Ialdabaoth
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Joined: 5/4/2008 From: Tempe, AZ Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Andalusite A lot of people seem to associate objectification with humiliation, or with turning people into furniture a la House of Gord. I've done body art (painting, felt tip pens, wax etc.) a few times, and while they are doing it, I feel like a canvas. I enjoy looking at artistic knife play, tattoos, branding, decorative needleplay, cell popping, etc., but either haven't had the opportunity to try them, or they're beyond my pain tolerance, or not something I really want to have on my skin for the rest of my life. That feeling of being a work of art in progress, where the focus isn't on me or my reactions, but on the beauty that is coming into being, feels very objectifying, but in a positive way. I'm curious if other people have a similar feeling during the process. Absolutely! As I've mentioned several times in posts here (and even in my profile), Objectification As Art is my whole raison d'etre, BDSM-speaking. Of course, everything I create has a pretty strong "performance art" aspect to it, so I tend to do a lot of training with my... ah... subjects? materials? canvas?... before the actual art-bit is ready. But yeah. I used to think that I just had a thing for kinky fashion and voyeurism-by-proxy, until I realized that what I really wanted was ultimately artistic in nature. Of course, given that what I'm trying to "communicate" involves helplessness, social embarrassment over sexual roles, ideas about attractiveness, and unacknowledged desires, it functionally manifests as "designing a bunch of restrictive and revealing fetish outfits, dressing up attractive girls in them, and then having them prance about in coreographed displays". Of course, it helps(?) that kink-wise, I have a serious Pygmalion thing going on - I establish sexual relationships most readily with my own creations, and by extension, with those who help me realize those creations.
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