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OttersSwim -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 10:05:06 AM)

I dunno...my Lady and I have wonderful penetrative sex - that does not change who has the authority in the relationship in any way.  Honestly, we find it amazingly bonding and intimate...and at the end of it, I still am the submissive and She is the dominant...works for us!  




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 10:36:58 AM)

I expect them to react like men.

Point of info: are there sub males who routinely don't get erections during a scene?




Lockit -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:03:17 AM)

Okay... warning... it's my morning and it's not nice to mess with a red headed, fogged up domina!  I'm likely to say anything... anything at all!

Before I evolved, my biggest attitude was about lazy lover's.  Men who wanted to lay there and be...okay I am trying to temper myself here... never mind... they just wanted to lay there and be fucked.  I have found that some men haven't changed but I learn this before we are at stage... bedroom play!  Tie me up baby, do things to me, yeah, that's right... do all those things to me while I lay there bound and unable to move as it really is all I want to do... Just ride me mama!  My email box tell's me there are still a majority of males wanting nothing more than to be serviced.

If I want a man to slave over me and do me as I lay there and say... smoke a cig... that is what I will do.  I get the service... I call the shots and I happen to like being ridden.  If I want to tie him up and ride him, it's my choice.  I am not like those lazy lover's and won't lay there with a cig barking out orders... but my dominance doesn't start and end in the bedroom or wherever I decide to get mine.

Any man who needs to bring it up... whether I am dominant or not by a sexual position isn't a man I will be having sex or anything else with.  I am sure there are dominant men who like lil mama submissive to ride them and their dominance isn't in question!  So in my opinion, if a man needs to see proof of my dominance and calls the shots in the bedroom to do so... he is lazy and blind and may have some real emotional issues, because a man will see my dominance outside the bedroom play, far before we get there!  And if that isn't clear enough, I don't know what is.




slvemike4u -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:09:52 AM)

Seemed clear enough to me....




Lockit -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:10:34 AM)

LOL... Mike




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:17:18 AM)

And if that isn't clear enough, I don't know what is.

Yes, crystal is as a muddy whirlpool by comparison, Lockit.  I do have trouble imagining you barking, though. 




Lockit -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:20:40 AM)

I have a few talents... rather surprising at times. lol  They didn't even see that one coming... is one of my favorite thought's.




LadyPact -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:28:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I expect them to react like men.

Point of info: are there sub males who routinely don't get erections during a scene?


Bedroom scene or S/m scene?  My answer will vary.




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:44:52 AM)

Really?  Hmm.  So, a man could be entirely without an erection throughout a S/m scene?




LadyPact -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 11:54:38 AM)

Yes.  Two things you have to understand about that.  Not everybody processes pain the same way, even if they are engaging in S/m.  Painful stimuli doesn't necessarily give everyone an erection.  Just like different kinds of pain will produce one when others won't.  This is in addition to the fact that one scene can last several hours.  If someone gets an erection and maintains it the entire time, well, let's just say I'd like to meet him.

The other that you have to understand is that kinky people aren't necessarily exempt from the same physical/sexual issues as our vanilla counterparts.  Since I've had people in My life that have had ED, I can personally attest to this.




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 12:08:51 PM)

Ah.  Interesting.  Thanks, LP.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 12:14:10 PM)

Regarding erections or lack thereof:  what LadyPact said.  That's one of the reasons I don't consider an erection to be anything resembling a sign ofsubmissiveness, or anything at all in and of itself.  And that ED thing...  well, I play with old guys, what can I say? [;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 12:21:45 PM)

I never asked you about the ED thing, Lady Hib.  None of my business whatsoever.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 12:28:12 PM)

Hmmm.....  how do I interpret that?  [8|]




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 12:32:01 PM)

You can interpret it as meaning "What 'ED thing'?  What are you talking about?" [;)]




LadyPact -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 12:33:14 PM)

Actually, the one I had who did have ED issues was ten years My junior.  [;)]

What's that old saying about trying one ten years above and ten years below?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 12:35:14 PM)

Oh the ED thing happens at any age, or from ailments like diabetes!  Since I almost never have intercourse with my playmates, it hardly matters.  [;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 1:19:55 PM)

All right, I give up, I'll google "ED".  Bah.




MsFlutter -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 1:21:28 PM)

ED = erectile dysfunction




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/21/2009 1:23:12 PM)

Oh.  Got it.  Or rather, I haven't, thank god.  Mrs Palmer and her five daughters are always very kind and understanding should I have problems in that department.




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