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dominatedmslave -> chastity enjoyment (4/22/2009 10:06:33 PM)

as a gay male slave i enjoy very much being in chastity.  Tell me please, what are some reasons that Masters enjoy putting their slave in chastity (whether it be male or female)

Thanks



Focus50 -> RE: chastity enjoyment (4/23/2009 5:24:04 AM)

Some?  There's only one - *control*.
 
Focus.



Kaiel -> RE: chastity enjoyment (4/23/2009 6:31:01 AM)

umm, yep... CONTROL!



breatheasone -> RE: chastity enjoyment (4/23/2009 7:16:37 AM)

i'd like to add if i may...the ONLY reason i ("s" type) would enjoy that is the being controlled! lol



MstrTiger -> RE: chastity enjoyment (4/23/2009 11:09:51 AM)


I do it because of the control, though I also do it because I find it quite amusing.



DeViLiVeD -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/4/2009 6:31:24 PM)

I'd use it as part of obedience training. Yeah... I agree with the rest... its because of control.



CrazyCats -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/4/2009 6:40:04 PM)

Two parts control, one part humility for me. I tend to like the psychological bits, too. It's useful as a punishment, and it focuses the sub's mind on sex, making them rather enjoyable when the punishment is over. True reverse psychology at work: tell them they are not allowed to have something they want, and they want it more.

(I suppose that's the same principal that a strip club works on, too.)



GoddessTeaze -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/5/2009 2:06:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dominatedmslave

as a gay male slave i enjoy very much being in chastity.  Tell me please, what are some reasons that Masters enjoy putting their slave in chastity (whether it be male or female)

Thanks


Hello dominatedmslave,

Simply because it makes them more submissive,
and I love to push them towards that level,
where they love to be, once they've learned
about it. That's why [:D]

I wish you enough.

GoddezzT`



FrankAr -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/5/2009 7:40:57 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dominatedmslave

as a gay male slave i enjoy very much being in chastity.  Tell me please, what are some reasons that Masters enjoy putting their slave in chastity (whether it be male or female)

Thanks


Greetings slave,

As has been pointed out, it is about the control of the private parts. For me though it is more control than I can view, because it is not just control of the orgasm or private use of the genitals and cunt, but after the release of the chastity it is the orgasm afterwards. The build up of the orgasm during the chastity time is imense, and the slave cannot orgasm because of the chastity device. Now release the chastity device and you have the slave being wound up, being so wet because the first time that they are going to be touched by the Dominant or Master or Mistress, they are going to be putty in their hands. The orgasm is going to shake their body if done properly and they might wince to have the chastity device re-instated just for that purpose.

Be well.

Frank Ar.



HalloweenWhite -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 4:22:46 AM)

I can think of 4 off the top of  My head:

1) Being in control of when someone has sex or masturbates
2) Making sure that when they're locked into the device they won't be tempted to stray if their Owner isn't around
3) Humiliation (see example 1)
4) Punishment



GotSteel -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 6:47:14 AM)

Here's a FAQ on the effects of the female chastity belt by one of the experts Robert Pinkerton: http://www.lockmeup.com/cb/facts/effects.pdf He goes on for 41 pages on the various mundane and otherwise effects of female chastity belts. Here's part of a post from him taken from the site, it sums up one of the points buried in the FAQ:
 
"Correctly fitted, a Tollyboy, or Tollyboy clone, is tight enough around the lass' waist to slow upward circulation of her blood, thereby congesting her pelvic region. At the same time, the primary shield presses gently but relentlessly constantly against her labia majora, equally relentlessly primarily reminding her of her external genitals; and the adjustments, circumventions, and other measures necessary to cope with it, secondarily remind her of them. The result is not temporary sexual nullification, but rather constant arousal -- and constant frustration."
 
Anyway, that was all a long winded way of saying that the belt can used to build arousal as a sort of foreplay.




HalloweenWhite -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 10:54:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GotSteel

Here's a FAQ on the effects of the female chastity belt by one of the experts Robert Pinkerton: http://www.lockmeup.com/cb/facts/effects.pdf He goes on for 41 pages on the various mundane and otherwise effects of female chastity belts. Here's part of a post from him taken from the site, it sums up one of the points buried in the FAQ:
 
"Correctly fitted, a Tollyboy, or Tollyboy clone, is tight enough around the lass' waist to slow upward circulation of her blood, thereby congesting her pelvic region. At the same time, the primary shield presses gently but relentlessly constantly against her labia majora, equally relentlessly primarily reminding her of her external genitals; and the adjustments, circumventions, and other measures necessary to cope with it, secondarily remind her of them. The result is not temporary sexual nullification, but rather constant arousal -- and constant frustration."
 
Anyway, that was all a long winded way of saying that the belt can used to build arousal as a sort of foreplay.




That makes for very interesting reading, thats for sure lol.



KoolnSassy -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 11:43:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

Some?  There's only one - *control*.
 
Focus.


I agree whole heartedly.



sirguym -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 3:10:53 PM)

Yes, power corrupts and absolute power is even more fun. It is about tease and denial, about putting them in a position when they get the constant little reminders that they're owned, locked-up, restricted and it's no longer up to them when they will be released.

It is also a test, it can be uncomfortable, even painful sometimes, potentially embarrassing or humiliating, etc. to wear one. In the real world it does take a real commitment to accept it, one that nobody  will get from a 'do me' sub.



Miwsi -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 4:10:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FrankAr

and the slave cannot orgasm because of the chastity device.


What kind of chastity device would not allow for a female to reach orgasm?

I can make myself reach orgasm merely from thought and little to no touching. If someone tried to deny me orgasm, I'd end up either having it in my sleep or I'd come from frustration.

Neener.



DavanKael -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 6:08:56 PM)

The first word that popped into my head was sadism. 
  Davan



BKSir -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 6:24:14 PM)

Yup, focus nailed it right off the bat.  Control.  Did I say you could touch that?  NO!  Did I say you were allowed pleasure today/this week/whatever?  NO!  You are mine, thus THAT is mine, not yours.

That being said, I'm not personally into that.  Just not my thing. 

EDIT:  TMI removal...



GotSteel -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 6:54:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Miwsi

What kind of chastity device would not allow for a female to reach orgasm?


32% of women have a hard time or just plain can't orgasm even with direct stimulation http://www.news-medical.net/?id=10793 Remove direct stimulation and that number increases. So sure there are women who can orgasm from dreaming about it, getting spanked, having their breasts played with, being ordered to, there was even a girl on chastity belt.me who would orgasm from having her chastity belt unlocked. But then there's everybody else who can't.



dreamerdreaming -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 7:06:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GotSteel
<snip>
"Correctly fitted, a Tollyboy, or Tollyboy clone, is tight enough around the lass' waist to slow upward circulation of her blood, thereby congesting her pelvic region. At the same time, the primary shield presses gently but relentlessly constantly against her labia majora, equally relentlessly primarily reminding her of her external genitals; and the adjustments, circumventions, and other measures necessary to cope with it, secondarily remind her of them. The result is not temporary sexual nullification, but rather constant arousal -- and constant frustration."
 
Anyway, that was all a long winded way of saying that the belt can used to build arousal as a sort of foreplay.




Only a guy would assume that having something pressing "relentlessly, constantly against her labia majora" would cause a woman "constant frustration". Because women know that its more likely to have exactly the opposite effect.
With something pressing up against us in such a way, women would need very little wiggle room and not much time doing it, to orgasm. Sounds yummy. I want one, LOL!




Miwsi -> RE: chastity enjoyment (5/6/2009 10:03:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GotSteel

quote:

ORIGINAL: Miwsi

What kind of chastity device would not allow for a female to reach orgasm?


32% of women have a hard time or just plain can't orgasm even with direct stimulation http://www.news-medical.net/?id=10793 Remove direct stimulation and that number increases. So sure there are women who can orgasm from dreaming about it, getting spanked, having their breasts played with, being ordered to, there was even a girl on chastity belt.me who would orgasm from having her chastity belt unlocked. But then there's everybody else who can't.


Thank you for your response.
I'm well aware about female sexuality in general, and that there is a lucky few who can enjoy an orgasm that way, or at all for that matter... clitoral stimulation or vaginal. I suppose my mind went to the dark side and imagined something more sadistic, like something that would hurt the female if she started to have contractions that would encourage her to stop.

Of course I am also aware that there is something out there like that... or that somebody has thought something up like that already.
Oh look, I just did! [sm=crop.gif]

*remembers some of the crazy chastity belts that would rip up a man's penis if he dared enter the vagina*



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