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dating - 2/1/2006 7:32:19 AM

Bonfyre911

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What are your expectations from the get go? Are there any elements that are required to make it work for you?

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RE: dating - 2/1/2006 7:36:00 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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Nope. For me dating is just getting to know someone, seeing what you have in common, seeing what time will show you, having a good time together.

I have what I call my "mental clipboard." In the first few times of meeting someone, I either decide to keep going with them or not. If I decide to keep dating, a LOT of stuff gets put on that clipboard. THe clipboard isn't a "good" or "bad" list- it's just "things to take note of." It can be discussions to have about the past, a quirk to review, a compability kink, a talk about a particular interest, whatever. It's my mental filing system for someone to remind myself of where I'm going on my path.

If things really develop over time, the clipboard becomes a filing cabinet, and eventually, just part of the whole connective living relationship.

Enjoy.

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RE: dating - 2/1/2006 7:38:11 AM

RavenMuse

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In a place like this then if a profile is done right most such 'expectations' should be in it.

If you mean more generaly and including vanilla..... Just two.
Honesty and communication

Not that I've always GOT the first of those! *Sigh*

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