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MainFragger -> Photographic Humiliation.. (5/1/2009 11:48:02 PM)

I wonder how many people on here could take it if someone forced them to strip, took pictures of them doing all sorts of sick things, and then threatened to send the pics to friends and familiy. Do your relatives know how depraved you really are? I'd love to show them!




GreedyTop -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 12:01:33 AM)

none of my family would be especially shocked.




breatheasone -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 12:22:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

none of my family would be especially shocked.

LMFAO!!!.... that was totally my answer TOO GT....[:D]
edited to add:
It would go something like this....  
"Awww did she REALLY go there?"....    "OMG, how did they get that in THERE??"
Then there would be some head shaking as they passed the pictures back...




Ingpet -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 12:22:37 AM)

I have to say I couldn't take that sort of pressure, honestly, but the idea is nice >.>




RCdc -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 3:43:55 AM)

Ha... GT are our family related?
 
In all seriousness though, I just find that a pretty lame head fuck.  If you DID go ahead and show someones family, makes you a pretty crap person over all. Showing someones father their so called depraved acts?  Creepy with a mega capital C.   As a head fuck, I just couldn't believe someone would be that low involving people who hadn't wanted to be involved in their nieces or daughter or sons or father sex/service life so would have a hard time believing it.
 
the.dark.




Sunnyfey -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 3:49:14 AM)

.... too late buddy boy. Mom found my stash of homemade porn years ago.

that was an interesting conversation.

Mom: "whats this?"
Me "Mine...."
Mom "Hide it better next time"
Me "How often do you lift the bathroom ceiling tiles to "dust" them anyway?"
Mom: "Apparently not often enough"
Me: "Stay out of my air conditioning ducts for future reference."




thishereboi -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 3:49:17 AM)

Most of the people in my family would care less. However, if someone threatened to do this to me, it would not go over well. If a dominant wants to screw around and mind fuck me that is one thing. When they start trying to drag my family into it, it becomes a hard limit.




oceanwinds -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 4:34:31 AM)

That is your kink and so be it.

To me just be a dom that i am grateful that i am not serving.




SultryMomma -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 5:06:21 AM)

FR...Some of my family knows. If they saw pictures they would probably think and complain about me not inviting them to join, LOL. Certain family members do not know,(my dad, my husbands real mom)  but I think they have some clue, especially my dad. It probably wouldn't shock them, but, it would be a conversation that I wouldn't be too comfy talking about.

SM
(Kris)




windchymes -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 5:57:01 AM)

It's not like they never heard of kinky or made photos of their own, we didn't invent it.  Even the most self-righteous of bible-beaters have dirty little secrets.




marysdream -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 6:06:45 AM)

well the first thing that stood out is the word "forced" i have a great deal of difficulty with that term...it does not in any way constitute SSC.....so cannot wrap my mind around your rant!
have a good one
ree!




mdr080480 -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 6:43:17 AM)

Since it's basically me and my mom left, no close siblings, my grandmother is legally blind, and I'm not really that close with other family, nor could I care what they think, I wouldn't mind much. It's my mom I'd hate to disappoint, she's never been a snoop, never spied on me, so she might not even view the photos before shredding them. I'd like to protect my mom the most from many of my deviations. As for friends seeing the pics, they can like me or hate me, but they know me.

As for the blackmail aspect, I'd say do with the photos what you will, and I would no longer have contact with someone like that.




Fitznicely -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 6:50:09 AM)

My parents would shrug. her parents would wonder why W/we'd toned down O/our usual photographic style.

All in all, we're a pretty easygoing bunch...[:D]




littlewonder -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 7:37:51 AM)

I'd say go ahead, shrug my shoulders, walk away and never return. Not the type of person I would want to be with who would do such a thing if they actually did it and does nothing at all for my headspace so it wouldn't work as a mindfuck.




DesFIP -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 12:04:41 PM)

My response would be to contact my attorney and the authorities and institute civil and criminal charges.

FFS my father's 82 years old with some dementia. What sort of sick human being gets a thrill by upsetting an ill, elderly man?




sirsholly -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 12:11:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MainFragger

I wonder how many people on here could take it if someone forced them to strip, took pictures of them doing all sorts of sick things, and then threatened to send the pics to friends and familiy. Do your relatives know how depraved you really are? I'd love to show them!
forced? What you are talking about is criminal.

Oh...and btw...if "forced to strip and do all sorts of sick things" i would still not look half as stooopid as a grown bearded man dressed like a nun [8|] (nice avatar pic, cupcake)




Lucylastic -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 12:21:02 PM)

Id hunt you down and de bag you..my family wouldnt give a shit  but, me??? thats a whole different ball of wax:)
its that whole "force" thing.
Mind fuck, is so different, but non consent, is the boundary for me.
Lucy






DemonKia -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 2:12:03 PM)

Welcome to the 'peer review' process that is the CM message boards.

You may have participated in 'critique' in art classes; well, you've just participated in BDSM critique . . . . . . Hopefully you've got a thick enough skin to take it . . . . . .

It is meant well, the above posters are doing 'educational service', & I for one thank them . . . . .

Personally, I use photography for 'healing' purposes (around body image & such), with myself & with other women who've allowed me . .. . . So, the scenario you've described doesn't have much resonance for my portion of the universe . . . . .

[:D]




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 3:10:54 PM)

Wow, there are teasing threats (mind fuck playing) and serious threats (type people actually carry out). This topic is a bit like how some people some people can or can not take a joke.

I don't see where the OP actually wrote about carrying the threat out for real or not.








sweetsub1957 -> RE: Photographic Humiliation.. (5/2/2009 3:12:18 PM)

~Fast Reply~
(1) it's non-consensual.  i would NOT consent, and
(2) You would be forcing my family and friends to see something when they did not
      consent to see it.  Why would You want to possibly give my 89 year old father
     a heart attack?  Why would You want to bring my family into my private
     sex life?  i'm normally easy-going and don't swear a lot, but that is a totally fucked
     up thing to do.
(3) my sister knows a little of my kink but not all of it & the rest of my family knows
    none of it as far as i know.  i want it to stay that way.  Although if they did know,
    they would probably just shake their heads and say, "Oh for God's sakes, there
    she goes again.  What will she think of next?"
(4) If You did that, i would contact and attonrney take civil and criminal action against
    You.

i hope that answers Your question.




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