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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 3:40:57 AM

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For me, a sub married to her Husband long term: when He takes controll of the mood He can take me from neutral to laughter to tears to anger to tears and back to laughter again. He can execute this precisely playing me very skillfully. On occasion He'll treat me to a ride like this in public and watch me struggle to contain my anger and tears...funny how laughter is always allowed eh? He knows me, He is in my head always

When i have a new contact here...they have to ask the right questions to get enough info to start pulling strings...they need vivid imagination and a depraved mind...to match mine...

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 5:57:37 AM

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Im thinking Blow Job

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 6:01:53 AM

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Let's see. That is a good question.

I am a maso/Domme. That means I like pain as much as a sub/maso; however, I like control better.
What turns me on is someone who can out control me. They are out there, and I have had the pleasure of meeting one or two of them. It is really cool.
For them to get me to serve them without question is a turn on, but does not make me a sub. I use it as a learning tool.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 7:46:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: amoryblane

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

And i have to say if my Sir pulled the shit that you talk about so blithely, i would have to seriously reconsider our relationship. And why would i want our relationship to teater on the edge of distruction? I don't like game playing. I don't like chronically sarcastic people. In fact, it is just as well your bdsm isn't my bdsm.

Indeed it is. And it is very nice you have found what you want. May everyone have the same happiness.

Well said

and I'm glad your having so much fun.

If your asking in the D/s sense then it has to be the sexual side of domination for me.
If your asking in the play sense then it has to be when I'm all tied up and he starts rooting in his tool box!

Having fun rocks

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 9:32:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: anethy

I am mind fucked by my Master this way. Yes - I get off on it. It is my kink we have both discovered. I am so badly mind fucked I no longer know if he's even mind fucking me. So my question is this - once he's inside your head, how do you get him out?

If I could respond to a question with another question, may I ask whether you would want him out? In my admittedly limited experience, I have found that the first step is to actually want something. If you truly don't, you'll never get him out.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 9:41:21 AM

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So,what does it take to get inside your head?

A person who takes the time to listen.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 11:29:08 AM

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To get inside my head you need a scalpel and a bone saw. hehehehehehehe

Ok serious answer, each partner or each person effects me differently. One thing will work with one person but not another. It all depends on how I connect with that person as to how he or she can find the buttons to push with me.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 3:04:04 PM

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Well first you have to build this sub... then you have to build a machine to shrink it down to microscopic size...

hehehe

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 3:22:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

I've found all it really takes to get into anyone's head is...

... to first learn to simply listen.

Yup

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 3:24:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: akisha

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To get inside my head you need a scalpel and a bone saw. hehehehehehehe

Now see, I was going to say a SawsAll, but then decided to be nice.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 3:53:36 PM

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It takes trust to get inside my head. And that's probably just been said in every post up till mine. So please forgive.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 4:22:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

I've found all it really takes to get into anyone's head is...

... to first learn to simply listen.

*nods*

That is how my owner did it. He listened to me and was patient. There were times I wanted to pull back and times I did pull back, but he was always still there to listen to me. That is how he built trust with me, his consistency of being there for me.

All that came before the kink, the kink just cemented what had been built.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 5:49:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

I've found all it really takes to get into anyone's head is...

... to first learn to simply listen.

Yes... agreed.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 5:54:19 PM

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Ah... the basic difference between men and women...most men don't want to talk let alone listen

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 7:54:06 PM

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Mad skills.

It really has more to do with who they are than what they do.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 9:36:11 PM

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Please could you give a more specific example, OP?

One person's mindfuck, is another's unforgiveable cruelty. Please give a blatant example of the kind of manipulation that you find yummy, thanks!

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 4/28/2009 10:00:31 PM

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as many people have said, listening is important, because really all we have to see inside someone's head is what they give us that way. one of the things that people seem to have in common who have mindfucked me the most though, is not only listening but doing this thing where they talk to me a lot without telling me as much as i'd like to know about them... enough to get me curious, and then they just sort of stop talking. i will babble after awhile if confronted with an empty conversation with someone i want to make a connection with... and, eventually, especially if the person is smart enough to have a good grasp of metaphor and isn't weirded out by some of the things i naturally tell people in order to test the "am i going to make you think i'm a freak?" factor, i let something slip.

as for "what is a mindfuck?" or "that sounds horrible!" to me a mindfuck is being shown a different side of yourself or being able to find a space in the world that only the two of you truly inhabit, part reality, part dream. it's not a horrible thing... many people in D/s relationships talk about growing together or specifically growing the sub into a better version of herself and to be honest no matter how much physical only punishment you give someone, a mindfuck is going to cause a more real and lasting change because it changes the mind of the person and makes them no longer need to do the thing they're getting punished for. it makes the submissive more dependent upon this person who knows and understands them in a more real way than any artificial circumstance that they could create because you can leave a room or a person but your mind being changed is way harder to escape, and most often you don't want to.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 6/14/2009 7:18:06 AM

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a power drill works quite well, unless i`m nowhere near a power point, then i would suggest a hammer.

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 6/14/2009 7:58:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: amoryblane

So,what does it take to get inside your head?

For me its a sadistic bastard, preferably with a shaved head, a decent sized cock and the complete knowledge of what to do with it....... i have simple requirements really.......

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RE: What does it take to get inside your head? - 6/14/2009 8:20:35 AM

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What is it that everyone means when you say someone "gets in your head?" Do Y'all mean you can stop thinkinh about them?....or a bad thing they said to you? At the risk of sounding stupid i never did understand what this meant.

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