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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/3/2006 5:15:20 PM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		I am so glad to hear that. Keep the communication lines open with him. And the best of luck to you hun :)

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/3/2006 5:47:47 PM   
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we met online, so he'd grown to like my personality before ever seeing my pictures and ever meeting me face to face


Good for you! So glad to hear that you made a decision. (You can always tell that you have made a decision if an action flows from it)

By the way - the quote above - have you ever though about the concept <read fact> that a Womans personality and inner beauty and strength (even in submission) is often more beautiful, or at least just as beautiful to a man as Her outer looks and skin tone?

For this one, i have always been, and continue to long most for, that inner beauty and strength. That’s where the real action is. That’s what will endure. Stunning physical beauty - rather common, and always wears out. Inner beauty, character, class, nurturing, STRENGTH - far more compelling and endearing to me!

So next time you are judging your beauty - don't forget about the inside, K?

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/4/2006 5:44:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		If there's one thing I've learned about men, its this. They LOOK at beautiful girls, the have sex with them, they fantasize about them.... But they rarely commit to/marry them.

A pretty body and face is fun for a night or three, but it doesn't last. I'm 5ft3 and a size 14. I'm FAR from a supermodel and I used to always think guys were lying when they told me I was pretty.

Finally, I realized that most guys find different girls pretty in different ways...he thinks that Girl A is pretty because she's got big boobs and a tiny waist, he thinks Girl B is pretty because she's got a grabbable butt and long,shiny hair, he thinks Girl C is pretty because she's got a gorgeous face and lovely eyes...etc....And with that I was able to accept the fact that such and such guy REALLY did think I was pretty even if *I* thought I had a disgusting body.

Men like a pretty wide variety. What ultimately makes them choose one girl over another isn't how she looks...its her personality. It may sound cliche, but it's true.

Start noticing "happy" couples around you and you'll see that they are rarely the ideal of physical perfection.

To paraphrase a comedian I heard once, "I don't care how ugly you are...there's somebody out there who loves you!"

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/4/2006 6:58:23 AM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		O toy; you're a dollbaby. Congrats!!!!!!

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/4/2006 11:18:20 AM   
toy2serveu


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Status: offline 		lol I'm not sure what a dollbaby is...just someone kind of young? I'm going to enjoy the term unless and until I found out i shouldn't haha Thanks

Thanks to everyone again for the advice, and for giving me an outlet. It was an emotional rollercoaster, but it did a world of good for me, and for the relationship I have with him. I'm very happy that although I deleted my cm.com account, the boards were still open to me, it's helped tremendously and all virtually by accident. I didn't even know until I tried that i could actually post here!

I just want to add that I'm not completely superficial, I just never lacked confidence in my internal beauty, I knew he recognized that, it was just physically that I was unsure. It's hard to have grown up always being told how beautiful people think you are, then suddenly, to the ONE person who matters most...you doubt how they see you and the attraction there. Now I feel like it's complete, that he does love me inside and out, and that's something I really needed. I'd never be happy being loved just for who I am inside, that to me is a friendship, a lover has to be turned on by the one they're with in all aspects, for me anyhow.

Thanks everyone, you've helped me greatly!

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/4/2006 2:50:46 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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Status: offline 		LOL Now that I can see that the OP has been given excellent advice can I just ask if I am the only one who read the subject as:

This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put it! ...and thought...O my goodness, hurry, someone get an anatomy book, we have a serious emergency here!

Cin <~ who's really glad toy2serveu does know where to put it...just not guite how to put it there best. ::cheeky grin::

PS: Yes, practice often makes perfect...but in this case even if it doesn't...it's fun as hell.

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/4/2006 4:11:24 PM   
Oumae


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Status: offline 		The replies before have been excellent and seem to have helped you with the crux of the problem... just one suggestion on the actual doing it. Try on top facing away from him, the different angle might help you with lifting higher up off him without losing him.

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/4/2006 6:19:08 PM   
toy2serveu


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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

LOL Now that I can see that the OP has been given excellent advice can I just ask if I am the only one who read the subject as:

This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put it! ...and thought...O my goodness, hurry, someone get an anatomy book, we have a serious emergency here!

Cin <~ who's really glad toy2serveu does know where to put it...just not guite how to put it there best. ::cheeky grin::

PS: Yes, practice often makes perfect...but in this case even if it doesn't...it's fun as hell.


LOL That's true, I didn't read it that way until you mentioned it, very funny!

And thanks for the tip about trying it backwards, that does sound like fun too, thanks to everyone in general again, this really gave my submission a kick in the ass, I needed it. Of all limits to have, not getting on top was a pretty strange one. We're both happy now to know I have none, it's spectacular!

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/4/2006 8:50:13 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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ORIGINAL: toy2serveu
And thanks for the tip about trying it backwards, that does sound like fun too,


I wasn't the person who gave you the tip, but I can concur that it's a good one for those of us with short legs...In the porn industry it's known as the Reverse Cowgirl. So ride that bronking buck, girly and enjoy!!! LOL

Cin

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/5/2006 1:39:38 AM   
krys


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Status: offline 		Try leaning forward and moving your hips back and forth instead of just bouncing up and down. Rolling your hips forward and back. You're going for stimulation, not air time, so straight up and down is rarely the way to go. Instead of riding his cock so its at a 90 degree angle to his body, go for about a 45 degree angle. Where your clit rubs against his pubic bone with every thrust. (Yummy)

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RE: This is a sex question, I didn't know where to put ... - 2/5/2006 9:48:58 AM   
toy2serveu


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Status: offline 		Cin, sorry, I was trying to reply fast and didn't look back to see who it had been, was hoping they'd know and recognize it, and yes, i will enjoy the bucking, thanks! lol

Thanks for the leaning forward and more of a grind tip krys, I'll try that too.

Thanks everyone for the new tricks!

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