connecting with the other woman he also calls slave. ESPECIALLY to me if the two slaves connect during that time.

From what you have said, to me, isn't jealousy, its need... plan an simple. A need for the connection with a Man who has or is taking your autonomy and who is the governing force in your life, when that is missing even for a day with NO connection, your need for the catalyst that you unconsciously react too is trying to react to what is usually there and isn't.

Hopefully, he will be able to see this concept and be able to alleviate some of the stress by a few minutes of connection on days he is with his other girl. Because it won't go away, you won't be able to come to terms and accept, its a natural need you don't control because another is the one controls.

Good luck. angel

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RE: fritzybloopybuggaboosmucklyfeck mood - 4/18/2009 5:09:06 PM

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I prescribe chocolate. Lots of it. Hershey's does the trick for me, preferrably in bar form. Kisses are good, and Dove makes me smile. I love a cup of hot chocolate made of real milk or cream. throw in a few handfuls of hershey's kisses or chocolate chips, and add a marshmallow while it's still heating. You heat the chocolate in the milk of course. The hot chocolate has the comfort factor and also makes me feel mellow and sleepy. Mmm..think I need a cup right now.

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