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I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 5:38:04 AM

InTonguesslut

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Up until recently one of my favourite things to play with was my pin wheel. I absolutely adored it and couldn't get enough, i'd masturbate with it, take it every time i went to Sir's. I got it out last night though and it did nothing for me, jack shit, i'm bored of it !!
This is the first time i've got bored of a toy but presume sooner or later it will happen with most of them. Oh and it wasn't like i was playing with the pin wheel every day or anything, so it wasn't over use as you might say.
I think the problem is that im that used to the sensation the pin wheel gives that i'm kind of desensitised (sp) to it now. I need to move on to a bigger and more intense version lol. Imagining now a huge pin wheel with knives as pins or something - sorry.
So i'm wondering do you get bored of your toys?
What do you do when you are bored of them?
Why do you get bored of them?

Ooh and i was thinking that this is kind of akin to when we start to take the small things for granted. Like getting flowers every week, i grew bored and the buzz from recieving them went, i just took it for granted. I don't get as big a buzz as i used to from kneeling, so many times and it kinda loses it buzz too. I still take comfort in being in my place of course but it just isn't the same as it used to be.

Anyone else lose interest / passion / feeling from the small things?

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 5:42:13 AM

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I am going to bet that as your outside world changes, your "inside" world will go through changes as well.

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 5:59:53 AM

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Put it aside and play with something else for six months. I'm betting that after not using it for a long time, you'll rediscover the joys of it. Like cycling an um's toys so something is always considered fresh and exciting to play with.

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 6:00:47 AM

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Familiarity breeds contempt..... if I caned My girl every day for a month using the same cane, striking the same way, etc both of use would be board shitless of it within a few days let alone the end of the first month (I know you where not playing with it in that fashion, but it would be the same effect over a smaller timescale). The remidy wouldn't be to move on to bigger and more intense else soon We'd be at an intensity level that would amputate limbs

Good job then I love variaty, no two play sessions end up being exactly the same. I maybe in the mood to go hard and heavy with the ball chain flogger, or even more intense with the sjambok (I've left the ball on the end for a VERY intense strike), or soft flogging, breath play, knife play..... etc. If the pinwheel has gotten a bit passe, stick it in the draw and go enjoy other types of sensations, other forms of play and when you finaly remember about your lil old pinwheel you'll not be as familiar with it and it will regain a little of what it lost.

Same with the kneeling thing, she loves being at My feet however I don't let her indulge that too often (her knees aren't too good for extended duration kneeling) so when I do then it is still special, still gives her that buzz.

Talking of buzz, she tells Me that years ago she got so she couldn't come at all without using a hitachi due to overusing it.... remidy, no hitachi for a while and eventualy, after a lot of frustration she was able too. Needless to say she doesn't get to use Ours every time and We don't have that problem.

Overdo anything and it will loose its edge. Variety is the spice of life

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 6:55:45 AM

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Put it down. Come back in two weeks or two months. I'll bet you love it again!

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 7:16:56 AM

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One thing I have to say is that you sure picked one to get bored with that would have disappointed Me. That would suck.

I do happen to agree with the others that say put it down for a while and come back to it later. This is one reason why I have a variety of toys and like different forms of play. I still haven't gotten bored with any of the toys (though softer ones don't thrill Me as much) because I try to keep enough things rotated to keep them interesting.

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 8:01:24 AM

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.Toys become new again when you are not in control of them...ever notice how hard it is to tickle yourself.

Life is a little like that as well... what you are in control of you get bored with... things outside your control, that affect you, demand your attention.

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 8:06:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub

.Toys become new again when you are not in control of them...ever notice how hard it is to tickle yourself.

Very true, My girl using the hitachi on herself... a couple of minutes.... Me using the hitachi on My girl... about 8seconds to first orgasm.

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 10:45:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut

So i'm wondering do you get bored of your toys?
What do you do when you are bored of them?
Why do you get bored of them?

Ooh and i was thinking that this is kind of akin to when we start to take the small things for granted. Like getting flowers every week, i grew bored and the buzz from recieving them went, i just took it for granted. I don't get as big a buzz as i used to from kneeling, so many times and it kinda loses it buzz too. I still take comfort in being in my place of course but it just isn't the same as it used to be.

Anyone else lose interest / passion / feeling from the small things?

Losing interest hasn't happened for me in anything that I'm truly *interested in* ....but my * this is all consuming* aspect, waxes and wanes and takes on different forms.

It doesn't make any difference if it's a small thing or a big thing...... overdosing on anything takes away the * first time* effect. It's a rather natural occurence.

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 11:39:07 AM

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I don't think I have ever gotten bored with anything. I have been doing this stuff for decades and electrical things still make me drop into subspace in the blink of an eye. Walking into a tire store still makes my eyes glaze over and my pussy throb. I still love to have my mate say, get down there and suck my cock. I will occasionally up the sensations when masturbating according to my degree of masochistic need. Pinwheels.. are simply sensation, as are needles, floggers, ect. just Up the ante when things get too tame.
Perhaps if you didn't always use an item it would maintain its thrill?
I don't know. I just know I am a quirky personality that still giggles when I see a squirrel, a bird cross my path, or a 3 yr old child in cute boots. Life.. toys.. knowlege is never something I want to stop exploring and enjoying.
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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 2:22:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut

So i'm wondering do you get bored of your toys?
What do you do when you are bored of them?
Why do you get bored of them?

Anyone else lose interest / passion / feeling from the small things?

usually I break my toys by accident before i get bored with them, usually just as i'm starting to enjoy them. Master says i'm not allowed vibrating toys anymore, and my hitachi is only for special occasions now. in the past six months while with Master i've broken a waterproof rabbit, two (yes two) sets of vibrating eggs and a remote egg as well.

I tend to get bored more with my music or books so i set them aside and read or listen to something else for a while then a bit later i'll find that book or music and want to read/listen to it again.

I tend to get bored because i over use the things i like until i'm tired of them. so i play with them until i get sick of it then put it away and pull out something new to play with for a while.

i enjoy the small things, i still surprise Master by going, "oh the flowers are blooming look!"

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 2:29:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

Very true, My girl using the hitachi on herself... a couple of minutes.... Me using the hitachi on My girl... about 8seconds to first orgasm.

greetings A/all

omgosh!! this is the same wtih me. if i am doing myself, it's a good 5-10 minutes before i can orgasm the first time. when Daunt uses it on me, it's about a minute. i wonder why that is??! i'm just glad i'm not alone

gemmie

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 2:42:17 PM

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Just a thought.. try a mentholated rub, or something like IcyHot (maybe on a leg or an arm) and try the wheel there. Not likely to be a good idea on your genitals, but it might make things more interesting for you in general. Many people I know say that the skin is a lot more sensitive after applying something like that.. and if you have someone to put it on your back or something, it might even be beneficial!
Hope that's an idea that helps.

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 4:40:13 PM

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I get bored easily - - with things, places, people, projects. It's one of my greatest challenges, actually (some would call, and have called, it my greatest -flaw-). I'm not exactly ADD, but I have a low boredom threshold. Typically, though, given enough time, something will interest me again if its managed to capture my attention once. (Things I've -never- been interested in... well... those are hopeless, considering that I struggle to retain enthusiasm for things I really -adore-!)

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RE: I'm bored of that now !! - 4/21/2009 4:55:12 PM

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I'm sure the majority of you are right and my love of the pin wheel will return some day *sighs*

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