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Simple Question - 5/3/2009 2:28:49 PM   
subking87


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A domme asked me "why I should give it serious consideration" What should I say to her? I never answered this before.
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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 2:35:47 PM   
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Give what serious consideration?

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 2:37:01 PM   
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What is it?  Consider what?

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 2:40:04 PM   
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because I think it will be worth your while, and would benefit both of us.....Furthermore, I'm confident that you won't regret it, Ma'am...
 
How's that?  :)

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 2:47:26 PM   
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My guess is that she's one of those charming souls who refers to submissive men in direct speech as if they were things rather than people.  If it floats your boat to submit to someone who is ignorant of correct pronoun usage, have at it.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 2:48:54 PM   
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you'll have to clarify your question.  what did She want you to consider?  Or Her to consider for that matter?

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 2:50:11 PM   
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"It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again."

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 3:08:48 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: marie2

because I think it will be worth your while, and would benefit both of us.....Furthermore, I'm confident that you won't regret it, Ma'am...
 
How's that?  :)


Very nice, thank you so much and thanks to the other mistresses/subs who tried to help me.

And answer to your questions. She didn't say nothing, but serious consideration.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 3:14:53 PM   
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Well the communication between the two of you... as presented here, leaves a lot to be desired.  If you can't explain it... you have one thing to do.  Ask her to explain what she means and answer her.  You don't need us to have an adult relationship.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 3:29:55 PM   
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She might simply be wanting to see how you would express what you feel you would bring to the relationship.  I always enjoyed questions that started with, "I am willing to...".  I don't want to hear a man tell me how handsome he thinks he is or his penis size.  With a question like that I would expect to find through his answer clues to how humble he was, whether he was looking out mainly for himself or truly wanting to please, and at least an inkling of something that would show me whether we were compatible.  I never liked answers like, "I'll do whatever you want".  Then the person seemed to needy and vague.  

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 3:45:12 PM   
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Is the "it" you?

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 5:47:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

"It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again."



Hahaha!  You are awesome, Maam.



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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 9:29:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subking87

quote:

ORIGINAL: marie2

because I think it will be worth your while, and would benefit both of us.....Furthermore, I'm confident that you won't regret it, Ma'am...
 
How's that?  :)



Very nice, thank you so much and thanks to the other mistresses/subs who tried to help me.

And answer to your questions. She didn't say nothing, but serious consideration.


so...question, the next time she ask you something will you come here again seeking advice? or an answer? she is asking something of  you in hopes you will tell her about you...

personally, i find communication a priority, even if one can't get the words "in the right order"...at least you are communicating.  no rehearsed lines or something copied from the net...be you and if you dont know how to answer something, be honest with her and say so.

i'm  just saying...


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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 10:34:12 PM   
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This question "Why should I seriously consider you?" reminds me of college admissions letters (Except those never get read).

The prompt is not so important, as is the opportunity to write something someone will read. It doesn't matter if you answer the question or not (though that reflects on you). If you want this person to be your dominant, use this opportunity to wow them. Explain what submission is to you, how you know you're a submissive, positive changes a dominant could have on your life, your BDSM history, what your life goals are, what you want to do outside of the D/s dynamic (unless this is not a 24/7 thing), what your good/bad habits are, why you want a dominant, what you'd be willing to endure for your dominant... etc.

Most of this does not approach, strictly speaking, "Why should I seriously consider you?" The reason the answer does not respond to the question is because it's a dumb question. Luckily, it's shorthand for a more useful prompt which should read:

"I want to know more about you, but also ensure this dynamic remains in place."

By the way, you (Subking) look like a mix of Jason Lee and Chris Klein. In a good way.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/3/2009 11:15:18 PM   
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Why would you come here to ask who someone would consider you as a sub? I doubt many peole know you or the characteristics that you embody. Are you just looking for things that would impress a Domme?

If you can sell yourself to someone, then maybe you should reconsider if you're ready to be a submissive to someone.


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RE: Simple Question - 5/4/2009 5:17:52 PM   
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Okay, mis-use of pronouns aside, I am going to assume that "it" is in reference to her taking you on as a submissive.

With an open ended question like this you get to be creative!  You get to be persuasive!  You can soar to the zenith of literary thing-a-ma-bobbery!

This is where you get to unload that 'laundry list' of interests, likes, dis-likes and kinks.  Tell her about what a sterling fellow you are!
Read her profile again and make connections between you and what she has written in it.  You did read her profile... right?.. The whole profile?

Tongue out of cheek for just a second...  You  do get to be creative, but don't brag.  It ain't bragging if you can do it !

Okay, back on point.  You can tell her about how you carry a hip knife, shoulder knife, boot knife and a knife that's a combination magnifying glass , ploice whistle and compass.  You couls tell hae about.........................................................................<Gasp>

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RE: Simple Question - 5/4/2009 7:25:26 PM   
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Do you think that sometimes the communication problem lies with the dominant? I dont mean to sound bratty but submissives are not mind readers.
quote]ORIGINAL: Lockit

Well the communication between the two of you... as presented here, leaves a lot to be desired.  If you can't explain it... you have one thing to do.  Ask her to explain what she means and answer her.  You don't need us to have an adult relationship.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/4/2009 9:15:16 PM   
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quote:

A domme asked me "why I should give it serious consideration"

She is obviously talking about your penis. Why should she give it serious consideration? When you think up a good answer let her know.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/4/2009 9:36:56 PM   
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LOL Lashra... I so did not expect that!

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RE: Simple Question - 5/5/2009 8:02:20 AM   
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LOL, I assumed "it" was the relationship....

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