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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/14/2009 7:27:58 PM   
pompeii


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Status: offline 		I don't wanna reply too much (generally I reply once only to any particular thread, even ones I start, t' give others a chance to foment their opinion) ... but one thing I've noticed about Asian gals is they have firm (and I mean firm) breasts and thighs. Nothing at all like a Polish woman (or at least the Polish women I've known). Not even close to the British women (that I've known) who all had very soft softies. It's amazing how the Korean gals I've known, and the Japanese, and Vietnamese, all had very firm breasts. Wondrously firm. Not that softies aren't pleasurable (I've never met a tit I didn't like), but the fist clenching experience is wholly different with Asian woman.

Now, that might not be their initial draw .. but it keeps me perked up for 'em. 

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/14/2009 7:50:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I thought I would add this because I went through a stage of one Asian dominant after another to where most of my friends were convinced I only dated Asian women. Yes, I had a thing for them, and I never understood why. Last year, I read a book called "The Asian Mystique: Dragon Ladies, Geisha Girls, & Our Fantasies of the Exotic Orient" by Sheridan Prasso. It is an EXCELLENT book, and in a very short time I started to understand the fascination to where it's no longer what it used to be. This was pretty funny because my girlfriend in the states laughed at me when I told her I was going to Korea, because she knew me from the Asian woman littlesarbonn I used to be (pre-book). Since being in Korea, the drive is no longer here for me. The point is: Once you understand where the drive comes from, it no longer controls you. Now if I could just solve that drive concerning women and black leather....

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/14/2009 8:43:39 PM   
MarsBonfire


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Status: offline 		Well, I know "an" asian domme who is incredible, but I also know my chances with her would be zilch. She not just out of my leauge, she's on a different plane of existence!

Yes. I find asian women very attractive...
I find black women very attractive...
I find Irish Women very attractive...
I find Itallian women very attractive....

But, it's what's going on just behind the eyes... the mind, and especially the erotic imagination, that attracts me most.

As Ron White once said, in one of his TV concert films, "You can fix anything you want on your partner these days... boob jobs, tummy tucks, lasik eye correction, what have you.... but you can't fix stupid."

Although you do bring up a good point... is a person's race a valid fetish? I know this sort of thing has been discussed before... and my feeling is that it's fine that you are attracted to a certain type of woman... but no one likes being wanted just because of their race.

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 4:02:43 PM   
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I have never heard them referred to though as common and typical. Did you mean the fantasy of it little wonder or are Asian dom/mes really common and typical where you live?  


Every man I have ever known has been attracted to Asian women..whether Domme or submissive.

Dom/mes love em for their subservient cultural background.

Subs like em because if you find an Asian Domme then they're going against their culture and the taboo of that is a turnon to a lot.

Subs like Asian maledoms because they're usually very dominant again due to their culture.

It just seems to be a common, typical fantasy from every man I've ever known.



Thanks for the explanation, I get it now. I have always found Asian men just sexy as hell, long before I become owned by Sir. I have never been submissive to any man or in any relationship in my life, I just am with him because that is who He is and so to be with him, I have struggled at times, and decided that he is definitely worth it, of course now it is far easier. But I didn't seek an Asian male dom because they are naturally dominant, which is true, I just met Him and was gone in a heartbeat.. I do think that white males have a huge thing for that whole geisha thing.  

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 5:16:37 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Outward beauty fades, over time. People who are fixated on it are shallow. Boring.
 
I'm with Lockit on this one, she had a great post. It would really piss me off if I were an Asian Domme, to be objectified this way.

Whether as a Domme or just as a person, I want to be admired for who I am. Not what I look like.

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 5:24:30 PM   
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It would really piss me off if I were an Asian Domme, to be objectified this way.

One of the first women I dated off Alt was a Korean dominant.  I was brand new to online dating and asked her why she chose me out of all the men who wrote to her.  She said, "The other men don't see me.  They just see an Asian domme."  And, even with that, she and I turned out to be totally incompatible.  The real person is important, the fantasy not so much.


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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 5:35:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Outward beauty fades, over time. People who are fixated on it are shallow. Boring.
 
I'm with Lockit on this one, she had a great post. It would really piss me off if I were an Asian Domme, to be objectified this way.

Whether as a Domme or just as a person, I want to be admired for who I am. Not what I look like.


Am i understanding you correctly.  Someone tell you they find you pretty or attractive you take offense?

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 5:51:29 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Anyone can comment on how you look... it takes a deeper person to look inside and appreciate that and really it does mean far more.

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 6:02:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Outward beauty fades, over time. People who are fixated on it are shallow. Boring.
 
I'm with Lockit on this one, she had a great post. It would really piss me off if I were an Asian Domme, to be objectified this way.

Whether as a Domme or just as a person, I want to be admired for who I am. Not what I look like.


Am i understanding you correctly.  Someone tell you they find you pretty or attractive you take offense?

BadOne



Compliments are lovely just in general and I hope I'm as gracious as anyone else in accepting them, but if a guy was all into me because he sees me as a pretty white girl, instead of for the person I am inside- yeah that would blow it for me... And has. As said, I find it shallow and boring. I am soooo much more than just my looks, and my looks will presumably fade over time just like everyone else's. Except yours, SailingBum.   ;o)


(Do you feel objectified? I like you for your posts, honest! Not your pouty good looks- LOL...)

Where was I....

Oh, yeah:

If instead a guy is into me for the way I think and act, that is yummy. Those are the guys I cream my jeans for.

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 6:31:56 PM   
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I have to admit to being attracted to Asian women, though I'm certainly not exclusive when it comes to other races. In high school I had a crush on a pretty Japanese girl, but (sigh) she was a cheerleader, and I was just a hayseed farm boy too shy for my own good. But that is where my interest in Asian ladies had it's roots. And yes, (go ahead and tar and feather me!) I do like it better when they fall within my own definition of "pretty". But I've been around the block almost 3 1/2 times now and I know that their beauty, alone, does not make the cut. What's "inside" is every bit as important as what is outside.


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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 9:05:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		yep green eyes  asian i am all over it   like a willy wonka bar and the golden ticket  

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 9:53:20 PM   
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yep green eyes  asian i am all over it   like a willy wonka bar and the golden ticket  


approximate translation: LATEXBABY64 likes to buy his National Lottery ticket from the filipino lady in Sauchiehall Street, Glasgow.

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RE: Asian Dommes - 4/16/2009 10:03:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming


Compliments are lovely just in general and I hope I'm as gracious as anyone else in accepting them, but if a guy was all into me because he sees me as a pretty white girl, instead of for the person I am inside- yeah that would blow it for me... And has. As said, I find it shallow and boring. I am soooo much more than just my looks, and my looks will presumably fade over time just like everyone else's. Except yours, SailingBum.   ;o)


(Do you feel objectified? I like you for your posts, honest! Not your pouty good looks- LOL...)

Where was I....

Oh, yeah:

If instead a guy is into me for the way I think and act, that is yummy. Those are the guys I cream my jeans for.


yea I know it's hard to be such a stud

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