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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 4:58:22 PM   
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SweetEscravo......

First off... please stop using the word "Kink"...... BDSM is not all about being kinky.


I don't see anything wrong with the word "kink". It may not apply to you, but many of us are OK with it.

Be well,
Julie


Didn't say anything was wrong with the word... I said BDSM isn't all about being kinky.

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 5:05:11 PM   
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SweetEscravo......

First off... please stop using the word "Kink"...... BDSM is not all about being kinky.


I don't see anything wrong with the word "kink". It may not apply to you, but many of us are OK with it.

Be well,
Julie


Didn't say anything was wrong with the word... I said BDSM isn't all about being kinky.


I responded based on your post telling him to "stop using the word kink", which appears to indicate that there is an issue with the use that word when connecting it with BDSM. I simply wanted him to know that not all of us feel that using the word "kink" is something to worry about.

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 5:16:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		i wish i was 18 again. Well sorta. i was younger. No actually, i wish i was 15 and 16 again. i was rocking the world across the seas. i had a club i called my own and if i didnt like the group (which was usually the HS kids) in it, it was simple to get them out. Twas great telling the kids we were going to be raided and watching them spread like wild fire. If you werent my friend, you werent down partying in MY city or in MY clubs. i knew hundreds of ppl and hundres of ppl looked out for me.

For even though i was rocking Wanchia and whatever parts of the land i took adventures off to, the ppl knew something i didnt know that, lying about my age couldnt hide. My youth, my innocence, the depth of how naive i was.

No matter how much i rocked there and how much experience i "thought" i had, or how mature i was partying with 20 and 30 year olds and the kids in their teens following in my wake and the ppl that were afraid of me staying the hell of my streets, or the ppl i could raise to revenge harm done to some i cared for, or even the ppl i ran with... no matter..

i know now as well as they know then that i was young, innocent, naive and inexperienced. And i thank them for looking out for me, cos i surely wouldnt be here if it wasnt for my elders, those older then me.

and i'm sure i can match you any day with experience when it comes to life. With your attitude, you will end up with scrapes and bruises. No matter how brilliant you think you are. You are no match for seasoned peers. Who have already been there, done that and then added 10 years to their life.

Take it slow, try and listen to those older then you and relish your youth cos soon you're gonna be old.. happens to us all.. and you'll be looking back going "crap" they're right. Mark my words.

Which you prolly wont listen too.. but still mark em :p

And btw - i'm not saying youth leads to ignorance, stupidity or any of that. my sister at 18 blows me away half the time. But by the time she's my age, she'll be saying the same thing i am saying now. As you all will. As i will 10 years from now and 10 years from that...


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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 5:19:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I personally, would love to be 18 again Don't get so hung up on your age, there's someone out there for all of us...regardless of how young, or old we are.

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 5:20:43 PM   
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personally, at 18, i was the person i am now. My sexuality was formed. it has not changed one iota since then.
Sure, i have experienced things that have taught me stuff since, and that has molded me, the basic blue print is exactly the same.


personally i think i have regressed as i get older.. the older i get the more immature.. the more irresponsible.. the wierder..

but sadly to say i am not the same person = ( As i have broken and rebuilt many times. One of these days i'm gonna get the puzzle back together right.. one of these days.. heh. But i swear i'm regressing..

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 5:26:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only problem I have with my age is that my BDSM group has the restriction set at age 21 and I'm getting tired of the waiting. But, oh well, rules are rules. I will wait the 10 months and then I will join.

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 5:34:40 PM   
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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 5:59:22 PM   
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Oh hush, Mr. Warren. Everyone knows handsome and distinguished authors get tons of pussy.



OMFG, I laughed so hard I almost chipped a tooth on the monitor!!!!

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RE: damn age poem - 2/1/2006 6:32:34 PM   
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I hate hate hate hate hate hate hate being young. I take that back..it isn't the number of years I've been alive that bothers me, but the fact that everyone else in the world turns their noses up at me is really what gets me pissed. I might be only eighteen, but I am not an idiot kid. I am just as much "on the scene" and kinky as the next person. Would you all rather I was 95 years old, just for the fact that I would be more "experienced"? I realise that the BDSM and kinky world is largely populated by people older than me, but I would appriciate it if you all would stop acting like I don't know what I'm doing here. Because guess what, I am probably more experienced than some of you who are in your 40s or 50s. I have been on the scene longer than most of those people! Young adults growing up these days are not as naive and ignorant as most older adults seem to believe. I have known a large number of young people who are very deeply into kink and have just as much experience as the next person. Why do you people get so hung up on age anyways? Ugh.

ps- I love most of the people here, but there are just some out there that really make me see red.



There once was a girl of 18
Some said she was young for the scene
She knows vanilla (wink, wink)
And all about kink
And all that might fall in between.

Cheers, sweet escravo. It's just great that you know exactly who you are. And it only gets better.
Smythe





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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 6:47:23 PM   
justheather


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Status: offline 		Im sorry, didnt we just do this same thread like two days ago?
What's really sad, SE, is that fifteen years from now some schmuck will post the same thing you did and you will be answering from the other side of the fence....every three days.


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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 7:02:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		When you're old, paunchy, balding, and have problems getting it up, you might not feel the same way.

Oh, and make sure you brush your teeth. I hear tooth decay is a bastard when you're in your 50's.

Enjoy yourself while you're young and don't do anything just because you think you're supposed to.

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I hate hate hate hate hate hate hate being young.


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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 7:06:21 PM   
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Oh, and make sure you brush your teeth. I hear tooth decay is a bastard when you're in your 50's.


And floss. Dont forget to floss.

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RE: damn age poem - 2/1/2006 7:09:13 PM   
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Would you all rather I was 95 years old


Well, if you were 95, you could qualify to be a moderator here.

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 9:24:55 PM   
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Oh hush, Mr. Warren. Everyone knows handsome and distinguished authors get tons of pussy.


you beat me to it Sensualips... was going to say same thing... lol


There is a great line in Finding Forrester. The young boy asks the distinguished author "If you write a great book, will women sleep with you?" The author replies in that wonderful Scot accent "If you write a bad book, they will sleep with you."

That's been my plan.

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 9:35:38 PM   
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SweetEscravo......

First off... please stop using the word "Kink"...... BDSM is not all about being kinky. And you are going to find out that the people in BDSM community are NOT the only ones that is going to have problems with the younger generation. I know when I was in my late teens.. early 20's. I did the same bitching you are now. And about the same damn thing you are bitching about. The first thing to help people get past your age, is to stop acting 18. If you want someone to look at you as an adult, act like one and stop worrying about what people think or not think of your age.

In case you haven't noticed, age has nothing to do with what you do know.. and what you do not know. But when you carry on like this... no ones going to care what you know. They're going to see an 18 year old punk kid bitching and complaining about something he has no idea how to grasp the reality.. that you have no control over time. And this is all this is about..... Father Time. And it's just the way things are for most people..... so learn to deal with it... and move on from there.

Keep in mind.. not all care how old you are... it's all on how you present yourself.



First off... please stop using the word "Kink"...... BDSM is not all about being kinky.


What about the people who are looking for fun with no strings?

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 10:03:33 PM   
siamsa24


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Status: offline 		You have to give people reason to not believe that you are young. If you act like a knee-high you will be treated like one.
I have been told in the past that people were amazed when they saw my age on my profile. I would like to believe that is still the case.
Either way, act like a grown-up, contribute respectfully and thoughtfully to conversations and you will earn respect (eventually)

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 10:19:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		"When I was 18, I wanted to be 25 so i could pull the 18yo chicks. When I was 25, I wanted to be 35 so I could pull the 25+ yo ladies..........."

When I was 20 to 25, I was pulling on occasions a heap of asian ladies of differing ages in a foreign land .. What I really wanted was to live through the next day and dreamed of the war ending and dating all those admiring females.... Yeah right most were so anti war and believed that we were murdering pieces of shit and none wanted to know us or feared us.. Life goes on and although it may be ammusing to day dream of what things could be, the reality is make the best of what you have and never forget the fuck you miss out on today can never be had .. ever. Never look back with regret.. Never moan about what you think you are missing just go out and do it. A sucessfull lawyer was so worried that he could never connect with ladies and was a virgin at the old age of 30. He said fuck it and went out and got layed as often as he could nightly... He gor Aids and died two years later...... You figure the moral.

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RE: damn age - 2/1/2006 10:21:18 PM   
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SweetEscravo, it's rough having your problem, I guess.
Its interesting because most people value youth, and a lot of us worry about getting to be what we used to consider "old"... Oh well, best to have a sense of humor at any age, and live well (as well as you can).
I personally don't miss 18, don't remember it being particularly fun, and I definitely have changed a LOT since than, but wait until you're in your 30s and the years just fly as if 2 at a time.
Welcome to the boards, M


I have to agree with BTF here, enjoy your youth because it's twue after 30 you won't believe how time flies!

WOW! What a Hot dress BTF, just Gorgeous! in all due Respect

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RE: damn age - 2/2/2006 3:13:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetEscravo
I might be only eighteen, but I am not an idiot kid.


Well, I think YOU've got it made. I didn't accept, or perhaps "realize" is a better word, my interest was even called BDSM, or related to it at all, until I was in my very late 30s. I wasn't exactly a sheltered being, but I didn't accept that part of myself until late in life. I was almost 40.

Whenever I see someone as young as yourself, or even just under 30, I'm happy for them being able to realize what they want, and being strong enough and confident enough to enjoy life, and not hold back.

Treasure your youth and all that you'll be experiencing.

I remember when I was turning forty, how I was bitchin' to my dad about it. I was ranting "I'm gonna be forty," when he looked over at me and said...."well, just think how 'I' feel...I have a DAUGHTER that's gonna be forty!"

Really...enjoy your youth and all that is to come.

K

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RE: damn age - 2/2/2006 3:30:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suffer from (PPS) Peter Pan Sysdrom which is I never want to grow up, You are only as young as you feel no wonder IB feel 30 (LOL) . but I can see from your post Escravo that Your Mind is older that You body and you must have been around a long time to get where you are now.

so I'd tell Every one who thinks Your to young to Our enviro to Piss off and leave You alone .

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