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RE: damn age - 2/5/2006 1:51:53 AM

ExistentialSteel

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I would never be so shallow as to judge you by something as superficial as your age.
What do you look like?

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RE: damn age - 2/5/2006 7:35:04 AM

iheartperverts

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I've been interested in and learning about BDSM since I was barely a teenager. I know that for me it was frustrating because when you are underage no one wants to touch you with a ten foot pole or really discuss any BDSM related topic with you. Even though, you have those feelings inside, you are more or less told they are for adults or worse case, sexual deviants. Of course now that I'm older and not quite as impatient that makes a great deal of sense. I remember when I was around sixteen, I used to peruse adult kink-related yahoo chatrooms, except I didn't lie about my age because I thought that was stupid and I used to be flamed and supposedly reported. Usually the people making a big deal about my age were insecure older submissive women. Actually, online insecure older submissive women still attempt to hold my age against me. I think it has less to do with age and more to do with insecurity. Insecure people will always pick out and harp on a person's flaws(particularly if they see that person as 'better' or a threat). Most of my friends in the lifestyle are younger so it's never been a problem, but lucky for me, my older friends do not hold my age against me either.

I chose to wait until I was legal to actively seek-out friends and play partners, simply because I didn't want to put the people I meet at risk. I'm curious as to whether you joined in any RT bdsm groups before you turned 18?

Just remember, everyone know matter what age, still has something to learn. If we didn't, life would be boring. People older than ourselves are an excellent way to learn about the lifestyle and so is your experience and self-education.

From one young punk to another