seaturtle50
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Yes i have put on my profile "slave" but surely people must understand i have work commitment's too ?
I would have thought at least if either parties involved had work/ time issues they could be "worked on" rather than just dismissed ?
Hi dave 1212,
i myself as a novice at all this, but thought it may be important to note that in my understanding there are some significant differences with regard to sub/slave.
In my ever broadening understanding a sub would have a right to set their own desire and need to work outside the home as a "hard limit" and would therefore be allowed to do so once me reaches an agreement with a Domme who also finds this limit acceptable.
A slave however, is largely by his/her very nature obliged to accept the limits of his/her Domme in this, and all regards. So, outside work is possible, provided it is the Domme's will for the slave. Then of course there would still be the issue of the Domme's will as to the proper use of the slave's income. 
In my case, i ultimately seek to become a slave. To me, this will most likely need to be a process, beginning as a sub. For lack of practical experience i see my role as a sub sort of like dating (in the nilla world) with the goal to eventually ask (plead, beg) to become slave and personal property to my Domina. Again, the "nilla" analogy that works for me is the collaring, as slave is the equivalent to becoming married. i am now "Hers"
Note: This is only my interpretation of the way that i see it. i understand there are many, many different ways, each to their own, and this submissive advises seeking the wise and abundant counsel of the desired Domme for clarification as to the proper methodology for the sub.
As i see it (and remember, i am only at the very first step in my "development" here) once collared (offered and accepted) as a slave, the only "surely people must understand" that i shall retain would be my right to ask to be released, which would mean, in most every case, my being let go.) This is why it seems to me that a sub/slave should take the process of selecting a compatable Domme <read a Domme to which one considers themself compatable) slow and with prudence.
So, please be certain to consider discussing all of this with your potential Domina, and that you do not assume anything - just because it makes sense to you that "most people" would understand a thing.
Have Fun! My best wishes to you!
seaturtle50
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