LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn Um, I've been involved in something somewhat similar to this, and if someone contacted the authorities to "help me", I would have been seriously pissed off. Someone's not going to be in that type of situation unless it's agreed upon. If they showed this in a public setting to you, then he's fine with it. Otherwise, the conversation would have been a lot different. For those that say this isn't for them (from the dominant side), I think there's a major misunderstanding about this sort of thing. People tend to see it from a context of "what do I get out of it", and if your desire is not to keep someone captured, then you're not going to get anything out of it, and of course, you're going to see it as work on your part. Why people feel a need to criticize it because it's not for them is often what leaves me wondering. For some people, this is what they seek, both dominants and submissives. As for the OP, I would wonder why they were interested in you as a slave if you were so against this sort of activity in the first place. What had their conversations before this been about, because it just seems naturally odd that they'd bring you to their place and then suddenly reveal to you that they're into hard core captivity. Personally, it sounds more like a fantasy someone concocted and then decided to post. As someone who has actually been in this type of circumstance, I know that it doesn't just fall into someone's lap that easily. This is one of those things you spend a long time searching for, and that's just with one person as the dominant. Three women? Usually I read about those types of cases in the context of "I never believed those stories before until it happened to me. One day, I was wandering lost into a college sorority when all of the sudden...." For the exact same reason that I say the same thing in other areas. At best, the story in the OP is fantasy fulfillment for the sub and at worst, it is fantasy for the person who wrote it. Just as you pointed out in your last paragraph. Personally, I thought it was bs and I still happen to think so. On a short term basis, such as a few hours at a time or perhaps a weekend, confining someone with only bathroom breaks and five minute showers wouldn't be a huge investment. A period of four months is a lot more work for the person on the outside of the cage. Very much the same as if you put a four legged pet in a kennel for the same amount of time. Food, water, exercise, medical, financial.... the list goes on and on. Sorry, but there isn't enough in it for some of us in return. Just to say I have a 'pet' when I could otherwise have a pet that is functioning in My life, rather than one I'm keeping in a cage? That's not enough for Me. I'd rather own someone who can be an interactive part in all of My life instead. Sorry if My comments offended you because this happens to be your kink, but situations where the D type has a greater investment than the s type just don't do it for Me. If it makes you feel any better, I say the same thing to ABs who try to convince Me that being their Mommy is D/s as well.
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