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RE: What is your goal regarding D/s? - 4/19/2009 11:26:35 AM

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My goal is a serious relationship - but one that is open and evolving based on life changes and such.

That being said, more casual play isn't a bad thing if I find someone I enjoy playing with - it's not the end goal, but a fun distraction along the way.

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RE: What is your goal regarding D/s? - 4/19/2009 11:51:08 AM

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Is it relationship based, such as you want a sub that would become a permanent part of your life?

I would say the above fits as a goal for me...yet, I do not seek a "live-in" at this time. Hope that makes sense.

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RE: What is your goal regarding D/s? - 4/19/2009 12:23:33 PM

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Wow... I had to go away and think for a bit... that can take a while! lol Hey I was busy! Training up some sweet submissive is busy domina work!

While life goes by and changes from time to time I find that I must change with it. As much as I may grumble about it, I do really enjoy some of those changes and am challenged by others. I would love to say in some small way that I was correct in everything I wanted and that is all I wanted... I always knew there may come a time for some changes and I was opening up to them and yet fighting them at the same time. Not because of what was in me or not in me... but becasue life has a way of proving that you have control of so little sometimes.

While I wanted mono, I also felt it would take more than one man to fulfill me. Not just sexually, but in all ways. I didn't feel it was fair to have more than one because of my illness. It is bad enough to leave and maybe break a heart... but the chance of doing that to two... ouch. I also thought of preparing my submissive for that time and what might be able to happen to ease the pain when the time does come.

Dont get me wrong... I don't plan on leaving any time soon and I am going strong in many ways. I could live for many years and live well... but there is that chance that I could not. So anyone daring to take a chance with that is basically a hero in a sense. That's how I see it.

So while I struggle to find my path and the things that change along that path, I open my eyes and mind to many other things and what can happen. I've come to think that two or three and a family just may be the answer to a lot of thing that life throws my way and that of anyone involved with me. I have been poly before and I am drawn more to thinking about it off and on. So... I will say cheers and let's see what happens... this could get very interesting!

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RE: What is your goal regarding D/s? - 4/19/2009 1:47:11 PM

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We're 24/7, but I'd like to point out that 24/7 doesn't mean we even hafta live together. It means he cedes authority to me regarding all aspects of his life, at all times.

Our D/s goal has always been the same as our life goal: Our mutual fulfillment and self-actualization, or self-realization.

Thanks for asking!

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